Daddy spanking and enema fantasy

Largenozzle--Nice thought of taking 2 bags while over Dad's lap.

Sounds like a great fantasy/reality to me. I like to receive a light spanking, followed by soapsuds enemas.

Turnabout is fair play and a real turn on for me. Role reversal between daddies and sons is a very deep seated desire for those men who've been on both ends and played both roles but seldom, if ever, both with the same person.. The two sides of these roles can merge into one (A+B=C) producing a special kind of bonding which makes it so much more complete and fulfilling than either role by itself.

I like idea too

I'm with Ronema. I want Mommy to do it. Maybe not Mommy but someone like her.

As a gay male, I only think of Daddy Enemas!!! Giving or receiving!!!

I love the fantasy of taking a naked girl over my lap, explaining what she has done is wrong and that she will have to be punished.

The only thing I would add is a scratchy wool blanket over my legs so the wool would irritate her skin, especially her breasts and nipples as she squirmed. The spanking would be open handed and turn her cheeks bright pink/red from the top of her cheeks down to just above her knees; then a warm soapy enema, enough to make her squirm more and beg to be allowed to go to the toilet.

Keep her over the wool blanket and ask her if she wanted to be played with to take her mind off of the enema, slipping a hand under her mons and playing with her clit until she begged to be allowed to cum, and watching her struggle to hold the enema as you give her the final strokes with a finger to bring her off. then asking if she wants to go to the toilet.

This has always been a major fantasy for me in both roles (which I have actually played) - either as the giver or as the receiver. However he doesn't have to be a real Daddy or real Son, just an authoritative guy or authority figure who can really play the role with pleasure. This is one of those situations which can be even more exciting when the roles are switched and the giver is younger than the receiver and the older guy (Daddy) gets enemas with spankings from the younger guy (Son) 😉

As a gay man that's exactly the sort of enema I love. My introduction to them was with my mother but I always hoped it would have been my father

Mine is mommy, not daddy. Insert a couple suppositories in me (a glycerin suppository and a sedating suppository). Put on a diaper and i fall asleep in her arms while being breastfed.

Such a nice fantasy that I think quite a few of us share, whether the giver is "daddy" or your dominant partner. And what does daddy do after you are clean from the enema or multiple enemas? In my fantasies he is just preparing me so he can slide into my nice clean ass

I'm a male and my father gave me naked spankings and switchings and naked enemas from age 14 to 23 which did didn't know aroused me, well I did get erections, but he ignored them. Then when i moved back home at 28 after a break up he told me the same rules would apply and i signed a contract agreeing. My punishments became more often and severe for the next three years. He was already in his late seventies then, he said the humiliation would do me good, my Mother had passed shortly after i moved back, after a while he got our old neighbor women involved, she loved whipping me. I would love to find an older (70's, 80's) man or women to keep me in line.

How utterly weird. This amounts to abuse but I guess you wanted it. This isn't a fantasy is it?

My fantasy is being with a woman who is at least 20 years older than me, she would treat me like I was her daughter and give me nice comfortable enemas, not the painful ones I got from my real Mother growing up. This woman would be a nurse and understand me completely knowing what I wanted and needed from her.

Good fantasy. I have had a similar one but with out any sexual type touching. If my fantasy "Daddy" was not the man that was my father (but an older man, neighbor, friend) I would be ok with that.

Dr. Sky, I would say that it could amount to abuse, excepting that complaint is seeking a replication of his past experiences.

Sounds consensual to me. And, I dont throw stones at other people's kinks, as I would be buried under my own long history.

You and I hold a strong belief in safe, sane, and consensual play. You provide exemplary medical concerns to back upon your experiences in the ER, and share about what can get kinksters into serious medical trouble, if not in a coffin.

On the other hand, my background is based upon 40-years (off and on) of play in private, at parties, and while participating in edu programs at the Society of Janus, coupled with other educational workshops. 6 quarts seems

excessive; 2 quarts of warm water does the job nicely; repeat if necessary. 6 - 12- 18 strokes of

the cane be reasonable, but 300 like a female

friend took, left her disfigured for quite a while, though her denuded nether region was her red badge of courage for a while.

Doctor, you provide safe & sane information to a few of our family, and to the masses, and it is always hoped that you will speak up where there

are unsafe medical considerations.

Thank you -

Hermann we are talking about our fantasies not real life. Some of us fantasize about being spanked but this is made up imagined not real life, more like a dream than anything else.

My apology... I didnt see where compliant4u said anything about fantasy; seemed real! And I have no problem there, provided the play is safe, sane, consensual, and non-exploitive.

We all fantasize about something, especially when we are sans partner, and that's half the pleasure of our being a little bent to the right, or left.

And, beyond that, compliant's business is his; and, what he wants for his pleasure is just that, his business and for his pleasure.

Its just like the 125 strokes that were laid across my denuded nether region a little while ago, still feeling mighty warm especially on the right cheek, a slim fire-engine red pizza spatula backed up by a leather paddle that had been properly applied, and did provoke quite the conundrum. But, now, my backside still has that warm & fuzzy feeling some 45 minutes to an hour later as it is being teasingly caressed. And, the pleasure has been all mine...

Well, she just said that much of it was hers. And, since the two paddles are on her side of the sofa, I can't argue with that. I am glad, however, that our friendship is based upon an egalitarian set of beliefs, for it is a 'giving' and a 'taking' which makes us the happiest.

Hope all of you are having a gr8 week!

