Anal Stretching - How Big?

You can take a fist for sure, anyone can. The key is patience, go slow and lots of lube, just like any other anal stretching goal. 3 inches wide is wide enough for a small hand. Most people can stretch well beyond that if they actually commit to it.

Sad news? You tell me.

I just went to a website called thevisualiser.net where you can put in your penis measurements - girth and length -- and it will create a virtual penis and then compare it to all the other penises in the world and give you a rating. I've found that at 5 7/8 inches with 4 inch girth that 67% of men are larger than me. No woman has ever made a negative comment for whatever reason. One girl did once flick it hard with her finger after sex. It hurt like hell. What's with that?

I can't imagine that a man wanting anal sex from me (something I've yet to try) would be as neutral on size. Is it so that for majority of women it's not size but methodology? That's always a question. For men, I think it's more black and white. The bigger the better.

thoughts on small penises for small anuses, man v woman?

Mistress Melanie keeps me permanently plugged with a butt plug harness that is locked on 24/7 to keep a medium-sized silicone plug securely inserted. The only I'd be able to remove my plug would be to realistically and maliciously destroy the harness, and as a result, my butt plug never comes out except for short bathroom breaks only.

Since I usually wear a silicone butt plug, I am unfortunately unable to use a silicone lube (I find that they're typically longer lasting than most other types). My favorite brand of lube is Liquid Silk. Even though it is water-based, it is thick and relatively long lasting.

Quaxy Wrote: I can't imagine that a man wanting anal sex from me (something I've yet to try) would be as neutral on size. Is it so that for majority of women it's not size but methodology? That's always a question. For men, I think it's more black and white. The bigger the better.

thoughts on small penises for small anuses, man v woman?

I'm a gay bottom man, and I MUCH MUCH MUCH prefer a cock your size than a huge one. Don't think that all guys like big dicks; they don't. Guys with nice tight holes like mine like average to smaller cocks because if you fuck good, you fuck good (it only takes like 3-4 inches to hit the male g-spot) and if it's too big, I have to pass. Cock size is only an issue for me when it's too big.

And I'm hot! FYI hahaha

Go fuck ass with confidence! If you think the guy wants something bigger, fuck him from behind, and as you do, reach around and stick your fingers in his ass and pull it more open while you fuck him. He'll flip out.

Go get em tiger!

I have a strapon which is 5cm in diameter. I've just ordered a buttplug which is 4.5cm in diameter at its widest. However, the largest thing I've had in my ass is my ex-girlfriends fist - amazing! I love it big, but at the same time I don't think I need to go any bigger than what I have now. Now, I'm going for length. I've put a shower hose in my ass pretty far, maybe 40cm. I've also just ordered a 45cm double dildo, let's see how much of that I can get in me 😄

Today was a good day I've just managed to go from 6cm to 6.8cm and it was amazing had my first hands free orgasm I used a hair conditioner bottle as its hard to find toys around this diameter everything seems to bee either 5 cm and then jumps to 7cm at the local sex shop I thing the aml helped stretch that last bit though ;-)

Make no mistake: I like big! I'm not competing with anyone: I just like to feel really FULL. But FULL has two dimensions: wide and deep.

My question would be, "How big to do what?" I'll explain why I think it important. When my anus is only a little stretched - say 38mm (1 1/2") the inner sphincter is quite far inside my perineum: about the same distance. But the bigger the intruder I try to get in, the closer that inner sphincter comes to the surface. At 80mm (3,14") it is only a few millimeters inside. An object with that effective diameter (but little length AT that diameter) will be retained once I get it past the outer and inner sphincters, which approach each other closely under the tension of stretching. BUT - should I try to insert the item more deeply (let's say it's a butternut squash, inserted head first) then I encounter further resistance from the restricted available space in my pelvis. As a man, my pelvis only has to be wide enough to let crap out! It seems my absolute max to get through that inside space is about 83mm (3,26"). And it does not go easily, but with a sort of scrunching of muscle tissue getting out of the way over quite a long distance - perhaps 50-70mm (2- 2 3/4"). It's letting me know that what went in with difficulty will also be very hard to get out again! See my posts on living with a butternut squash inside me for almost three weeks on that one! I look with amazement at clips of guys being fisted up to the armpit of the fister! Perhaps they're just bigger built than me? More pelvic parking space?

