Males presenting themselves

For most male physical exams, the preliminary parts of the exam are the build-up to that one point that you've been anticipating. Ultimately, the time comes when you are instructed to present yourself fully and completely to your examiner. If you're still wearing underwear, you are instructed to lower it or remove it completely, thus removing the last bit of protection for your modesty. Often you're asked to stand before your examiner, hands nervously held at your sides, with your legs parted slightly to provide better access to everything hanging between them. You're now ready. Your examiner begins their intimate inspection of your scrotum, testicles and penis.

Now here's the question: If you had a choice, what state would you like your genitals to be in as you present yourself?

Or to put it another way, what kind of first impression do you want your examiner to have of your manhood? Do you prefer to be slightly aroused, with a penis that is thicker and longer than your normal flaccid state? Do you want the skin of your scrotum to be loose, allowing your testicles to freely hang between your legs? Choosing these options would probably mean that you'd like to impress your examiner with your physical prowess. On the other hand, would you prefer that your penis is small and shriveled, and your scrotum is so tight that they can't even detect that you have any testicles! Choosing this option likely means that you're craving humiliation and embarrassment.

And is your choice different if your examiner is a man vs a woman? Is it different for a play exam vs a real exam?

Interesting questions! I had never thought much about this. Whether the examiner is a male or female, I want everything relaxed and hanging low and loose, as the saying goes. In that state, the penis, scrotum and testes are easiest to examine effectively, and show neither diminished size or evidence of arousal.

I guess the typical position for male genital examinations does not compare to that of a female in the lithotomy position, in stirrups, for a pelvic exam, but I find having to present my genitalia for a doctor to examine extremely humiliating. To have to stand directly in front of, and close to, a doctor seated on a stool, my genitalia at his eye level, to be visually and manually examined, is far more embarrassing than bending over the table for his cold, slippery finger.

As I have mentioned elsewhere, probably several times, the humiliation of being examined, even by a male, causes conflicting emotions in me. During the exam, I am embarrassed and just want it to be over. After I am safely out of the office, I am in an excited state that is clearly some form of arousal. I need female attention or have to masturbate.

I would want my scrotum to be loose and low hanging. I have a tendency to get erect pretty easily, but I would want to present myself flaccid but still longer than normal.

I always look down to see the state of my genitals as I'm being examined and I've had both ways. I remember once looking down and thinking "my dick looks small today." Other times I've watched on as the doctor examined me with a full erection.

I honestly could not care less. The doc is not the least bit interested in how I present. The only thing the doc and I care about is if all is well.

For me, as a gay man, if the np/doctor is female, I want things hanging loose, easy to access, unstimulated: quick check. If the np/doctor is male, the path divides. For my current, straight, young doctor, ditto to above. With some of my gay doctors, especially older gay doctors, some arousal- never to the point of Clark's pics from his exams, is fine, and standing naked never an issue requiring rush.

I always prefer to have a female doc.. as the opportunity to get excited/nervous for these exams only comes once or twice a year, and I don't nearly get the same level of excitement as a straight male with male docs. I must say I've never had a fully erect penis prior to my genital exam regardless of my examiner... I'm sure this would be quite embarrassing and perhaps too obvious that I enjoy that part.. In fact during my last physical exam when the female physician assistant told me she had to do a hernia exam I believe I accidentally let out a half smile of excitement! Whoops haha but back to the topic.. I prefer to have my penis semi-erect and my testicles hanging loose.. I believe it reflects my inner self trying to maintain calmness but eager/excited at the same time!

These sentiments are regardless of the doc's gender. They are in regards to "if i had a choice on how i would like my genitals to be presented"

Of course, i'd want my scrotum to be perfect. Not too small & tight, but not so loose & dangling either. So kinda tight, but not too tight. Enough to appear healthy manly. Hoping it looks somewhat appealing to touch, and not gross looking.

The ideal state of my cock would be semi or near semi. Not shriveled up into some quarter inch purple tip, but not fully erect either. Again, enough to look healthy manly. (And of course if were having my physical in a jockstrap, naturally I would want to be sporting a nice, healthy bulge.)

If I were to have an erection at this point in the program, my psychotic mind would enter worry mode. I would worry that it will make the doctor uncomfortable. My mind would what and how a male and female doctor are respectively thinking. Sure, health care professionals would tend to tell you either at the time during the exam, or any time in a conversation like now, "Oh we've seen it all.", or "Don't worry, we see it all the time, it's natural." Those dismissive comments intended to ease the awkwardness do not work effectively to dispel what goes through my mind, much as those comments may very well be meant sincerely and honestly.

