Men, Do you prefer a female urologist?

Blue Cross PPO insurance doesn't require referral to see any specialists including urologists. I always see a female urologist without referral

I have all female doctors and love them all ..no male doctor here .. and with a medical fetish I have I can't stop see I g them

For me, it's not about the intimacy of the exam. I find female doctors to be more gentle, caring and attentive. They also tend to listen better.

I thought I would prefer a female urologist until I was forced to change to a female PA last summer for my annual exam. She wasn't nearly as thorough as the male PA that I had (he retired). The entire exam took 15 seconds, versus what he used to take. I was disappointed in the exam to the point that I'm considering requesting a different PA.

I have never been at the urologist. If I should, I would prefer a female urologist. Nothing much to say, I would feel more comfortable with a female doctor in this kind of circumstances.

Nope but wouldn't care a she is competent

Unfortunately our little city only has three urologist and all three of them are male. None of them are all that good. I have seen two of them and am not impressed with either of them and I will never go see the other because once I saw him belittle a staff member in front of me and other patients and NO doctor should ever do that. Hopefully a couple of them will move and a good urologist will come to town.

I have seen both, but I prefer a female. They seem to have more concern and take more action than just prescribing pills & waiting. If it wasn't for mine going the extra mile, my bladder tumor and abdomen tumor would not of been found. Who knows what damage could of been done by now. The male doc's I have seen have missed several major health issues of mine.

I have only had experience with one urologist, my current doctor to this day, who is a female, and she has far exceeded my expectations on every level. I am on testosterone therapy, which requires me to be seen every 6 months. Her level of care is absolutely first class and the time she takes to not only examine me but to also address any questions, concerns and/or issues that I may have while still making time to catch up about what is going on with our respective families, never fails to impress me. My wife normally goes along with me as well and then the two of them proceed to chat about their Caucasian husbands (my wife and doctor are both Asian) and compare photos of our "Half & Half" children, so even my wife is quite fond of her as well.

I preferred a female urologist for my prepucial cyst surgery. But couldn't get any. As am very much comfortable with female doctors... since childhood all my pediatricians were female and I am habituated to get my genital checked by a woman.

I was very embarrassed when a male doc checked my penis

Yes !!

No modesty here. I prefer a female for any type of doctor or procedure.

I prefer competence over grnder in everything, MD! DDS, etc

I've seen two male urologists. It wasn't intimidating. I've thought of seeing a female because I hear she's very good. Ultimately I care only about competence and kindness.

I have been to 3 urologists 2 of them were female PA's or nurse practicioners and the 3rd was a man MD. I had better results with the man urologist in that he discovered what the problem was and seem to have more education in the field and ran tests that the two women didnt. The two women were much more gentle while examining me and were more sympathetic. And they were both in their late 20's early 30's and were very attractive. I think they would have been able to help me better if they were actual M.D.s and knew more about prostate problems.

I prefer a female doctor when it comes to genital area. I'm going to have to make an appointment soon as I've had a tingle / numb feeling just inside my penis for a week and struggle to get hard for about six months. Last time I had to see a female doc was when I had a lump on my testicle which turned out to be a cyst.

Would love to have a female doctor!

My urologist is female, and she has been extremely competent and thorough in all of my prostate and bladder issues. I'm much more comfortable with her than her senior partner who was my doc but decided to retire. Her technique is so smooth that she makes me look forward to my yearly cysto!

I have been 1 male urologists 2 female PA's or nurse. The two women were much more gentle while examining me and were more sympathetic.

I have been to two urologists, one male and one female. The male doctor treated me with disrespect and said I was a fat baby boomer and there was nothing he could do for me.He threw a prescription for cialis at me on the way out. I asked for a second opinion. I got one at the university hospital for a consult with the best. The day of the appt., I went there and his surgical fellow did an interview and an exam. She was a female doc and was very kind and professional. I told her about the ED, and she said she could help me. I tried the penis pump she recommended and that did not work. I called her back and she told me to come back. I did and she did another penis and testicle exam. I had to get a penis ultrasound. She walked me down the Hall and a male technician did the ultrasound with my flaccid penis. The female urology doc said she had to inject my penis to get it erect for part two of the of the exam. I said okay and she did. But no erection. She said I needed a second shot. Her female resident held my penis and she gave me a second shot. Still no erection. She then said I had terminal ED and would need an inflatable penis prosthesis. I said ok. I had to wait 2 weeks for the insurance approval I was approved and the male surgeon above her was to do the actual surgery. I had to have an exam by the urology PA. She had me undress from the waist down, and did a thorough exam. The surgery was done. I had some minor complications. The wound care was done by two female nurse friends of mine. I finally healed and the pump works well for erections and sex. The female urologist helped me and was kind. That is all that matters to be.

Wow Gary... that's pretty brutal man. Glad everything finally worked out.

That is really brutal, Gary. I'm glad that you've found a solution.

For me, it doesn't matter.

I prefer a female, they are normally a bit gentler with the prostate exam and their fingers are smaller. The hernia check is a bit embarrassing though

My recent annual check up was seeing an urologist separate to my internist and cardiologist. I found a nearby doctor from my home. I wouldn't use her name but it was deceiving. I thought the doc was he? From the name. Here enters a young female around 33, 34 y.o incredible beauty. I'm thinking she's the nurse? Wrong!! She's the urologist. After se finished asking me questions from my health questionnaire, she gave me a paper gown told me to drop my pants and underwear and lay back scooting my butt to the edge ot the exam table? She then placed my feet on these roped type stirrups. Spreading my legs apart I then felt her hand on my inner thigh, as she kept talking I then felt a cold liquid, the lube and in one quick but firm thrust into my anus her finger was like a windshield wiper. Back n forth then she eased out. I must admit it felt great. Male docs just aren't as sympathetic when performing a prostate exam. I'm hooked female urologist are the best.

Yes absolutely

Of course :-)

I much prefer female urologists. They don't have the God complex that their male collegues seem to possess.

During my annual physical my female internist asked if I wanted a DRE. She's young and very attractive, so after some hesitation I replied yes. First she checked for a hernia and then closely inspected my testicles for any abnormalities. Next I felt her hands on my penis where she closely inspected the glans opening the urethrae checking for discharges. She slowly examined the shaft and thankfully I didn't become erect. She ask me to roll on my side and I felt her well lubricated finger slide past my rectum and finally reach my prostate. I commented on previous exams doctors telling me I had BPH and she said I was fine and she had seen larger. She laughed and told me at least she had small fingers! I'm looking forward to next years physical.

So far I have never been at the urologist but if I needed to I would definitely choose a female one.

As a Gay Male I think that it's obvious I prefer Male Doctors. My First thourough exam happened in My late 20's at a Clinic specifically for Gay Men. The Doctor was a Tall strapping Man with HUGE HANDS. Each finger was as thick as a sausage. When He inserted His index finger in My Anus I almost went through the roof! He apologized and said "I'll go a little slower...then He decided on a anoscope and inserted it for a period of five minutes or so, I guess to dilate Me. By now I'm fully erect and dripping precum. Then He inserted His finger and gave Me a very thourough examination that ended in Me shooting the biggest wad I've ever shot. He cleaned Me up with wipes and placed His hand on My cheek and said, "everything seems to be in working order." It was at this point I was forever hooked on Exam play. This really happened.