It thrills me sexually that doctor has seen my wife nude

My wife, who at 65 is a bit older than I, normally is shy and retiring. However, she is comfortable being completely nude for her doctor, who also happens to be our neighbor. We attend the same church and associate in many of the same social circles. I must say that it thrills me sexually that he has seen her in the nude. When I see them talking together I wonder if he's imagining her nude.

Do you attend her exams? Do they turn you on?

No I have not attended but would like to. She says they are very casual about it and sometimes chat while she disrobes. He also remains in the room while she dresses following the examination and they continue to chat. She said that once when she had a sore shoulder he helped her off and on with her bra, pantyhose and girdle.

They must be pretty close if he helps her undress. Not saying anything inappropriate happens but that's not the usual practice and a doctor's office.

Oh I quite agree. However she is very matter of fact about it.

Makes me wonder about doctors and nurses. Like when I am at the clinic, I have no sexual feelings when nude or being examined. Usually I'm just nervous and hoping my health is good. But later at home it can be very erotic and stimulating to think about being examined.

Is it the same for doctors and nurses who might think about the patients they saw nude or that they did intimate invasive exams of earlier that day? Of course, professionalism prohibits a doctor or nurse from ever admitting it. So we'll never know but I still wonder.

Richard and Geo, all I can say it IT'S A JOB.

When we're at home with out partners, it's play time.

Work isn't anything like that.

As do I. When I see them together at social engagements or at church I wonder how he can "unremember" what he's seen.

In the more general sense, this is really about seeing your doctor professionally (getting an exam, etc) and also knowing them or meeting them outside of that professional relationship. Even though your neighbor (your wife's doctor) may be completely professional as her doctor, I can see how knowing them socially might be awkward at times. Knowing that they have intimately examined your wife, you might always wonder if they are remembering what she looks like, or thinking back to the last time she was examined by them. Maybe it's just a job to the medical professional, but it can be very awkward for the patient.

They don't appear awkward with the situation at all. They've known each other for many years. It's just that I get a twinge when I think of her standing nude in front of him, front, back and side, arms raised, which is what he has her do during the exam so he might notice any dermatological problems.

It's just that I get a twinge when I think of her standing nude in front of him

I think that's understandable. I would probably feel the same way. Whenever I interacted with the neighbor doctor socially, I would likely think about my wife standing in front of him and being examined. I would know that he is one of the few people in the world that, like me, has seen her intimately. In that sense, we both have something in common. For me at least, the idea is kind of hot!

It wouldn't be so bad if she weren't so damned voluptuous. It's hard for me to believe that he doesn't get aroused seeing her in the nude and in various stages of undress.

Perhaps I am enjoying this too much?

@Switchablesusie

I understand your point and I don't mean to impugn the professionalism of anyone in the medical field. For example I sometimes wonder if a doctor or nurse ever sits at home and smiles and day dreams 'hm that woman the other day sure had a sweet little butt', and daydreaming about her bare cheeks.

@Switchablesusie

. . . . . I sometimes wonder if a doctor or nurse ever sits at home and smiles and day dreams 'hm that woman the other day sure had a sweet little butt', and daydreaming about her bare cheeks.

Uhh, that would be NO.

The reason is there's always the next day when we would see and fondle so many more breasts, genitalia and and butt-holes it would be a waste of time thinking about those you have already seen and fondled.

I really thought this had been discussed this so many times in the past the answer would be evident. 😁 😁 😁

I couldn't resist.

Welcome to Zity, Geo !

Great thread to start out with.😃