Now, a play exam would be a different story. That aforementioned worry mode would be non existent. If the play doc had the desire to rise to the challenge of getting patients to rise to the occasion, and would therefore want to have a semi to start with that s/he could watch grow and feel a sense of achievement / success at causing to happen, then i would want to have that for them. Otherwise, a "play" exam would certainly entail an invite to "play" with my genitals, and certainly an erection would be nicer for the play doc to play with.(love this play on words)

Or in the case of a play exam, should it BE left to my cock to decide. If the doc is attractive, alluring, &/or making me feel sexy, my cock will likely decide to be hard and be present. If something is a turn off during the play exam, my cock would reflect that too in its body language. For my cock is honest & upstanding. (It just sometimes spends too much of my money online, being a little too horny sometimes).

Besides not wanting to get an erection (which has never happened to me), I've never cared about the appearance of my genitals during an exam.

My current doctor is a slightly nerdy, married man with kids. I'm sure he could care less about the aesthetics of my genitals and I could care less what he thinks... ?

Why is it that males especially younger ones tend to be so focused on the genital exam that is the quickest part of the whole examination.

Are you motivated by humiliation or enjoy exposing yourself ?

Then we have group physicals. Ones in the old school military when all the guys were presenting naked from the start, when any arousal would attract unwanted attention by examiners, which would also be true of sports physicals, based on posts here, when peers would harass someone for showing wood. In both situations, however, the more 'impressive' the shower not grower size, the more the positive reactions for the most part.

I think it is because everything we have is on the outside. With females it is all on the inside.

Why is it that males especially younger ones tend to be so focused on the genital exam that is the quickest part of the whole examination. Are you motivated by humiliation or enjoy exposing yourself ?

Motivated by humiliation? Sure, sometimes I think I am.

Enjoy exposing yourself? Absolutely, don't you?

Think of it this way. We males focus on the genital exam because that's the part of our body that is considered private. It is generally considered acceptable for males to go shirtless. Therefore, it's no big deal for that part of our body to be examined in the privacy of an exam room. It's nothing out of the ordinary to us. But we've all been taught that as good little boys, it's not socially acceptable to ever show our genitals -- doing that is forbidden. Now we find ourselves in an exam room, standing in front of a male or female examiner and are about to reveal to them those same parts of our body. We've always been told to keep that part private, but now we're exposing it on command.

For me, that's why we focus on our genitals. It's not about the percentage of the time it takes for the genital exam as compared to the total time for the entire exam. It's about the rush we feel when we are commanded to expose ourselves in a way that we've always been told is forbidden!

Great question.

My perfect scenario: Female examiner younger than I am. I am fully dressed from the beginning (which gives me a false sense of security, plus gowns are overrated). The clothes come off bit by bit till I'm just in my underwear.

When that time comes, I push the boxer-briefs down farther than they need to go, to my ankles. My penis is normal-sized and my testicles hanging loosely in my scrotum. When the time comes to turn around, I step out of my underwear completely and spread my knees farther than I need to so she gets a nice view of my hanging balls.

When I turn back around, I'm completely naked and put my underwear back on only when told to do so because she's in control.

Why is it that males especially younger ones tend to be so focused on the genital exam that is the quickest part of the whole examination. Are you motivated by humiliation or enjoy exposing yourself ?

How cool would it have been if i'm a college student being asked to write an essay on this question, & i have Mizz Lenka as my professor, providing this topic for the essay ?

This is the part of the exam males will change their feeling about over time. Males start out young, timid, shy, embarrassed, not comfortable in their own skin, Allowed to keep our privates private. Now we're put in a room alone with a doctor that was chosen for us. A unique situation, something we're not used to having to do with anyone else. And that is, show our privates to someone who's relatively a stranger to us.

We have no choice in the matter. We're not comfortable with this because we never have to show our privates to anyone. And here we are, in the presence of an authority figure who will look at and touch us where no one else does.

The awkwardness stays with us, year after year. You know what's coming, and an anticipation builds. You're not looking forward to it, because it's embarrassing and uncomfortable. "What's the big deal? It's only a few quick seconds."

Those "few seconds" can seem longer. if the doc instructs you to lower your undies and expose yourself while reaching in the drawer and putting on gloves or doing anything else, you may be standing there for a few seconds between the time the doc instructs you to lower your undies and the time the doc actually comes over and starts examining. Those seconds seem to last longer, the more shy, the more awkward, the more embarrassed you feel.

