Erections and medication

I have a question and I want to know if anyone else has this problem. I'm 59 years old and with medication my high blood pressure is under control. I cannot stimulate myself to an erection. I 'play' with myself, I watch porn and I remain totally flaccid. The only time ( and I'm not complaining) I get hard is during foreplay and my wife must rub me aggressively in order for me to become erect. That's ok, but every once and awhile when my wife is not in the mood,I need to masturbate and I can't.

Any suggestions?

Go talk to your GP. There are many potential reasons and only he or she would be able to accurately determine the cause via a thorough and frank conversation.

When I started HBP meds about 10 years ago, the first two, the most common, completely killed my ability to have an erection. My Doc kept trying different Meds. Some made it better, but he kept trying different ones until we found "THE ONE" Since then my BP is totally under control (with exercise and moderation in diet). My erections are as good as ever, although I will occasionally use Viagra, if I am expecting an extra long and vigorous workout. Just keep trying until you find what works for you. There's more than likely one that will work well. I'm 65 and still have sex or masturbate nearly every day with a nice hard erection.

Medicine can cause ED but so can many disease processes. Talk to your doctor about it and get properly evaluated.