Assisted Shower

Has anyone had an assisted shower? I'm sure whilst in hospital it's a fairly common occurrence.

Being disabled I often receive help with having a shower. Most of the time it is a female carer. It's interesting how some wash the genital region without hesitation, some make a point of not doing it and offering a wash cloth instead. I don't expect them to wash that region.

During a recent hospital stay I was offered a shower by a lovely female nurse. I sleep naked and did so in hospital so was ready to be lifted on to a shower chair. Not a difficult task but 3 nurses took part, with me being naked throughout. It was hard not to get an erection!!

But whilst in the shower, happily chatting with the nurse, I got one of the biggest erections I've ever had. I apologised and suggested I was sure who was more embarrassed me or her. But it didn't stop her grabbing, well perhaps not grabbing, my cock and giving me a through clean.

Pity I was discharged later that day!!

The only assisted shower I have had was when I was in for bypass surgery. They gave me a bottle of special body wash which I think was a germ killer and I was supposed to wash with it twice before the big event. A male (dammit) nurse came in to assist me with the shower as I was already hooked to a rolling juice bag. He was very helpful but I would have preferred a female although I did wash my genitals myself. I made sure of that because I don't like to have a male touching me. If they had sent a female nurse to do it I would have let her do the whole me. They sent a teeny bopper in to give me the full body shave and that was fine. She even told me I didn't need to do the shower with the other half of that body wash bottle because she used the same stuff doing the shave.

My mother spent her last 11 years in a nursing home where there were also many men and I always wondered about how they got assisted washes. How thoroughly did they wash the genitals? Did they retract the foreskin for washing under it? Would that be considered sexual assault in today's climate?

Shower with a friend! I "assist" my wife in the shower all the time! Gotta make sure her breasts and butt and pussy are nice & clean! Also, support her from the front while I wash her back & butt...

How thoroughly did they wash the genitals? Did they retract the foreskin for washing under it? Would that be considered sexual assault in today's climate?

The nurse in the hospital gave a thoroughly good wash. I've received a bed bath where my foreskin was retracted for a good wash. She just did it, nothing was said. It took me by surprise I can tell you. I didn't consider it anything other than her doing her job

Only once after birth of my first child as so exhausted. Given a good rub down by a female assistant.

I had a couple assisted showers at the hospital when I was a teenager and had to have pretty major surgery. I was in the hospital for around a week, so I did get help taking a shower a few times. Mostly the nurse was there to make sure I didn't fall, but I did need a bit of help washing the lower half of my body, especially more so my backside than the front. I didn't get erect or anything like that as I was in a fair bit of pain still. Perhaps the worst part was is I already knew the nurse from outside of the hospital as she was a friend's mother. But at the same time, a familiar face was a bit comforting at the hospital too.

Showers with the one you love is so nice.

I have not had one for medical reasons and hope i dont have to but,just for fun with my loved one.

Peace,

Caz

I've been on both sides of this, as a caretaker, and also as a patient. I've bathed both men and women, and it is important to be attentive to the patient's comfort with what you're ding, while also still being thorough in cleaning them. I usually would give the washcloth or sponge to them if they were able, and direct them to spots they missed or needed to wash better. Sometimes it did involve just doing all the washing myself, and it was always best to just move along and do things as they need to be done, and the patient usually just is OK with it. Only times there was an objection was when a husband would not want a man bathing his wife, (the wife couldn't have cared less.) I did, however have more than one female come on to me afterwards. One 90 year old gal, who had led a quite interesting life, internationally, seemed to take the undressing and bathing as a sort of foreplay. But, I was able to politely divert her back into some clothing, and then she settled down. I thought it was wonderful that this widow still had it in her to hit on a guy 60 years younger, while she's standing naked in front of him!

As a patient, I've only been given a bed bath by a female nurse, who was very thorough, but careful with my very sensitive skin areas. She gave me the washcloth, at the end, to do under my shorts. I've had a number of times when I was standing, either at a sink or next to my bed, and a nurse or assistant came in. Some of them quickly said they would come back when I was finished, but one needed to give me a shot in my backside, and asked if she could do that, which I was fine with. I felt much better standing there, naked, getting the shot, than I did with those others who seemed awkward and went away quickly. When I'm a patient, I expect to be seen in whatever state of undress by whoever needs to see me. If they are professional, it isn't a problem, and I'd rather they just do whatever needs to be done. Otherwise, it may be a while before they can get back to you.