I'm pretty certain I could stretch my anus further; maybe a lot further. But bigger items simply won't get far - they will get jammed inside. The head of a butternut squash distends the highly elastic rectum; but it bulges outwards, not inwards, in accommodating the intruder because of the inner resistance. If you ever wondered why those really BIG plugs are so sharply tapered, I think this is the reason. The plug does not go beyond the rectum. In theory, women with their far more roomy pelvises ought to be able to accommodate much bigger LONGER dildos/plugs than men.

Let's have some input on that one?

Johnny

I have for long time liked anal play and love to stretch.

I play about 1 time per month.

I always clean my self first.

I go slowly and with a lot of lube

I take long time to take my largest toy Ace of spades 3" diameter.

That is my largest toy, that is enough for me I do not want any bigger

But since about 2 year back, always when I come to about 2-2,3" diameter I always start to bleed abit, light red blood.

I then take a small break for a while and the small bleeding end, and I can continue to play.

I hate this situation it destroy abit of the good feeling.

Is it safe to keep play after a small paus ?

The bleeding do not come back again while playing more.

You are obviously over-doing it and your body is complaining.

Playing one time per month is your main problem considering the size of your insertions. If a gymnast practiced only once a month, they would lose their ability to perform, and that's what is happening with your anus.

Most lubes will do a good job if you use enough of it.

I used to play mor often before. Nowadays there is not so many opportunities to play but I will try to play more often and see what is happening. I Use Doc Johnsons Anal Lube I love this lube, have tried alot of different but his is my no1 so far and I sure use a lot of it.

I am what you might say a size queen anal enthusiast. I started playing with toys in the butt before 18 and continue to this day (I'm 44 now). I started off with medium sized plugs and dildos (6" long x 1.5" diameter) and simply worked up from there. It actually didn't take long (maybe a month with play every three days) to take 3" diameter objects. If your on a budget, buy butternut squash of the size you're looking for. They're cheap and easily peeled and cleaned and smoothed. They're also like plug shapes so they stay put. I use silicone lube mostly unless I use a silicone toy in which case use a water based lube. If I play in the evening I sometimes leave them in overnight or if during the day I use a toy that will stay put and is not unreasonably sized so I can do stuff around the house for a few hours without having to walk funny. This system is great to use when prepping for a date where you know your limits will be pushed. Makes for an easier less complicated time with the partner(s).

However, I've definitely noticed a change in the look of my butthole and some change in the way my butthole works after 27 years of gay sex and many anal stretching marathons with large toys, vegetables, and men. I know the skin has stretched over time and even though my sphincter pulls tight again there's just more skin so my hole is no longer a pucker but more of a fleshy donut or scrunchy (you know, the kind women wear in their hair) and sticks out all the time. But you'd be amazed at the compliments I get from guys who love that look. I guess it looks very inviting and swollen, ready for sex. I also find it much harder to not fart. The farts leak out and are more juicy sounding. Luckily they don't leave residue so I think it's just the extra loose skin simply flapping and making more noise. Also my feces are much larger despite me being very regular. They don't hurt at all but are just very large probably because my hole can open much wider.

I started out with stretching but have started playing with depth at the moment. I think that I may have to go back to stretching a bit as one of my toys which is similar to a "slinky" is proving difficult to get in at the base! I can manage a large Doc Johnson plug which has a diameter of 2 inches and also a Jeff Stryker dildo which is about the same. I also have a Titanmen Intimidator which is a good tool for increasing stretch as it enables you to lower yourself on it as it gets wider and wider. Loads of lube seems to be the key and always go slowly to avoid any tearing. As a previous post said if one doesn't do it for a while then you're back to square or should I say round one! Hope that's helpful.

