Switch to male gyno?

I’ve always had female gynecologists because I just think they are able to relate more and help you better if you’re having a problem. But lately I’ve been thinking of switching to a male. I know it’s stupid because the only reason I’d be doing it is to live out a fantasy as much as I can without it actually being inappropriate. I get very turned on by gyno porn and I just want something more. Is this dangerous? Should I not do it?

My wife switched to a male years ago She went to the practices website and it Had pictures of the doctors as well as there experience. She does not get turned on during exams, but prefers a male. I have been to a couple of her exams and enjoy watching.

Dee900 its difficult to offer an opinion as personal choice , likes dislikes ,comfort level, their experience and qualification , competence, beside manner plays a essential role in selecting a gynecologist.

Switching is not dangerous per say, but if you are only doing it to "live out a fantasy" then I would give it serious consideration as your health is the overriding factor and you want a competent experience professional. Someone who you feel comfortable about discussing your reproductive health , who has the necessary , skills and knowledge to ensure you receive the best care.

I prefer male doctors at this specialization. It is not connected with fantasy. Maybe only I had a unpleasant meetings with women...but I had exam in four other gyno and they're very nice. They never done me something wrong or scream (like women). They always hear me and asking about it, if they know that something was wrong. E.g. I never hear that man was talking that painful period is was fabrication. They are take care my health and very open in this topic. They're very gentle while exams. But porn aren't 'normal' life and that you had fantasy and you seen gyno category on porn site aren't nothing wrong. It was only fantazy.

I've only had male gynecologists and I've never had a problem. Even though I've never seen a female for this specialty, I've had female GPs and I found them to be abrupt and cold. That being said, I've switched to all male doctors and I've found all of them to be kind, warm, comforting, and gentle.

In my humble opinion, I think you should do it. I think there are a significant number of women out there who would never go to a male ob/gyn and would never be "turned on" by any type of gynecological exam. But I believe there are also a fair number of women out there, who are secretly turned on by having a male gynecologist. A few of these women are willing to admit it, but many are not. As long as you are going to the appointment for the right reasons and you are getting the medical attention you need, why not throw a little thrill in there too! The male gynecologists are perfectly capable of addressing your medical needs, so I don't think you are sacrificing anything to do it. Try it out and let us know how it goes...

This is how I see my wifes gyn exams through my eyes- I think my wife's male gyn enjoys examining her as she is a young, fit, and tan woman. He is an older traditional type gyn who believe it or not I have heard lecture before as I met him not that long ago through a mutual health network. He would always say it should be you and her with you examining her breasts, not taking her word that her boyfriend checks them. One of the many memorable lines lol. Anyway, I know this guy enjoys his work but he has never "crossed a line" and my wife would be in court for knocking his teeth out if he did. However he is semi-retired and my wife is one of the patients he still sees on his 2-3 days a week in office. We know and agree he is thorough because of a likely subconscious enjoyment and we both agree that is what we want for her as opposed to the middle aged cold female gyn she saw who was trying to go as fast as possible and push those special vitamins to pay for her vacation house and kids over priced summer camps. He takes his time with her which she appreciates and also accepts the added embarrassment and mild thrill we both know she cant help from getting from his gentle, warm, touch and kind elderly demeanor. He has seen me outside his office before and told me I'm a lucky guy shes a beautiful young lady. When his nurse calls my wife back I stay in the waiting room. She squeezes my hand, smiles and says she loves me before walking back to meet the nurse and once she even glanced back at me as the door closed behind her. Then based on the encounter details I've asked her for multiple times I know to the minute whats happening. He will take her in his office first and they will talk about work, weekend plans, what I'm up to, and their mutual favorite college sports team as well as any new health concerns and health history changes. He will dismiss her to the exam room and even though having been there multiple times remind her to take off everything including her bra and underwear. The stirrups will already be out and plenty far apart, prepared for her. She will undress for him and put on a gown laid out by his staff. He will come in and do the benign parts of the exam before proceeding to lower her gown all the way to her stomach and expose her breasts. Taking his time I know he will kneed each one before squeezing her nipples for discharge. He helps her pull her gown back up before positioning her for the pelvic exam. I know he asks her to let her knees fall as far as she can to the sides and simultaneously pushes her gown up to her belly button. He will splay her vulva apart and push the hood up on her clitoris. I then approximate about the time he will make his way posteriorly to her anus, pulling her cheeks apart for visualization. Then he will penetrate her 3 times in succession. First he will insert a speculum in her, which she wont be able to help but leave her lubricant on when it comes out. Some may also run down onto her bottom. He will insert 2 of his large fingers in her which she will also not be able to help but coat with her secretions. Finally, after a glove change and with her leg muscles tensed to force herself to remain open and as the only man she will let touch her there she will feel the pad of his finger on her anus. Her hands will get balmy as she bunches up her gown in her hands and her bare feet will press against the stirrups in embarrassing discomfort. Then in a routine shes rehearsed as she hates this part (hence why she wont even let me touch her there) she will breath out, relax her leg muscles and sphincter all at once and she will allow him in one smooth motion to penetrate her rectum until she can feel his knuckles on her cheeks. She feels the sensation of going to the bathroom as he withdraws and sees him smear the end of his glove on an occult blood test paper. She dresses then meets me in the waiting room, hugs me and we leave.

