Anal Dilation

Is there ever a problem of the bum hole not closing back up?

I have used a cucumber as an enema nozzle when I really wanted to feel full. Cut a small hole in each end and use a more rigid tubing to gently work it through from one end to the other. It works great.

@ holditin & @ subdandie

As a male my pelvis bones are not so open as female ones .

I have a dildo shaped nozzle , what nicesfeelings when it is filling you up, and the dildo is moving deep inside and then to the limit outside , this slowly done is huge , the volume of the dildo is increasing the pressure in the rectum waouw , so nice .

I like anal feelings so I often play with my ass , when masterbating or love making , using medium or large plug or dildo size ,

what is large for me ? 2.5" medium is 1.75" , I hold it in for a 15 -30 minutes , and don't never have a closing problem with my anus . I try a larger plug 3" who was blocked by my pelvis bones , so my ass muscle is souple enough but my bone not .

Why trying this because I have the hope to be fisted by my wife . Far to me to make a record , she have hands just at our limits , she can't fold her hand more , and my pelvis bone don't change .

No anal problems the muscle is quickly closing after the exercises .

QUESTION? Just bought 1 3/4 centerbulge enema tube. Using lots of lube and having hard time getting it all in. If the enema is flowing as I work the tube in, will that make it easyer to insert entire tube?

Fingers

My 4 dilators,Delin 6" long 1" business end,goes in smooth as silk.next.Aluminum 1 1/2 make the enema nice an warm to transfer heat to your bottom.Klstra 1 3/4 KB3,TIGHT FOR ME SO I WORK IT IN AND OUT WITH ENEMA GOING until it is all in,feels great, and Inflatable enema tube, pump it up good, no water escapes. {klstra gives zity coustomer 10% off.}

I like to start out with a tapered ball type dildo and work it for a while to loosen up. Then I gradually work up to my largest toy and give myself a good ass pounding.

Ah yes, "pinklady", simplicity at hand.

I use inflatable dildo for dilation. It is the best for step by step play, but it can be used for forced dilation too.

Fingers, toys, tongues, multiple enemas, condom covered cock....they all work well to open a hole up for bigger and better things. Just go slow and enjoy the experience.

Tongues, then a finger or two, small objects..pens, thick markers, candle or three. Patients and lots of clit play

Gloved fingers and lots of lube. Start with 1 then 2 and then 3 slowly moving in and out doing deeper each time. It not only dilates you, but it feels really good too. Warm fingers can be so inviting.

My lady's well lubed fingers are the very best instruments there are! (most fun too)

Toys, start small. Estimate or measure the width of 2 fingers after you have grown comfortable with digital insertion. There is a plethora of toys on the small end (no pun intended) of the spectrum of toys. Tapered plugs will always be easier to take. Only down-side is they normally grow in relative proportion to length. 2 fingers for me is a about 1 1/4 inches wide. Each plug, try to increase by .25 or 1/4 inch each time.

Also, buy a toy box or foot locker. Hell, just get a stand up cabinet with locking doors. Anything to store your ever increasing collection. It will get big...

As you buy more toys, learn to master each before ordering new ones. Start small and learn to relax. After being able to insert your toy, try to push it out, without using your hands. Reinsert. Try to pull it out and clenching your ass to hold it in. Repeat. Then try the opposite. As you insert, try resisting the penetration. Slowly insert and clench, insert further then clench. As you reach the largest part of the toy, clench and hold.

After you are finally dilated completely with that toy, move up to your next larger one.

Continue and repeat as necessary. Use lube, enema, let pain be your guide, don't hurt yourself.

Yes, totally agree with Jeffys. start small, use plenty of lube, once you have mastered one dilator then you can increase the size. just take your time and enjoy!! ;-)

Using an inflatable dildo seems to work best for me. But it really is just a personal choice as to what you use.

I use a set of butt plugs ranging from small to large. After a lot of practice and lube I can finally take the large plug. I also find it so erotic when I pull out he plug and I can see the inside of my ass.

I'd place another vote for inflatable dildo or buttplug.

The dildo is probably better as you can get them in reasonable length, you just need to hold it in place so it doesn't go all the way in or out.

The buttplug I love but primarily because I am a guy and it creates a nice pressure in the prostate zone. But i have used it many times in the past to either hold in place or (gently) move it in and out.

Both, you have the freedom to inflate and deflate depending on how u feel. Anything that's 'set' you'd have to remove if you had a moment of feeling uncomfortable