I have had a few awful experiences and all of them involved dating girls. When I was younger in my 20's and 30's I never wore diapers on a date unless we had discussed this in advance and she was OK with it. Usually I never got around to telling her because one or both of us decided we didn't want to continue. On two occasions I can recall, I had been dating a girl for a few times, we seemed to click and both of us were having a good time, and, of course had sex a few times. However my desire to be able to wear diapers with her and have her share my desires became strong enough for me to tell her one evening when she was planning on staying over. We were in bed together, aroused and discussing things we liked to do sexually and I told her about my diaper fetish. Well, that was the end. She laughed at me, told me I was a freak and wished she had known this before and not wasted her time dating a weirdo. She jumped out of my bed, threw her clothes on and couldn't get out of the house quick enough. A few days later I learned she had told two mutual friends about my diaper fetish and neither of them wanted anything more to do with me.
Having learned a lesson, I kept my diaper fetish to myself from then on. Many years later my wife and I divorced and I started to date again, but also started to wear diapers and rubber pants most of the time, having lived in a diaper desert for so long. When I did try to meet women and get together with them, I decided no more hiding my diapers and would wear my diapers and rubber pants when trying to meet women and go out with them. I didn't say anything about my diapers when I would meet a young lady, but eventually if we did hook up after a couple of dates, a show, dinner or whatnot, she would inevitably discover my diapers under my trousers. When that happened, that would typically provoke a discussion about my diaper fetish and wanting to be honest about who I am, I would tell her everything. Most of the time, either she would decide it wasn't something she wanted to continue with or she would and see how she felt about dating a guy who wore diapers for fun. But on one occasion, I was with a girl who really turned me on, and I had wet my diapers some during dinner so by the time we were leaving I was pretty wet. We went to my car and both of us were excited and I knew that night was the time she would find out and I was really hopeful and excited, so much so that I pottied more in my diapers as we were walking to my car. After sitting down, she reached over to me and we started to make out in the car. I placed my hand under blouse and felt her bra and boobs and could feel her heart beginning to race. Her hand dropped from my chest to my crotch and she felt my wet swollen diaper under my trousers, squeezed it several times and said “what the fuck is this? Are you wearing a fucking diaper?" She shoved her hand under my trousers, grabbed my rubber pants, squeezed again and said “who the fuck are you? You have diapers and baby pants on and it feels like you pissed yourself. Are you nuts. I getting out of here you funking weirdo.” I tried to calm her down and take her home, but she just yelled at me and told me she wanted nothing more to do with me or ever see me again and would call a cab. With that she slammed the door shut and ran back to the restaurant. I was so afraid she would call the police or tell everyone knew but fortunately nothing happened other than never seeing her again.
Being too old to let that experience get me down, I met another young lady at my favorite local watering hole, once again wearing my diapers and rubber pants. She is now my fiancee and I have loved every minute we have been together. She changes my diapers three times a day and wont let me go out without making sure I am diapered. Or go to bed with me without diapering me first. I'm so lucky and in love.