Im a lucky man, my partner caz will assist me in the shower, she washes my back with body wash, also pushes a soapy finger up my bum and massages my balls and cock ! whats not to love ?

I was in the hospital for 2 weeks due to severe pneumonia that was antibiotic resistant and I had a bed bath every other day which was done by a female aide every time except once. I felt more comfortable with the females since they just washed everything but the guy asked questions and I felt awkward the whole time. Once I started to get my strength back I took 2 assisted showers both with female aides. I was sat down on a seat with no back. The first one washed my entire body the 2nd did everything but my genitals but watched while I did them myself. I was too weak to get an erection.

Since I am a nurse, I can say with confidence that you guys talking about the nurses washing "ALL" of your body is bullshit.

Unless you are incapacitated, the nursing staff will always have you wash your "private parts" and they will help with the rest that you cannot reach.

I thought you were a Physician's Assistant not a nurse... Regardless my coffee is getting cold and it is not going to get itself so chop. chop, ASSISTANT.

You obviously have not yet googled the profession, PHYSICIAN Assistant.

When you finally do, you'll be the one with egg on your face.

SEE THIS:

https://www.mypatraining.com/physicians-assistant-or-physician-assistant/

I am going to follow Mark Twain's advice here, “Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.”

Susie said:

Since I am a nurse, I can say with confidence that you guys talking about the nurses washing "ALL" of your body is bullshit.

Unless you are incapacitated, the nursing staff will always have you wash your "private parts" and they will help with the rest that you cannot reach.

At risk of being spanked by Sooze I must relate my experience when in for bypass surgery in the latter part of the last century. They gave me a bottle of some special body wash saying I had to take two showers using it. For the first one a male nurse took me to the shower where he stayed to make sure I did as instructed and possibly to be sure I didn't fall down. Later, back in bed a young girl came in to shave me. She was what I would have called a candy striper years ago. She used something to slather me up everywhere she was going to shave which included my cock and balls. She didn't shave the scrotum but did do up close to it which meant lifting them up to get the area underneath and moving my penis around to shave next to it. She rinsed and wiped everything off as she went then she said "you don't have to take the second shower with that bottle because I used the same stuff when I shaved you". For which I was eternally grateful as I was not too comfortable having a male nurse watching me shower.

When I had my bypass a candystriper or maybe a nurses Aide would come in with towels and I would tell her to leave them and my wife would help me. She never did and after about day 2 I felt pretty skunky. I never did get a bath or an enema in the 4 days I was in and had a hell of a time taking a shower when I got home. I think next time I'm going to suck it up and just have them do it even though she was pretty young. I'm sure seeing some old guys bits won't be a big deal to her. I did have one nurse demand to give me a shot in the ass, I think she thought I had a nice ass. The rest were in the arm. I could have cared less. I also got put in a room next to the nurses station and had to listen to them all night long about their sex lives. I told the nurse in the morning that doggie was my favorite and she made sure the door was closed the next night. LOL

Susie said: At risk of being spanked by Sooze I must relate my experience when in for bypass surgery in the latter part of the last century. . . . .

What you described is actually very reasonable and accurate.

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I also got put in a room next to the nurses station and had to listen to them all night long about their sex lives. I told the nurse in the morning that doggie was my favorite and she made sure the door was closed the next night. LOL

You could have gotten up and opened your door. Most nurses' stations have a half high wall or high counters around them so you could have still heard what they were saying. I'm sure hearing their talk was good for fantasizing during your stay at the hospital.

I'm sure hearing their talk was good for fantasizing during your stay at the hospital.

I just had my chest cracked and had tubes everywhere. The only thing I was interested in was sleep and morphine. She could have given me a lap dance and I would have complained.

Laughing, sneezing and coughing are definitely on the "DO NOT DO" list after your ribs are cut open with a bolt cutter and wired back together.

Having that operation is on my do not do list. I am going back to the Cardiologist here in a few weeks so keep your fingers crossed.

I am going back to the Cardiologist here in a few weeks so keep your fingers crossed.

Fingers crossed for you - hope all is well.

Laughing, sneezing and coughing are definitely on the "DO NOT DO" list after your ribs are cut open with a bolt cutter and wired back together.

