Anal Stretching - Lubes

I was hoping that someone could help me out. I was woundering if there are any other product besides anal lubes that I can use to help ease some of the discomfort of anal stretching? I think that I read that you could use Hemroid Cream does anyone else know of any other products that may work or does hemroid cream work at all? I know that most anal lubes have a numbing agent in them but im all out and was wanting to go to the drug store for something. Please any advice would help. Thank you.

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Gooday Darrel, I'd be cautious using a cream that has a numbing agent in it. You need to know when you are possibly doing damage and the possibility of hurting yourself. I use Imperial Leather soap. It produces a nice creamy lather. Regards John.

WARNING. DON'T USE GLASS. TOO DANGEROUS

Ill have to try the soap idea. Im not trying to hide the pain just take away the little discomfort. I just want to see what other products are out there that could help

Soap is irritating to the tisssues,, it is not a suitable lube

i use vitamin E and olive oil,,,, much better

You dont have to use anal lube. Get regular water based lubes such as Wett, ID, or KY. Another good thing is Silicone based lubes. Makes your skin very soft after. Look at www.mr-s-leather.com for these lubes.

You didn't say how much you are trying to or wanting to stretch. If you are new at it, start with something slimmer and work your way up. A good lube like KY etc will be all you need to get it in.

There is a good 5 piece anal dilator kit available from a number of places on the web. Work your way up. Don't force it and you won't hurt yourself.

Always start small you can work up to bigger.

Darrell,

See the thread Enemas and anal stretching in Anything but enemas, kinks. Lots of sage advice there!

Johnny

Do you have to keep stretching? I feel like when we didn't do it for a little while, we had to start all over again. Although, sometimes a little tightness is good.

Vaseline for nozzles and astroglide for anal sex....nice and smooth 😁

I agree with much of what has already been said, but here are my own rules for safe and effective "anal training":

- Don't EVER use a numbing agent. Discomfort is expected (and can be minimized as described below), but pain is your body's way of telling you to stop, and you need to feel that!

- Fancy lubes are not required. Go with KY or a similar generic water-based lube; doctors use it for good reasons.

- Start small, go slow, and work your way up gradually. You can buy a kit with various sizes, or buy a selection of anal plugs in assorted sizes.

- Starting small may mean a partner's finger. Make sure he/she trims those fingernails!

- Clean toys thoroughly after use. If you intend to use them on more than one person and they can't be sterilized in boiling water (which most can NOT), then cover with a condom.

Just have to ask both for males and females why?

What i meant by my question why was although I like the feeling of being distended due to a tube or canula insertion I'm a little concerned that using larger devices might cause permanent changes.

Developing a large sloppy anus does not appeal to me at all.

J lube with out a doubt cheap and as slick as anything will not harm toys or you take it slowly and you will be suprised just how you will stretch and toys you though would never fit you will just laugh at .

you will quickly grow out of normal toys at the vanila sex shops believ me you will !

never yse glass view the glass jar in ass vid on youtube .

oh and you will neeed some nice enemas to make sur you are nice and clean as you do not want grity bits of peanuts and popcorn spoiling the fun

goodboy

DO NOT use soap......

Use KY and when you think you have used enough...use some more, you can not use to much. Anal play is a great sensation when done right. Dont try to run before you can walk.

I buy Classic Gel By Elbow Grease. It is water based, thick and slippery. I get it in 18 oz bottle off the web. it plays nice with all my toys.

Lube yourself well. Then using an anal balloon, insert it and pump it just a little, and let you body expel it. Then repeat pumping it up more and more each time. You are starching and having good sensations at the same time. 😃

Nobody has mentioned the old Fist Fuckers' standby: Crisco.

It even comes in a tab top can now, so you no longer cut your

knuckles on the sharp rim.

Crisco can also be mixed with a bit of olive oil and also some

J-Lube to make it more slippery.