I started going to my present OBGYN when I was in my masters program at Columbia and he was finishing his residency. Since I was an RN in the school of nursing I went to the GYN department and said flat out I wanted to see the best resident in the program for an exam. (We didn't have a lot of money and I didn't have medical insurance so I couldn't afford a private practice MD on my own and I was trying to become independent from my parents and showing them that my husband, then boyfriend and I could run our own lives.) I was healthy and had no issues but my husband and I were not yet married and I wanted to be sure everything was a-OK since we did plan on having a family.

My initial exam involved the new patient interview where I interviewed him as much as he interviewed me. He is about seven years older than I am. We were both strong personalities and he knew he was good but he also introduced himself by his first name and had me call him by his first name rather than doctor. In these circumstances, we both knew who the doctor was so the title seemed superfluous. We hit it off right from the start.

I continued with him from the time he finished his residency and was one of his first patients in his private practice because he stayed in Manhattan. We became friends and have always seen each other socially with our spouses. My husband has no qualms about it since he has "shared me with other men in many ways" before. Initially I could tell his wife was a little uncomfortable about our friendly relationship, but after several years, his wife has gotten used to her husband seeing many other women in compromising positions. I have been seeing him for the last 25 years and I hope he continues to practice for many years. He delivered both my daughters and he is also my both daughters' gynecologist. The man is wonderful and there is no reason I would ever change just to see a female gynecologist.

When you are on your death bed you will regret the things you did Not do.

If you can find a good, qualified, kind male GYN, then by all means, look for one. Live your fantasy, it is your life.

My first was male, a group of 3 or 4 in one OB/GYN practice. My mother, sister-in-law, sister etc., went there. We all had our favorite. One of them actually opertated on me when i was a teen and saved my life. After that i had to go twice per year for about 5 years. I continued with the same doctor unil my 30s until i moved out of state. After growing up in the same place, never worrying about finding a doctor, i moved.

And that brought along the pain of searching for qualified doctors.

Ugh!

Went through a few till i found one, they all don't graduate with 'A's on their report cards. He was wonderful. Then he moved. My female internist started doing the exams because i told her i hadn't found a new GYN.

After a few years, i did find my current GYN, also female. For me, right now all my doctors are female, i want a competent physician that will listen to me.

It would be fun to have a male gyno . Interesting maybe to even joke around with

I’d seen a female doctor my whoooole life. The same one since I was 3. She did my gyn exams and everything. When I moved across the country, I was looking for a new doctor. This male OBGYN kept coming up in my searches as being among the best. So I went, and I was nervous, but oh my gosh. The best exam ever. When I was with my old doctor, I always left feeling somewhat violated because of how she did things. But this guy was so gentle, so careful, and so caring. It had nothing to do with my fetish. I legit felt so cared for in his office.