Submissive Women: Enemas - What Do You Like?

I'm going to preface this by saying that: I do NOT for one second believe that all enemas are an act of submission.

Secondly, reading around the various threads, it appears that lots of submissive men, or men who like sexual submission some of the time, have been asked this kind of question. But this thread is for the women to respond to.

So, ladies, what do you like about being given enemas by a Dominant partner, be they a man or another woman? What kinds of enemas arouse you? What other acts do you enjoy while taking an enema in a submissive role?

My husband and I switch. I love being dominated as well as dominating. I have posted a number of S&M and non S&M scenes here involving enema scenarios.

As you said, not all enema scenes are one of D&S. Being given an enema for pure sexual or pure enema enjoyment (relaxation) is also wonderful.

The kind of enema that arouses me most is a surprise enema. Anticipation is a very key part for me. When someone whispers in my ear or announces in the presence of others that I am going to get an enema, I get immediately moist. If I then have to wait a while for my enema to begin my mind runs wild with the possibilities of will it be too big, will it hurt some (light punishment) or will I be exposed (embarrassed) and so on. I guess the loss of control is part of it too.

My favorite thing is how he whispers how he will be abusing my freshly cleaned parts after we are done.... AMAZING

I'm very submissive. I enjoy being forced to hold an enema, and I love seeing my boyfriend getting more and more turned on as I'm writhing around with the cramps and begging him to let me expel it. I also like being given suppositories, being spanked, pinched, bitten (not hard enough to break the skin though, that's too much), being bound, diapered, plugged, figged and having various intruments inserted into both orifices, and of course, good ol' disciplanary sodomy. Hope I haven't left out anything.

Sensual enemas are great.....but the real question is what do I like about being given enemas from a Dominant partner.......

There are so many things - where should I begin? I sometimes love being made to fill my own bag with the solution He chooses. Sometimes I love being given an enema while a guest watches. Sometimes I love being plugged afterwards and only He can determine when I will release the enema. Sometimes I love it when He makes me beg for one. Sometimes I love how the talks nasty to me while I am getting it. Sometimes its when He makes me take more than one or two because I did not conduct myself the way He thought I should. Sometimes it is having my breast/nipples bound/clamped/pulled/twisted while getting an enema. So many things.............

In my opinion the expulsion / losing control of an enema is the biggest sexual turn on that i've ever experienced. Either while performing oral sex, regular sex, or simply just sliding my hand in her pantyhose and gently rubbing her bottom , in a short while she is using phrases like i have to go to the bathroom, i can't hold it much longer oor it's starting to coume out. Just hearing those phrases is an incredible turn on for me, and then I re assure her that everything is going to be o.k , and to let nature have it's way , she still flintches trying to hold it in, which i also find erotic, all of a sudden no matter what type of sex we are having she let's nature happpen and me feeling her expulsion on me is the most incredible feeling that iI have ever experienced. We did this for several years until we broke up. Man how I miss that relationship. Hope this answers your question and good luck

My wife to enjoys being teased and told exactly what is going to happen to her and the anticipation kills her

I second all of the above. For me there is something SO exciting about being in someone elses control. I love being made to expel while being watched by a fully clothed partner.

As a dominant male that has given many submissive women enemas over the years, there are many elements that appealed to different ones, some enjoyed the humiliation aspect..some loved the control aspect...some found it erotic to be kept filled and only allowed to expel at my pleasure...some loved high volume enemas, others enjoyed repeated enemas...each woman was different to some degree, but all enjoyed the experience...sometimes, they found pleasure in things that on the surface seemed awful...however..in the end...most all found pleasure in their enemas.

I've been taking both, erotic enemas (before anal sex) and punishment enemas, they're very different but for me it is always an act of submission.

