Thoughts during Pelvic Exam

Ladies what are you thinking about during your real pelvic exam? what about during a play exam??

With my doctor doing the exam we are talking usually about whatever. In play exam it does make me a little horny.

I'm not thinking about what the ceiling looks like. Unlike many women I very much like and enjoy my visits to the gyne's little exam room. I find all of it very exciting. Stirrups, that speculum, even the tube of KY makes turns me on. Lately his increased thoroughness with my breast exam has added to my excitement a lot. But it's his announcement, "Ok sweetheart it's that time again for you to get back in the stirrups, so I can check you out." I really think I should get a price reduction from him because by then he wouldn't need any KY.

Hello Jen,

My ob-gyn doctor is asking me questions and chatting away while getting me to slide down to the edge of the table. The play docs exams are more exciting to me also and they sure get you very excited, if you know what I mean! 😁

I love going to the gyno I make sure she is all pretty and shaved up my toes are perfect. Love the "relax your knees to the side" while he pushes them even wider open.

I don't get turned on during my real exam. But I fantasize about it later. Never had a live play exam but I get very hot and wet during my online exams.....mmmm makes me want to get busy.....

I thinking how wet am I? and what does he think of my pussy?

My doctor is usually chatting with me during the breast exam. He asks me about my work. (I am a physical therapist.) Of course, he is also asking the normal exam questions...any changes that you've noticed, any pain or tenderness, etc. So, I'm just talking with him and not really thinking about anything else. At the beginning of the pelvic, he says "We'll try to get this done as quick as we can." Then he's making very reassuring comments and trying to make the experience less traumatic. I am usually thinking that he really doesn't need to worry about it being traumatic. lol Sometimes, it's hard for me not to giggle because my doctor is being so very sweet and gentle and he has no idea that I don't mind his exam a bit! 😉

I am always very conscious of how wet I am, especially because he always does my breast exams first. But I am also thinking of course: "What is he thinking?"

I normally look at the ceiling, think about something else and wait it is over as quickly as possible

I noticed in one of my wife's gynecologist's exam rooms that over time patients had glued pictures of various male movie stars on the ceiling above the exam table. This makes me think that many women daydream about handsome men between their legs while they are being examined and are actually turned on by the experience. I cant think of any other reason why there would be pictures of Brad Pitt and Tom Cruise and other "hunks" on the ceiling. Do any of you ladies have another explanation?

Real exam: I hope he doesnt find anyhing wrong!

Play exam: Oh my God that feels so good, please let me cum!

Perfect answer Nurse Phillips. Karma!

Ladies does it turn you on to be barefoot during the exam and have your feet in the stir ups? Do you ever get excited enough that you curl your toes? That would look so HOT!!

In my only real pelvic till date as part of the university physical, I was scared. The doctor's finger seemed like it was probing my insides for ages. Though the Gyn was very gentle but being my first experience, finger insertion hurt.

Its good that there was no speculum exam

As far as real exams go. I am usually answering general questions my doctor asked me like am I still working at the same place. In between that she will tell me what she is about to do. Then she will ask if I have any plans about going back to work at the hospital etc. Then she will tell me what she is about to do next. I try to keep my mind off of it before. I don't want to get excited. Plus sometimes my sister will be on a roll cracking jokes. I really don't think much about anything else.

I don't really do play exams so to speak. If I have a girlfriend over and we are talking and she says she has never seen inside. I mean sometimes this comes up. Especially if she sees the speculum's in my toy drawer. But I will let her look in me and I will look in her. She can use a mirror for her or I can take a photo to show her what she looks like inside. I had one girlfriend who wanted to know if we all look the same. We had been dating a while so my sister and her girlfriend volunteered. We all got excited with that. Thinking about how it would be for a doctor to do what they are doing.

My last real exam my doctor made me so relaxed. I was thinking that that was my favorite pelvic. Then she said something funny and I laughed, I found my life long doctor.

What was so relaxing about the exam, would you like to share?

