Too sore for anal sex after enema

I've been thinking about having an enema as preparation for anal sex but I'm a little concerned about the fact that my rectum could be irritated or sore and this will ruin the whole experience. What would you recommend me? Have you some ideas about it?

It is my understanding that most porn stars administer of have administered and enema before their 'performances.' I would certainly like to be an administrator. Of course, not everyone receives the pleasure that the folks on this site do. Perhaps you could integrate the enema with the sex. Of course, be careful, STD's love the venous rich rectal tissues. Enjoy.

That sounds like fun. A couple of CLEAR bags, joined with a Y-connector, so you can see the water as it leaves the bag. Feeling it flood your colon is fantastic but seeing the level of four or five quarts (use a 2 and a 3 quart clear bag) lower and knowing that ALL that water is what's causing that feeling and no matter how full you may feel at any given moment, you can see how much more you still HAVE to take. And then as the bags drain their contents into you and are completely empty, what a feeling, knowing you now hold it all.

If you're going to take that much, I don't recommend soap, but a little baking soda to tint the water so you can see how much is left. But do take a couple of somewhat smaller soapy enemas first, (a clear bag for that is also a great idea) so you can take and hold what you MUST in that final fill. As a woman, I see that as an incredible prelude to fantastic anal sex. And knowing that is the reward should make taking anything your partner requires a most pleasurable experience for both of you.

And even though he is not receiving the anal sex, I think he should at least receive a couple of VERY substantial enemas so you can share the experience, start to finish!!

San

All this stuff sounds good. but the key to anal sex is plenty of lubricant. the enema will not make you sore. unlubed sex will. LUBE!!!!!

Enema cleanouts beforehand and plenty of lube during are mandatory for anal sex. The cleanouts, for me, anyway, make the whole experience more enjoyable and there is no need for embarrassment if your partner's member or device would otherwise be soiled. Also, proper lube makes the whole experience a no brainer!

Enemas are a good forelplay for the ladies as well. Even when my lady isn't feeling well, and I give her an enema in the most medical and serious of ways, she still gets enough enjoyment out of it that we have to make passionate love after a long session. It didn't used to be this way, but I think that enemas are one of those things that get better as you get better and taking?giving them increase in pleasure as you come to grips with finding something so strange erotic. Once ladies bust down the dirty/embarrassing/intimate barrier that hinders enema enjoyment, then it is anall erotic heaven and a big turn-on.

Naughtydoc

I totaly agree with this comment. in my experience the more enemas and sex play are intertwined, the more they are wanted by a woman. i believe most women tend to have an anal erotic side to them, and the use of the enema plays that up once they get over the bowel cleansing part of enemas. they become very erotic, and the intensity of a womans orgasm seems to be muich greater when retaining an enema. it takes time and effort, but i have seen several women who were almost addicted to enemas and the accompanying orgassms. have others here found this also?

I would consider just cleaning out the rectum. Just a couple of 8 oz bulbs of water and let it all out. Just water. I would not do soap.

My experience says that and enema 6-8 hours before sex is better...it lets everything calm down and any residual water be reabsorbed by the body. Yesterday, I woke my e-mate with an enema and then we had a great date last night

Sex in general after a good enema session is great. My wife and I will do a good cleaning and then she likes to take a bath. Then love making takes on a very good feeling. We use the pepperment castil and that always leaves a great tingling sensation on the body. Besides the anus is such a missunderstood erotic zone for men and women. Enemas just enhance the feeling more and makes it easier.

P

Bulbs are good for pre-sex enemas because the multiple insertions can add to the fun.

I have concerns...if you fill the colon full, and then leave some water in, there's a huge chance of messing, and if she has to "go" while you're inside her...OH, OH.

The best suggestion I've seen is about a pint, no more, just to clean out the lower bowel. Save enema play for other times...

Just my thoughts.

Yes, for anal sex, enemas are a good thing. Who wants to play with pooh.

My boy loves to have me fill his belly while he is pleasuring me. This is better sex for him and sometimes even me. Then when he has cum he can expel his water.

My wife and I travel a lot.

Before anal sex we use a Fleet regular enema, and after that has run its course, we use a Fleet Mineral Oil enema. This is really soothing and lubricating.