I have a GF who is a bit older than me. A bit ago when I was at her house for coffee, she took my hand and led me to the sofa whereupon she politely asked me to lay across her lap as she positioned me over her knees. I said that I'm not into spanking and she said that she wasn't going to spank me as she caressed my bottom. Then, she lifted my skirt and caressed my bottom again as she pulled my panties down. She told me to relax as she held me across her lap. Then she spread me buttcheeks and I felt warm lube being dripped onto my rosebud. She told me that she was going to take my temperature and she slid the thermometer into my anus and held it there. I have to say that I was getting turned on by this. Then, she took the thermometer out. She then spread my buttcheeks again and I felt her finger enter my anus with more lube. She asked mf it felt nice and I had to say yes. Then I felt something big and long enter my anus and she told me that it was the nozzle of the enema bulb. I felt it go deep inside me, then she squeezed the bulb and I felt the water rushing inside me, she told me that I would get several bulbsfull in succession. Each time I felt the nozzle enter my anus and go deep inside and I'd feel the water rush in. She told me to take all of the water like a good girl. When I had had 5 bulbsfull, she told me that she was going to put in a buttplug so that I wouldn't leak. I felt the buttplug enter my anus. She told me to spread my legs and I felt a strong vibrator held against my clit and I began to tremble as she made me cum over and over again as she held me on her lap. I had never experienced this before. But, I have to say that I really liked it. I told her that it felt really good. She smiled and told me that loved giving enemas to other women. She led me to the bathroom and positioned me over the toilet and she removed the buttplug and I felt all of the water rush out. She cleaned me up with a warm washcloth and we went back to the livingroom. I told her that I would like to do this again very soon. She told me that I could come over as many times as I liked. I would then go to her house about 3 times a week for her special enemas.

But, since then my Co. transferred me and I have never found anyone like her. 😳

I have never had this, but the thought of being strapped down and forced to take an enema against my will is ultra-hot, so sexy.

In my case, enemas are definately a form of submission. I enjoy enemas the most when they are used for punishment. I think you must be submissive to let someone else do that to you.

I've always been on the submissive side and enemas, I believe, are controlled by the dom. I am still an enema virgin as far as receiving one from a man (only self-admin). I am hoping to be introduced to it in a sensual and erotic way. My limits will be tested, I am sure. I do like to be spanked and lots of anal play. Basically I hope to have my body adored and sensually explored and have multiple orgasms. Although I love my nipples played with, I will not allow breast pain or torture at all. My tatas are precious to me.

For a number of years I had a sub who was very submissive. She hated/loved enemas and I developed a little enema game.Once she was naked, I would place a leather-cushioned desk chair at the foot of a high bed and make her kneel on the chair. The chair has wooden rails and spindles on the back, so I could spread her knees and tie them to the rails, as well as her ankles (flexed wide) to a spreader bar.I would then bend her at the waist [the chair back was just the right height] over a double-folded towel so her torso was on the bed. Her leather-cuffed wrists were then pulled wide and towards her feet with ropes tied to the legs of bed. This forced her ass up in the air while providing full body support.Finally, I put another triple folded towel under her shoulders, just above the tops of her breasts and slipped a blindfold over her eyes.Then the game began. An enema nozzle was selected - often a double Balloon, but I have several other large retention nozzles - lubed and inserted. This allowed her to contemplate her fate while I filled my 4 qt. silicone enema bag with Dr. Bronner's peppermint soap and water, connected to a hose with a Higginson on the end, then bleeding out the excess air and filling the Higginson's bulb with fluid. When ready, the bag was hung on the back of the bedroom door and the hose was connected to the already-inserted nozzle.I used an extra-long hose so that the Higginson could move past her head and I would remove my pants and climb onto the bed, sitting immediately in front of her with my legs parallel to her arms. The rules were simple: I would open the hose clamp and begin pumping the enema into her; she could begin to suck me whenever she wished. The enema would end when A) the gallon bag was empty; B) I came; or C) she begged - desperately begged - me to stop the enema. In the event of C, she would be allowed to expel, but would face immediate punishment thereafter. The same position was ideal for the 100 hard strokes of paddle and cane she "earned."Her oral skills were considerable despite being hands-free, and as the bag emptied, the urgency of her efforts increased accordingly, including her few rare accomplishments of deep-throat. I, on the other hand, concentrated on emptying the bag and depriving her of any other relief, having established that she could not take 4 full quarts. I was often successful, finally forcing her to gasp and plead for release and hoarsely agree to the 100 strokes - and, of course, to finishing me as thanks for her spanking.It often occurred to me that this game could be played with the genders reversed, but I have not heard of it being done. There's no patent on the idea, so report in if you decide to try it.[Note: while I have written some fictional stories, this one is 100% true. We played this game more than 25 times in a bit over 4 years.]Bburl

