Female med students talks about penises

I used to have a board called Doctors Examining Room at sexboards dot com, which is no longer around. Here is a post from there. It was sent to me by a female medical student:

ll make memorable experiences for a lot of boys, lol. Not that I'm going to do anything special. It's just that boys seem to make such a big deal out of it. You're supposed to save the genital exam for last and just do it. Don't ask them, don't tell them, just do it. Otherwise you'll have to spend 10 minutes trying to talk them into it. The ones that do give you a hard time can really be a pain. We only have female doctors, so it's not like we can just say hang on and we'll get a man doctor. But a lot of times it's not that they don't want a woman doing it, they don't want anybody to do it.

I think most boys and girls and moms prefer having a female pediatrician. The thing is that boys don't really like guys messing with their privates either. At least if a woman does it and they get an erection it isn't so awkward. They don't have to go home and ask everybody on Govteen if that means they're gay, lol.

I think that getting their nads checked out by a woman is actually most boy's fantasy. If you look on the teen forums there are a bunch of guys that post about getting a physical from a 23 year old blond woman doctor. Usually the doctor tells them that she has to take a sperm sample, and then she jerks them off. Well, first of all, there ARE NO 23 year old doctors, lol. And if a doctor jerked a patient off they would be in bad trouble. Now, I have heard that nurses do that sometimes when a guy is in a body cast or something, but I kind of doubt that they're allowed to do that either.

Okay, now my boyfriend swears that he had an orgasm when he had that first sports physical. He didn't know that they were going to look at his privates, or he just wouldn't have gone out for sports period. That would have just been the end of it. (He's extremely shy.) So when the doctor pulled his underwear down it gave him one of those boners where it bounces up and down. 12 year olds don't last long anyway, but especially in this kind of situation. When she started feeling of his balls it gave him an orgasm. He couldn't squirt anything out yet, but he did flinch and make a noise, and the doctor was like, "Does that hurt?" So then it just made it last longer because the doctor thought he might have something wrong with his balls. And then when they were riding home his stepmom wanted to try to make him not feel embarrassed, so she kept wanting to talk about it, which I'm sure just made it worse.

This makes a lot of sense to me, and this conversation has come up with my boys. My boys pediatrician is female, and they have always seemed to be comfortable with her. In fact I think the whole office staff is female, doctor, nurses and clerks. I think my boys have just come to accept the idea of going to the doctors office, that it is going to be female. Most women have the mother instinct, and they impart that feeling to children, and I think children feel more comfortable with them. Boys like girls do go through a shy period. I know as my oldest son got older, he felt embarrassed to have to pull down his shorts to be examined, or to get a shot. My son was afraid for the doctor see his penis for the obvious reasons, he might get an erection, or she might think it was too small etc. I told him that it is just part of her job, she sees them everyday, and it is no big deal to her, she is not going to laugh, or make any comment. My son soon outgrew the feeling, but did have the discussion about seeing a male pediatrician, and it surprised me when my son said he preferred the same female doctor. I asked him why, and he said he has known her a long time, and feels comfortable with her, and he thought it would feel strange having a guy touch him there. I concur with what you saying in this post.

Kim =^.^=

I have a woman friend whose niece is a urologist. The large majority of her patients are men. Interestingly, she mentioned at one point to her mother, who shared it with my friend, her sister, that in fact one of the reasons she decided to become a urologist is that she likes to examine men. And she realized as she started her practice that some men definitely preferred being examined by a woman, especially in situations where they might, and often did, get an erection. On the other hand, there were/are also men who definitely prefer not to have a woman doctor examine and touch their genitals. She also said that although she cannot be certain her impression is that men are more divided on the question of male vs. female urologists than women are on the question of male vs. female gynecologists.

She also mentioned that her niece told her that seeing erections happens "a couple of times a day sometimes" and that sometimes she enjoys it! My friend said she envied her in that regard, especially if her patients were young men or guys in good shape.

Good to hear from Dr. Brian. Whatever happened to Sex Boards?

A buddy of mine was wounded in Vietnam and spent a few months in traction in a Naval hospital. He told me that a Navy nurse gave him a hand job once a week even though he could, and did, relieve himself regularly. She said she was doing it for the Corps.

In what situation would sperm be needed?

In what situation would sperm be needed?

Probably for sperm bank, haven't you heard about the credit crunch? They probably need more deposits as well.

Humm.. sorry.

That makes to add to the excitement of it all

I once met a girl roughly my age on the train. We were chatting and she told me that she worked in an urological surgery as a nurse. She was very open about the fact that she liked her job and had chosen it on purpose. Of course her job involved seeing a lot of diseases in the male genital area, but I can imagine she was also seeing a lot of checkups of healthy men and was enjoying that. I am not sure how I would have felt with a girl her age present during my exam, as she was rather attractive and probably not too shy to take a close look.

I can identify with a lot of things that the nurse in the OP has said about the way that nurses "just did it" rather than pandering to the boy patients' feelings.

Obviously in the middle part of the post the nurse is describing ( and gently mocking ) the commonly held fantasies sometimes described on message boards.

I certainly feel sorry for the boyfriend in the last paragraph, seems that not only did he have to have his penis examined but his (step)mom was there to witness it. I know from experience how much worse that makes it!

I agree I know for a fact many of our male patients especially the younger ones prefer an exam from a female nurse , even the gay guys .

Ditto. Prefer (and love) the female doctors. I have had male doctors, but I would not let them do any intimate exams on me. It is creepy. I do not want a male touching my penis! It is much more comfortable and enjoyable to be handled by females. My last five doctors and NPs were female.