But I view the pee giver as dominant, and the pee drinker as submissive. Since I view her as dominant and me as submissive, I doubt it will ever happen.
The giver doesn't HAVE to take on the role as dominant with the receiver being submissive. With my partners I love licking pussy, sticking my tongue in their ass, licking her piss covered pussy clean or even drinking it. That doesn't make me any less Dominant. It's about how the act is approached that gives it a D/S dynamic, ordering someone around, 'forcing' someone to do something, name calling and language used and such.
For me I do one of two things:
- I turn it around on them. When I want to lick their ass, I 'force' them to bend over, to open their cheeks, to expose themselves. It's an embarrassing and submissive position, being made to display their most intimate area to me. Then as I begin licking, the pleasure they get again reinforces my control over them and their body. I'm still the Dominant.
- The other thing is it can just be a 50/50 sex/intimate act. No dynamic is necessary. In the shower you can just laugh and play and pee on each other. Any woman that tries to direct her pee for the first time can't help but laugh as it sprays all over. It's fun and playful. For her, she gets to hold your cock and direct your pee and can playfully spray her body or take it in her mouth. Nothing D/S about it, just a couple having intimate fun.
Do the things you enjoy or want to try, completely disregarding that they go 'against' what you feel the dynamic should be. Every couple has a unique perspective on what works for them, so don't let any non-existent 'rules' decide what you can or can not enjoy together.