I have dreams about this too. Wish I could find a daddy

My fantasy is daddy removing my jeans and panties . Strapping me to the bed ,on the night stand are several different sized nozzles some very slim while others very thick. Daddy fills a large basin for my first enema is with the bulb syringe and it's big. A bar of ivory soap floats on the surface of the water making it white.

A knock on the door and in walks my.uncle. he has come to play. His hands are large his fingers fat. He dips his finger in the jar of vaseline he tries to open my cheeks but I have clenched them shut. With his free hand he delivers 3 very hard slaps to my bare bottom I release and he slides his fat finger into my hole. I squirm and again I'm spanked. As I lay there crying I see him choose a nozzle and it's big. He attaches it to the bulb and fills it with water. As he inserts it I feel the water filling me.

I would really enjoy being someone's daddy and giving that treatment too.

This is my ultimate fetish, being on daddies lap, get a few ass slaps with bare hand or paddle until my butt turns red and I start squirming over his lap.

Final step is a deep warm enema, with a long nozzle to keep me quiet, while I sob like a little boy on his arms.

That's definitively an interesting fantasy. Unfortunately, I can only imagine it currently 😢

One of my fantasies is that my “girl” has had a bad attitude lately and I decide she needs some attitude adjustment! After a nice dinner at home, we do the dishes and when we're finished I order her to come with me. I sit down and she's standing in front of me. “I recognized you've been quite a brat lately. Is there anything you wanna say about it?”, I ask her. She immediately knows, she has pushed things too far in the last days and apologizes, for being late, for speaking back, for not doing chores or her homework…

But it's too late. I interrupt her “Stop it! You know you need a punishment!”. “Please, no punishment, I'll be good. I promise. Please…”, she stutters. “Undress and bring the wooden spoon to the bedroom!”, I order her. She accepts and slowly starts to go for the spoon which is placed on the kitchen counter as a permanent warning. And I think this warning will have more impact again, soon.

We go to the bedroom and my girl starts to undress. Just before she pulls her panties, she looks up to me and asks desperately “Daddy, do we really have to do this?”. “You know the answer. Do we have to do this?”, I reply. She sobs and - knowing the consequences for not accepting a punishment - she admits “We have to do it because I've been a bad girl” and pulls her panties down. I order her to stand in the corner and I prepare an enema bag, which I hang up at an improvised IV stand which I put next to me. I sit down and tell her to lay over my lap. She's looking at the big enema bag - she really dreads enemas. I hold her firmly with my left arm and get the spoon with my right hand. I start the punishment and she counts the slaps loud. In the beginning, she takes them quite well, but after the first dozen swats, she really starts to get uneasy, but I just grab her tighter.

A few more swats and she yells “How much more?", but I continue the punishment until I feel she has learned her lesson. I readjust her position in a way that her belly can distend between my upper legs. I spread her reddened butt cheeks and insert the nozzle. The enema starts, my girl is sobbing. She soon starts to squirm and begs me to stop the enema, but she has to take it all and I make sure she really does.

After a few minutes, she has taken the whole bag and we go to the bathroom, where she is allowed to expel the enema, while I clean the equipment. When she's done, I put her on my lap again and hug her. “Have you learned your lesson?”, I ask her. “Yes daddy, I learned my lesson. I will be the well behaved girl you want me to be", she answers while smiling at me. But we both know, that we will have to repeat this treatment soon, as the warning spoon on the kitchen counter will fade out and just become a piece of decoration until its next use.

So, yes, I do have that fantasy as well. Sorry for the long post :/

This is a fantasy of mine as well. To have a dominant figure standing before me and telling me I need an adjustment in behaviour. I will have to stand by the wall while the equipment to be used are readied.

I soon find myself across daddy or mommy lap, bare button and a thermometer deeply inside my butt. If I have a fever it would explain my bratty behaviour. But after five minutes I'm declared fever free and a suppo is pushed into me. Soon I'm counting the swats I'm receiving and my butt is turning pinkish in colour.

Once I receive the correct number of swat I'm put back on the corner in full display and left there. The suppository start to make itself know and I feel cramps…

I'm called back to the punishment room where I need to go potty in front of my dominant.

Then I'm once again across their lap with a nozzle inserted and a large volume enema being pushed into me. I will have to wait and hold it while standing or writing lines about my bratty behaviour.

Then I will have to expell it either on the potty in the bathroom or a basin in the same room. But either cases I will have to do it in front of my dominant. I'm crying in pain and shame by the end of it all. Begging forgiveness.

Depending on the gravity of what I did I can have a suppo being pushed into me and get diapered before being put to bed. Or my punishment could be over and after a good bath I could find myself on my dominant lap being cuddled…

Yes, having a fantasy is great. Having a fantasy that is fullfilled is even better. It is too bad that we can't have our mates fullfill all of our fantasies on a regular basis so we would not have to go outside the relationship or to keep having a fantasy

I’d very much love the same thing. Daddy puts me in chastity and then gives me an enema, and then spends the rest of time giving me a thorough anal exam.

@Fairy this is what we've been taking about.

Well.. now i'm wet

Yes, having a fantasy is great. Having a fantasy that is fullfilled is even better. It is too bad that we can't have our mates fullfill all of our fantasies on a regular basis so we would not have to go outside the relationship or to keep having a fantasy

This is so true, my wife will on occasion, reluctantly give me a mild spanking, but absolutely rejects any type of anal play.

Nice, don't stop want more