~ Cute26

I try to remain calm and focus on something across the room as the doctor goes about conducting the exam. I appreciate when she engages me in some small conversation as a distraction but in all honesty, I am eager for it to be completed. There are aspects of the exam that can be uncomfortable but necessary. It is part of taking care. Being positioned and spread wide with my bottom nearly falling off of the table is an intensely personal moment. It is not similar to making love in the least but one of total vulnerability and trust. In the scheme of things, the process doesn't take all that long. The anticipation and memories, however, last much longer!

@Cute26, the doctor was relaxing. I found a female doctor who was gentle, kind, funny, and also says what's on her mind. It was her mannerisms.

Recently I was unwell due to pain in the lower abdomen, the GP suspected something in the ovaries due to the symptoms I was going through, so after a detailed tummy exam I was asked to take off my Payjams and panty. I was as usual very scared as this was a real scenrio not play.

Moreover I thought this would be a normal abdominal exam and was not expecting a pelvic. So it was surprising when the doctor said "We need to do a pelvic"

This was my second pelvic exam in life. But I was in stirrups for the first time (during my university physical there were no stirrupps, just I had to fold my legs). I felt very strange, very exposed. But my mother knew the GP so she was allowed in the exam room for the whole exam. When the pelvic part began she understood my tension and came and stood next me near the bed. That was the only comforting thing in the whole exam that unlike the first time mom was present.

I have shared my whole experience in the stories section.

I have had 2 pelvic exams and my thoughts during them have been the same both times really. I hoped that there would be nothing wrong and I did not have any of the problems my mum has had some times. I thought about that more on the first time than the second one really. I was more confident when I had the second one. It was very strange to have a man looking at me who is not my husband as well. Only my husband "should" be looking at me there and I thought about that a lot. I wanted to remember as much about the exam as I could as well and I was really concentrating on it. Maybe I can have a really quick sexual thought when it is being done but I do not really get aroused until later when I think about what was done.

I do not think the same about play exams though. It is my husband giving me a play exam and I am some times a very shy patient or I am a flirty patient who is not shy at all and keeps flirting with the doctor. It just depends what sort of patient I want to be when we do it.

Usually I'm thinking about their thoughts first, for instance how wet I am and that I only get wetter. I can't help it. My first time getting an IUD in place was difficult for the dr considering my cervix was not only hard to get to but tilted. The whole time she was trying to tackle it, I'm thinking "I hope this takes awhile" while also thinking "please don't make me cum". I often wonder if they secretly enjoy every bit of it too. I'm sure they see they are getting quite a few patients off.

During a real exam, they always try to talk to you and ask you questions to keep you not focused on what is going on. So that's mostly what I'm thinking about during a real one. During a play exam..... "I hope he is extremely thorough". 😜

My guess would be that most women have two thoughts going through their heads while the Doctor is "down there"…

~ I hope he/she does not find anything wrong, any problems or concerns

~ I hope this is over soon so I can get dressed again

Other thoughts at times perhaps, but these are probably the primary ones.

Ladies, perhaps you should remember the mantra of the Victorians and lie back and think of the queen

During my real exam all I am thinking about is getting through it and quickly. There is no real excitement. In my play exams that I have had it is another story. I enjoyed them so much and wanted them to last a good long time...and they did ?

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During my real exam all I am thinking about is getting through it and quickly.

Seems to echo what I have said below.

I had one recently. It was my first, stirrups, speculum, everything was daunting. I was scared during the whole exam that my hymen should not rupture.

I just closed my eyes and tried deep breathing while the gyn checked my lady parts.

I know I never had any erotic thoughts during a real exam. I wanted the exam over quickly so I could go back to work. I haven't had any pelvic exams since I've watched many videos and have been on this website. If the doctor didn't do something from one of the videos, I'll probably start analyzing and wonder why.

There was an earlier comment about gynecologists putting pictures of men on the ceiling. I thought doctors weren't supposed to try to arouse patients. I know we're supposed to relax but not relax and enjoy. That's probably one reason some woman are having orgasms.