One caution, be careful passing gas after a mineral oil enema. It never absorbs and because it gets warmed by the body, it can leak out very easily.

My wife had a very embarrassing accident at a nice restaurant.

LB

Yes sex after an enema is great with one or both reciving and enema during sex is aiso nice ,only way to go if going your playing with or going in the back door

Enemas are what made me like anal sex.

Preparatory enemas to the anal sex, don't foresee the use of great volumes of water and not even the use of irritating or stimulating substances....

he simply deals with cleaning the rectum.....

are sufficient a series of 4 pears bulb from 500cc, repeated singly, to every pear bulb corresponds an evacuation without effort.....

at the end of which follows a last pear bulb of Oil of olive from 100cc to lubricate in natural way the anus and the rectum. 😁

Don't worry. Have your enema. Use enough lube and the anal sex will be very enjoyable. especially if you have that enema.

Give it a couple of hours after an enema for your body to calm down and any irritation to go away. Then sex is amazingly wonderful!

Just make sure you (or your partner) get the all the water out. I've had instances where a girlfriend could'nt expel all out A few thrusts later, theres excess water squirting out, and possibly going back into your pee-hole in your dick.

Both, anal and vaginal sex is more pleasurable after enema, then before...Sex during enema session is different story...

Unfortunately my marriage partner of 51 years has never allowed enemas, anal sex or any form of anal play, giving or receiving. Of course, apart from unsuccessfully trying to discuss the issue there is no question of my forcing or even accepting unwilling participation. On other counts our intimate life is really very good.

I have to confess however to being in touch with a willing F enemate on a two way no fee basis and also a paid WG (In the UK, a 'Working Girl') who gives and sometimes receives. Almost always and with both ladies enemas form part of a full sexual session involving anal intercourse, dildo and finger play.

I have to say I consider myself incredibly fortunate, especially at my age. I have also to regret that my dalliances with the ladies is a secret and I suppose that is a betrayal of the marriage. That being said, I am never questioned when I 'go missing' and it may be that it is assumed that I am 'playing away from home', though it may be thought in a different format to the truth! A caution though to those who 'play away', especially with a WG. I get a standard STD check, usually a couple of days after each exposure and do not engage in marital relations till I get the all clear. It's free to get checked on our National Health Service. The drawback is sitting in the waiting room with all the young people! At least the system will allow you to be anonymous. I get a number to use instead of my name.

It might be asked why, when I suspect my wife knows I might be 'playing away', I don't 'come clean'. Well, she may not know or suspect and 51 years is a long time to risk!

Try lying on your back and be receiving a 2 quart soapy enema while wife is on top. The wife will like the stiffness that stays there and it makes holding the enema for at least > 10 minutes. If pressure becomes too strong, have wife to remove herselp and insert her index finger into rectum untill you reach 20 to 30 minutes. then orgasm and go expell. You will never want an enema any other way. Let me know if you agree.

Miss stress- my wife will sometimes be filling me up while

I will be pleasuring her orally. Then after im filled we will have sex. Wow what an orgasm for both of us.

zack

An enema is the best thing you can do before having anal sex! I suggest you to have a soap enema first. Then have a couple of enema with water and salt. If it is your first time the best thing is purchase a butt plug that helps you while holding the enema. Then you have to choose between the bag and the bulb! I think the bulb can be more practical and easy to take 😉 If you have some question just ask here 😘

Sex with a partner during an enema is spectacular as a female, every base is covered, so to speak.

Definatley clean out before anal sex. Less worrry about leaving any "unpleasantness" behind.

After a couple of months experiencing giving/receiving enemas, my wife and I decided to use the pleasure as afternoon foreplay leading to wild nightime sex. Being turned on in the afternoon gave us a few hours of sexual anticipation leading to some real good sex.

Anal penetration can be one of the most wonderful experiences....IF well lubricated, done gently, correctly and, after a thorough cleanout via an enema series. I think that because my husband took his time to make sure that I was well prepared, my first experience in having anal sex was as rewarding as it was. The intimacy of the enemas only adds to the overall experience.

Regardless of what enema you may use, always use plenty of lubrication for anal penetration. Also be patient when stretching the rectum.