I thought it was more like a Skilsaw.

Last week I asked my wife what happened to the cough pillow they gave me and she said she didn't know. I think she donated it to the cat's bed and won't admit it. I was thinking it might be good to use as a pillow. I don't like big pillows and my neck's beginning to hurt in the morning since I got that 6" thick foam rubber topper for the mattress to sooth her back.

Having that operation is on my do not do list. I am going back to the Cardiologist here in a few weeks so keep your fingers crossed.

How long has it been since and what did they do? They sent me to the cardiologist before starting cardiac rehab. They were unmerciful. I didn't know a treadmill could go that fast or tilt that high. The nurse standing behind me with the cattle prod kept me on that thing for an eternity.

I had one a few months ago while in hospital for complications from "simple" surgery. It was a male PCA (personal care attendant). He washed my hair, back and butt and I did my front.

How long has it been since and what did they do? They sent me to the cardiologist before starting cardiac rehab. They were unmerciful. I didn't know a treadmill could go that fast or tilt that high. The nurse standing behind me with the cattle prod kept me on that thing for an eternity.

They used to put me on the treadmill but I am on some drugs that keep my heart rate from going up so they were never satisfied with my heart rate. Now they give me a shot which I think dilates the arteries. It can make the heart pound or give you a headache but the last time it didn't do much. I haven't had it done for 2 years since it takes all day and is a pain in the ass. They inject you with radioactive dye. I originally had the bypass done in 2005 and it is still going. I am dreading the day it has to be redone. Not a fun procedure. I am going in on Aug 9 and am not looking forward to it.

I can't speak to shower assistance personally, but I know how it works for my Mother-in-Law almost 90 yrs old in an assisted living facility. She receives some services (including help with showering) from the local health authority which maintains a presence at the facility allowing seniors to remain in assisted living vs a full care (more expensive) facility. She receives showering through them twice a week and is always (even at almost 90 yrs old) encouraged to do as much of her privates washing herself. In fact one of her favorite care aides is male and she and he have talks about "the girls" and "the privates" 😃. He generally will hand her a soapy wash cloth and patiently let her do the washing on her own. He (even though male while she is female) does seem to be one of her favorite caregivers since he does his job with a conversational ease she appreciates. She even had to make sure to do a Christmas card specifically for him last holiday season. Having met him, he is a nice guy and does an excellent job of recalling a great variety of resident and their families' names in this 300+ care facility. I commented to him once about how well he worked with her and helped her maintain dignity even in showering. He said that is absolutely the norm for him and felt like it needed to be offered to anyone who valued and could do it themselves.

I had a suspected heart problem a few years ago so had a couple of nights in hospital. During my stay I was offered the chance to take a shower which I was glad to take advantage of. I took my shower but during it got soap in my eyes so when I was pulling on a cord which I thought was turning the shower off I accidently pulled on the red emergency assistance cord by accident. This must have set off an alarm in the nurse's room because the next thing I knew a nurse came rushing in asking what the matter was. Unfortunately she seemed pretty annoyed with me for pulling the wrong cord.

She should have spanked you.

This must have set off an alarm in the nurse's room because the next thing I knew a nurse came rushing in asking what the matter was. Unfortunately she seemed pretty annoyed with me for pulling the wrong cord.

The nursing staff does not take well to "emergencies" that aren't emergencies.

My husband wanted to see how long he could hold his breath when I had him mummified and while being monitored by a Pulse-ox set to alarm at 85%. We came running because we suspected the worst.

My two friends and I DID spank him--HARD.

Roscoe & Susie, it was a genuine mistake and I did apologies and she went away but I'll admit I would have accepted a good spanking over her knee on my still bare bottom but sadly that's not NHS policy.

Roscoe & Susie, it was a genuine mistake and I did apologies and she went away but I'll admit I would have accepted a good spanking over her knee on my still bare bottom but sadly that's not NHS policy.

I think you should work to have it added to the approved procedures for those who need one.

My husband wanted to see how long he could hold his breath when I had him mummified and while being monitored by a Pulse-ox set to alarm at 85%. We came running because we suspected the worst.

My two friends and I DID spank him--HARD.

Mummified and alarmed. You never cease to amaze. Too bad you were never an astronaut now that would be some kinky shit.