If you are really tight, you may need a general anaesthetic and a surgical stretch where the srgeon inserts four or five fingers

You can follow thi up with an anal dilator to insert to keep you from shrinking again

Good luck with your problem

Step by step, one finger then tow and three, use cucumber try the smallest one you can get then bigger and bigger , but if you start this don stop it , you will start all over again

Anal stretching is a lot like a gymnast stretching to do a split or any other maneuver that mortals cannot do.

Just because you stretch your anus, doesn't mean it loses muscle tone and becomes flaccid, or that you won't have a tight pussy or tight asshole. It means that you can relax it so you can accept things like fists and big dildos, although I'll admit, I've only taken fists of women with small hands. I've never had the pleasure of my husband doing it because his hands are too big.

HOWEVER, if you TEAR the anal ring, you are in big trouble and will require reconstructive surgery to remain continent.

Both KY and Surgi-Lube will have a tendency to dry out after a time, however a little water will kind-of reactivate them, but will also dilute the slippery effects of them, needing to add more.

Vaseline works very well, however you do have to be cautious about using a petroleum based product on your toys. Vaseline did come out with a white 'creamy' formula in a tube, (enriched with vitamin E), which is also very good, but is still a petroleum based product, and is not cheap.

There's a popular product on the market called 'Boy Butter' which is okay, but my personal preference is ID Lube for starting out smaller. It's water based, and cleans easily. Going larger, I agree that Crisco is good, and is still popular among fisters.

J lube is finding popularity among fisters as it's very slick, however one drawback if that it needs to get mixed before use. Most use a blender for that, however I find that to be too much trouble to go through.

There is a product called J Jelly, basically a pre mixed version of J Lube. Have some J Jelly, however never having tried J Lube, can't make a comparison.

Oh, and I believe this was originally manufactured for the veterinary industry, so instead of paying those much inflated prices through S&M type dealers, go online and you can order direct from a veterinary supply, and by the 'gallon' for less than what you would pay a dealer for a 8 ounce bottle.

A lot of silicone based lubes have hit the market as well. Really, there are just 'too many' choices out there!

If you're near a big city that hosts 'related' conventions, take a stroll through one. You will find people handing out free sample packets, (good for one time use), of their products to try. It's a good way to try a lot of different products.

You can always check with CheapLubes.com, and ask if they have such free sample packs to send out.

But be sure to check and see if any lube you're going to try is water based or petroleum based! You could deterorate certain 'toys' over time using something petroleum based.

To stretch my anus in a confortable way I used to be patient, increasing week by week the size of a butt plug : one year ago a 1 inch diameter butt plug fitted ok, when I got used to it (it took about one month) I upgraded to 1 1/2 inch butt. Later I tried a two inch butt plug, at beginning ...ahhhh... I thought I was about to die, today is no problem at all. As I say, be patient and take it easy !

KY or olive oil is that way to go!

This is in part to petalsoft. Stretdhing isn't a means unto itself. It is the pleasure derived from each step of the streching over many years. It usually starts when penal or digital stimulation isn't enough. When some ladies and guys claim that they cannot get off because the penis isn't large enough, then toys, other objects and hands play their roles. All penetrations tend to increase the openings and increase the pleasure.

KY or Surgi-lube are the best...

If you are at the pharmacy, grocery store, etc and those items are not available you can use A & D Ointment.

A & D is slick enough to help access plus it is used as a first aid slave by design.

It is not very good for prolonged use on rubber or latex toys, yet I have never had it break down a condom before.

Here's to enjoying great anal pleasures.

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We use k-y alot. but it is not so good in the shower.

I have noticed that a lot of anal fisting is done with Crisco, it doesn't wipe off or dry out.

Take your time and use plenty of lube. Constant plugging helps me quite a bit.

I agree with astroglide...far better than ky could ever hope to be....serioulsly..

There is product out there called Anal Ease. It is an excellent lubricant and it has a numbing affect and makes stretching less uncomfortable.