It also is the part of the exam you're most likely to change your disposition on over time. When you are very young, you're not used to hardly anyone seeing you & touching you, no one else instructing you to expose yourself, etc. As you get older, like fast forward all the way to now for me. I've been fully nude and touched, and ejaculated, in front of a countless number of masseuses. I've had sex partners. And I've had that many more annual physicals, as well as other medical procedures. That part of the physical isn't going to be as big of a deal as it was back when I was a young and inexperienced kid.

As far as the humiliation factor and exposing myself goes, humiliation is one of the worst things you can feel or experience when you are young. There is no appreciation of being humiliated. As time goes on, the concept of humiliation may become appealing, perhaps titillating to some. Or at least, simply goes away as we age and think of something as no big deal that we once considered humiliating.

Lastly, do i enjoy exposing myself ? As long as it's right time, right place, right audience, ABSOLUTELY. (but those conditions are essential)

You all get a zity biz "A" Good dialog. Please do not compare me to a professor I read other peoples lines and embellish them.

We are trained genitals should remain covered. Unlike the general public we dwell on the thoughts an enjoy it in erotic way

Mizz Lenka said

Why is it that males especially younger ones tend to be so focused on the genital exam that is the quickest part of the whole examination.

Are you motivated by humiliation or enjoy exposing yourself ?

SINCE YOU BROUGHT IT UP. . . .

so follow the replies:

JTMac said

How cool would it have been if i'm a college student being asked to write an essay on this question, & i have Mizz Lenka as my professor, providing this topic for the essay ?

Mizz Lenka said:

You all get a zity biz "A" Good dialog. Please do not compare me to a professor I read other peoples lines and embellish them.

We are trained genitals should remain covered. Unlike the general public we dwell on the thoughts an enjoy it in erotic way

Why isn't it fair to now compare you to a college professor assigning an essay? You did ask a question.

Would you explain what you mean by your statement: "We are trained genitals should remain covered. Unlike the general public we dwell on the thoughts an enjoy it in erotic way." This makes no sense.

It's been a long time since I've had to present myself for a physical. If it happened now, I suspect I would naturally have loose testicles as I normally do and I would definitely be flaccid. I'd just hope it wasn't so cold outside my dick was in hiding. I'd much prefer it was hanging with some length. It wouldn't matter if the doc was male or female.

I could not agree with this more that was posted above.

How cool would it have been if i'm a college student being asked to write an essay on this question, & i have Mizz Lenka as my professor, providing this topic for the essay ?

This is the part of the exam males will change their feeling about over time. Males start out young, timid, shy, embarrassed, not comfortable in their own skin, Allowed to keep our privates private. Now we're put in a room alone with a doctor that was chosen for us. A unique situation, something we're not used to having to do with anyone else. And that is, show our privates to someone who's relatively a stranger to us.

We have no choice in the matter. We're not comfortable with this because we never have to show our privates to anyone. And here we are, in the presence of an authority figure who will look at and touch us where no one else does.

The awkwardness stays with us, year after year. You know what's coming, and an anticipation builds. You're not looking forward to it, because it's embarrassing and uncomfortable. "What's the big deal? It's only a few quick seconds."

Those "few seconds" can seem longer. if the doc instructs you to lower your undies and expose yourself while reaching in the drawer and putting on gloves or doing anything else, you may be standing there for a few seconds between the time the doc instructs you to lower your undies and the time the doc actually comes over and starts examining. Those seconds seem to last longer, the more shy, the more awkward, the more embarrassed you feel.

It also is the part of the exam you're most likely to change your disposition on over time. When you are very young, you're not used to hardly anyone seeing you & touching you, no one else instructing you to expose yourself, etc. As you get older, like fast forward all the way to now for me. I've been fully nude and touched, and ejaculated, in front of a countless number of masseuses. I've had sex partners. And I've had that many more annual physicals, as well as other medical procedures. That part of the physical isn't going to be as big of a deal as it was back when I was a young and inexperienced kid.

As far as the humiliation factor and exposing myself goes, humiliation is one of the worst things you can feel or experience when you are young. There is no appreciation of being humiliated. As time goes on, the concept of humiliation may become appealing, perhaps titillating to some. Or at least, simply goes away as we age and think of something as no big deal that we once considered humiliating.