Any more games yo9u would like to share??? that last one sounded great shall have to invest in a leather chair though .....

I like to play a lot of enema mixed with BDSM games with my girl. One of our faves is spanking (or switching, paddling, whipping) her while she holds a large enema. So hot.

I love how incredibly turned on my husband gets as he gives me an enema! And of course, getting cleaned out always leads to the most fantastic anal play! Would love to have him pee inside of me, just not sure how to go about it...

Being tied up and in his control, being treated roughly, hair pulling, neck holding, and a good hard f@#$....

Love having my breasts tied up tight and played/bitten/squeezed.

These posts are all very hot. That's the point: There's nothing quite so erotic to me as a woman's submission. The first time I administered an enema to my partner she was bound in the kneeling position, but her ankles were tied in such a way that she couldn't draw her feet together. Her anus and vagina were perfectly exposed. She had no expectation of what was about to happen. I began by putting some water based lubricant on a finger and just stroking her anus long enough for her to know this was where I intended to concentrate and for her to properly relax. Only then with a finger inside her working gently away did I tell her that she was going to be given her fist enema. When I introduced the nozzle, I made a great fuss about seating in properly as an excuse to keep working it in and out of her anus with the water flowing, while stroking her labia and clitoris with my other hand.

The best of it was that although she said afterwards that she had hated it and never wanted me to repeat it: She did actually ask me to stop after her first expulsion. The reality was that she had actually had such a powerful orgasm during the administration of the enema that she had been frightened by it. Needless to say the truth always comes out in the end and admitting this was her acceptance that she was hooked, so to speak.

Ive only taken enemas under the instruction of a guy and it's highly enjoyable. I like that he's in control of the amount and when I can expel. At that time it's only really controlling the mind but at the same time he's controlling my body because I'm allowing him to. Now if I wasn't doing it solo, the administrator would have complete control. They could touch me where ever they wanted and more humiliation could factor in; punishment too. I like the submission part in to enemas mainly and that's why I do them.

I like the idea of both men and women giving me enemas. I believe spanking, pleasuring them by giving incredible oral, nipple clamps, clothes pins, use a rectal thermometer etc all add to the submission. I get aroused by large soapy enemas.

@bburl - " It often occurred to me that this game could be played with the genders reversed, but I have not heard of it being done."

Presents itself as an exquisite opportunity.

I use enemas as strictly a punishment for my girl. It is actually the most dreaded of them all since it makes her puke and she hates to puke. On the other hand it puts her in amazing head space and helps her refocus on what she is supposed to be doing. Granted we have relationship somewhere between D/S and M/S. If she is getting an enema, she knows she really fucked up and just that disappointment usually gets her in a very submissive mind set.

YMMV

I actually do view enemas as an act of submission. The holding aspect of it is where I see it as a way I can be submissive to the person who administered the enema. They can dominate me in the weak position I am in and by controlling how much I take and for how long. I also view them as a form of punishment in some cases so it's all about who you ask. They can be enjoyable in many ways and not everyone views them as submissive.

Combining bondage, spankings and a hot soapy enema has a profound effect. Coupling this with oral servitude is the greatest.

I love enemas period....but I enjoy both sensual and "punishment" enemas when my partner watches. Sometimes he instructs me to give myself enemas during the day before he gets home from work or be punished if I don't.