Favorite postion for a spanking

For me in order for me to even take him seriously to start with, and what embarrasses me the most is being made to drop my pants in front of him, after he has given me his lecture and told me why I was being spanked, what for rather, then bending over and being made to put my hands flat on the bed or the desk, or even putting my hands and forearms flat. I can't have my pants all the way off or down to my ankles either, they have to either be at my knees or mid-thigh. That is the most embarrassing for me, by far.

And if he wants me to take him seriously, this is what he has to do. He used to spank me either naked or pants down to my ankles. And he also used to spank me over his lap, in knee/chest position, or laying on my belly in bed. Doing it this way only makes me hornier, if that's even possible, lol.

The classic OTK position is perfect for making someone feel like a little child again and for that reason it is perfect. However, sometimes a little more embarrassment is called for, and in that case, any position which fully exposes the anus is preferred. The so-called 'diaper position' is good provided that the subject's knees are drawn well back towards the ears. Also, kneeling astride a large, firm bolster cushion with the head well, down forces the subject to keep the bottom raised up high and the cheeks well spread.

OTK or with a pillow under my butt

For me the best position for spanking is still the traditional over the knee and bare bottom method.

My favorite position is otk. But the morst embarrassing part is my hubby would put my inner leg in between his, so to spread my bottom. This would allow him to lecture me and even butt plug me if I disobey.

There are so many appealing positions for a spanking! OTK is the obvious one... I like to stack pillows on the bed and have the bottom presented for the spanking. Bending over a table so the spankee can reach across and hold onto the edge... the diaper position for little humiliating spankings... oh goodness....

Like Precious, I have not had the experience of someone spanking me although the thought of it really gets me aroused! I would want to be over the knee, pants down and a switch sounds oh so nice...

It's hard for me to answer this one. My BF and I are way past the point of embarrassment during kinky fuckery, but if he were to ever spank me in public it would be unbearably embarrassing. I'd probably have to move. lol

The closest we come to embarrassing now are the coffee table punishments. When I'm in a lot of trouble I'm told to be waiting naked on the coffee table, ass in the air, chest down, and my knees spread to the edges. It's not really the position that's embarrassing, it's the fact that I KNOW everything he's going to do with me before we even start, and how much of an emotional mess I'll be at the end of it.

I would vote for the otk and the diaper positions, they're really work

Although OTK has several advantages, it also has some drawbacks as the Dominant is not able to exert as much force as he/she could striking horizontally instead of vertically. OTK also puts the sub in close proximity to the Dominant, which is a good thing for an open-hand spanking or if you are using a short implement. If your toy of choice is a little longer, OTK diminishes its effectiveness.

But when she is bent over a spanking bench or the couch it allows for more forceful strikes whether with the open hand or some implement.

For me, most embarrassing is the diaper position, with my legs straight up in the air. Even more embarrassing with a but plug in place. And worst but also most thrilling experience was to have a friend of my husband watching as I got spanked in exactly this position. At least the plug was spared this time.

I think I mentioned this in another thread ... naked, over the lap, it just feels so good. We don't try to embarrass each other ... we try to pleasure each other.

The diaper position is humiliating but I can think of others equally humiliating: on the back with legs fully pulled back until the toes touch the surface behind the head (extreme diaper, I guess; helps to be thin for that one) and also kneeling on the arms of a sofa chair facing the back, then bending forward all the way down until your head is resting on the seat. Any position is better when a witness or two are present to watch and/or assist.

The worst spanking position is in a pubic restroom. Mommy drags me into a public restroom and yanks down my pants gives my a bare hand spank so hard I scream

As far as I am concerned you can't beat bending over a chair. Especially if you are made to wait for your punishment.

I prefer having her bend over an ottoman; elbows on the floor.

Spanking in the diaper position has to be the most embarrassing, especially since EVERYTHING is on display.

Over the knee is best for me. I love the feeling of helplessness as he pulls down panties and then pulls me across his lap.

I like the idea of being put into a position by the spanker and told to hold it or else the count will start over (and also being the spanker myself and doing same for the spankee)

Then the imagination can run wild a bit using tables, hassocks, chairs, sofas, beds for having legs raised or lowered. buns up or down, exposing more of the thighs and crotch for view and attention.

A difficult position to hold for any length of time when being spanked is standing still straight up, legs slightly spread, with arms up over head or fingers laced behind the head.

OTK has always been the most intimate position in my mind.

Greg

My spanker, a professional, satisfies my desire to be restrained by placing me face down on an inversion device normally used to hang one by the ankles upside down. She varies the angle from almost upright to horizontal during a session that includes several straps and canes. Arms, torso and legs are secured with Velcro straps.

Balanced over her knees, so you are made to feel helpless, like a little boy. Your pants and underpants have both been removed so your legs are splayed wide apart and you know she can see everything. You try to use your hand to protect your bum but you can't quite reach. One of her knees is slightly raised so your head hangs low and your legs kick in the air, like you are swimming. The hairbrush make you cry, even though you're thirteen and think you are too old to be spanked by your babysitter.

A bare naked OTK spanking, administered with a paddle or hairbrush, with folded diapers laid out on the bed beside you, just waiting for your freshly spanked bum. A bottle of baby powder lies on top of the diapers. You've known since your supervised bath what was going to happen but are powerless to prevent it. And resisting only makes things worse.

Bare bottom and OTK. you feel so out of control.

Bare bottom OTK or at bed with pillow under the stomach...

Otk was the usual when I did get spanked growning up, because my father administered most of my spankings. My mother preferred the diaper position which I didn't mind much if she left my panties on. She pulled down my pants and panties twice in my whole life in this position, and I felt so exposed. Once upon leaving my room after she spanked me bare bottomed this way, she went into the kitchen where my dad was and he asked her if she pulled down my underwear to spank me. She told him yes. I was so embarrassed, head buried into my pillow with my butt still stinging.

Last time my Dad spanked me was in the tool shed. He made me go in there, drop my pants and bend over while he landed several very hard swats on my bare butt. I remember the spanking even though I can't remember the reason for it.

Always over moms lap, bare bottom

Pulled over the knee. First spanked over the underpants by hand. Then have my underpants pulled down and spanked with the hairbrush.

Laying across someones lap

I personally find it really embarassing to be stood at the side of my spanker and be instructed to raise my skirt or dress then have my panties lowered and be placed over the knee for a long hard spanking with hand brush and paddle