FIRST OFF, MY hubby and I are not into spanking but we have tried it on occassion ... however, other forms of erotica are our preferences.
The first time we tried this spanking thing was on my 25th birthday two years after we were married, and we had seen a "B movie" with some spanking spanking (not porn ---it seemed quite interesting) in a theater and then went out for a "burger and fries" dinner at one of the burger places we haunted when we were teens and dating. We even sat on the same side of the booth ... really teen romantic, if you know what I mean.
Right after we ordered, I whispered into his ear that the spanking seemed like fun and we should try it. He didn't say anything ... so I mentioned it again andthis time he turned to me and said, "you're kidding."
No, I wasn't. With that, I discretely slipped off my panties, rolled them into a tight wad and put them into his hand. I could see he was either getting nervous or impatient because he wondered why our food wasn't getting there quickly enough.
Obviously he ate quickly and we were on our way home. On the way home, I somehow managed to get my Bra off without taking off my blouse (neat trick us girls have learned) and as we got closer to home (we live rural), I slipped off my skirt. I thought he was going to drive the car into the ditch.
As we drove in the yard, I got rid of the blouse and when he stopped the car, i began necking, telling him what a bad girl I was and that I deserved to be punished. "I'm sure I need a spanking, a good birthday spanking," I told him.
He agreed and said he wanted to do it outdoors, which seemed extra exciting.
He lead me over to the park bench we have in our back yard, sat down, put me over his knee, and begin spaking me bare-handed ... firmly but gently.
"I deserve a real punishment," I said. He took off his belt and finished the last 10 spanking with it, leaving me excited, aroused and really anticipating more ... and I told me so.
STill being gentle, but firm, he gave me a dozen more spanks with his belt and then finished off with his hand. I don't know how many spanks I got, but it must have been about 50. I was so exciting that me made love right on the picnic table. What an evening.
However, while I did return the spanking favor to him, we have never really gotten into spanking as a form of recreation ... although I anticipated a birthday spanking on my 26th birthday, hinted somewhat before hand that I wantedone, to which he made sure our table tennis paddle was handy for the occasion. I enjoy spankings, but I still prefer our other forms of erotic recreation.