Lastly, do i enjoy exposing myself ? As long as it's right time, right place, right audience, ABSOLUTELY. (but those conditions are essential)

My ideal scenario is to face my female urologist. I unbuckle and unzip my pants with my legs spread apart. I let the pants fall to my ankles. I pull my boxer shorts down and let them fall to my ankles. Then I raise my shirt tale to completely expose my genitals. My scrotum hangs low and my penis is flaccid. The doctor places her hands on my scrotum and carefully exams each of my testicles. Then she slowly pushes my foreskin back and examines my glans. Then as she finishes, she draws her thumb and forefinger down the length of my penis causing an erectile response. I stand there now with a semi erection. Then she asks me to turn around. I turn and bend over the table, resting my head on the paper. I reach back and raise my shirt tail. My oenispenis and scrotum hang down between the ver of my legs. I feel the cool lubricant only anus and her finger pushes in slowly. All too soon the exam is over.

Whenever I get a regular physical the rectal exam is always none last. By that time my penis is completely limp. I really don't care what the doctor thinks about my penis or balls. I do get a little bit of a rise when they are inserting their finger into my ass, especially when done by a female.

And yet, looking back in time, it used to be the norm for males to expose their genitals in public, at beaches, at the YMCA, at ivy league colleges, because swimming was done in the nude. How different the answers here might have been from those men and boys who took presenting, if you will, as something totally usual, and not isolated to a one on one with a doctor.

If you are referring to RL, I really do not care either way.

I grew up swimming naked at the Y and really wasn't bashful about nudity around my parents when they saw me in the bath or in my room. I had the same doctor for a long time and I was not embarrassed when he did the genital check even in front of mom. When I got older and was examined by doctors I didn't know I was more embarrassed. I still enjoy fantasy.

My choice would be the same for either gender doctor in a play or "real" situation; that would be to have my testes relaxed and swinging in my relaxed scrotum while having my penis in a semi-erect state. I agree with Jimmy that having my feet spread slightly further apart after underwear removal gives the doctor some "working room" for a more thorough testicular exam.

Play exam: well, it depends on how aroused I am throughout the previous parts of the exam. I won't fight an erection, but if it happens, it happens.

Real life: I'd prefer my genitals to be in a state that causes no feelings of impropriety or unprofessional conduct to doctor or patient. Really. I enjoy the real life exam, but I'm there for a legitimate reason.

@Switchablesusie

SINCE YOU BROUGHT IT UP. . . .

so follow the replies:Why isn't it fair to now compare you to a college professor assigning an essay? You did ask a question.

Would you explain what you mean by your statement: "We are trained genitals should remain covered. Unlike the general public we dwell on the thoughts an enjoy it in erotic way." This makes no sense.

Oops!...I Did It Again ! https://youtu.be/CduA0TULnow Sorry I forgot to take my medication the thought of all these guys exposing their manhood overstimulated me.

It's interesting how my view has changed about the genital portion of a exam.

Like most boys, I was told it was socially unacceptable to touch, scratch or "adjust" your privates. How that changes when a random day comes an your doctor says "drop your pants." Now, every year the anticipation gets less as you know what's coming at the end of exam.

I prefer or ideally have my penis either flaccid or slightly erect. To me it's embarrassing an awkward to have penis shrinkage or a full erection. I always prefer my scrotum and balls to be loose and hang. I know it's more comfortable and assume it's also better the doctor if your scrotum and balls hang loose.

Luckily, only once did I never had "major shrinkage and tightness" of my dick and balls. After the doctor was done, my balls felt like a combination of "blue balls" and being punched/kicked in the balls.

While I'm "presenting myself" hoping the following does happen. Besides "shrinkage" no chaperone. I can't stand when the doctor pulls or helps you pull your underwear down. Then walk around the room putting on the exam gloves and you standing with your boxers around your ankles. Then my favorite of all: Starts a conversation sports, news or the weather while holding onto your dick or balls. Then I get embarrassed because usually I'll start getting hard.

Never yet had an erection on a normal medical and I have had a fair few. Now a play medical is a totally different ball game!?

And yet, looking back in time, it used to be the norm for males to expose their genitals in public, at beaches, at the YMCA, at ivy league colleges, because swimming was done in the nude. How different the answers here might have been from those men and boys who took presenting, if you will, as something totally usual, and not isolated to a one on one with a doctor.

The high school gym locker room; back in the day at many schools, it was MANDATORY to take a shower after PE class, and whether or not you liked being naked in front of your classmates didn't matter.

I submit the following premise for your consideration; that genital exams serve as a means of breaking down modesty.