I'm still fairly new (2 months) to anal play, so max for me is 6 inches of girth, but it feels amazing! My two favorite lubes are JO H2O Water Based Lube for silicone and U-Lube Silicone for metal and glass toys.

What HealthyBoy said pretty much sums it up for me as well!!

I can stretch my anus to a maximum diameter of 1,8 inch. I tried this 5 minutes ago. If bigger, it'll hurt...

Take several previous enemas, allows good hygiene and the necessary expansion for anal play. How big you want the dilation of the anus? The pain and pleasure that your body will allow.

I've been using butt plugs and dildos for years. You start small and sooner rather than later you just want something bigger. I can take very large toys now and I can't get enough. I just ordered the rosebud anal pump cause I want to slid a big butt plug in my nicely pumped hole. It should arrive tomorrow. I can't wait. Will post results.

I love anal stretching, already years I am in it.

Today I can easily go to 3 inches of diameter and would love to go bigger.

But it feels like my skeleton/bones won't let me go bigger ... unfortunately :-(

Anyone here who goes beyond 3 inches?

Rodin--

For what it is worth, a woman is considered fully dilated and ready for delivery when she is at 10 cm (= 4"), so the pelvic opening is at least that much, but I do not know what the range is or how you would measure yours. I would add that no woman I have ever talked with finds being fully dilated and having a baby pass through that opening a comfortable experience.

So, go ahead and try for more than 3" if you want, but it may be more than you can expect to do.

hankb

To add at what Hank has said - females have skeleton built for delivery - males do not. Rodin may be very well hitting his limit on his pelvic opening - we do not know his physiology (size and body type). Assuming he is an average male size and built, 3 inches should not be his limit, although as someone who is approaching his own limits at anal stretching, I can confirm that 3 inches may seem like something that can not be conquered. Then again, as with anything anal - training is key factor, but that is something Rodin already knows. All those fisted guys are the proof it can be done - so with time and the right toys I guess sizes over 3 inches in diameter can be achieved by an average male.

I feel like I've reached my limits at 3.5 inches. 3 inches goes in fairly easily, 3.5 isn't much of a challenge but I have two more at 3.7 and 3.8 and it's like hitting a brick wall, it doesn't even feel like stretching any more it just feels like I'm hitting a physical stopper.

Hello All,

Might seem small to you, but I had a small victory this week and I just had to share it! 😄

I have had this 5.5cm buttplug for ages, probably more than a year.

It was always just too big to fit.

But Monday I managed for the first time!!

Since then I have been using it every day!

Pushing it in and out, slowly stretching myself out.

I realized that I forgot how much I loved the feel of stretching.

So now I bought an inflatable dildo, starting at 5cm, and I'll use it to train myself to take even more!!

I'm so excited I can't wait for it to arrive tomorrow!!!

Any of you guys reach any milestones lately?

Congratulations, i like to try larger & larger toys myself

Took biggest plug so far - a glass one 2.6 inch diameter (67milimeters). Since it has no give it was an even bigger challenge. Never thought I would be able to do such widths. Quite exhilarating!

I can go to about three inches across and I'm thinking that's about the limit. can't do no more....

Anal lubrication?

I purchase mine at Bed, Bath, and Beyond.

@Hermann Interesting. I didn't think they carried lube. How big is their selection? Do you buy on the web or in store? If in store, what reactions do you get from the clerks.

I shop the store for many of my home care needs. They have a variety of lubricant type products. I only shop in the store. The clerks are gr8! However, she was a flirtin with me last weekend when I purchased two refills. So, its my thought that I will go back this weekend, to see if she remembers.

If she plays with me any more, I will ask her to coffee; and, we can see if she tells me "the rest of the story".

I recently managed to insert a 2.5" diameter butt plug--much to my surprise and relief. The first time, it took me about 45 minute to get it in. The second time, it took about 30 minutes. Then 15 minutes, 10 minutes, and then 5 minutes. All of this progress within the past week and a half ( ! ) Getting it out is a bit trickier-- it's a real exercise in relaxation and muscle control. It made me wish I had taken Lamaze lessons...

My ultimate goal is to reach 3 inches. I recently saw a video of a man (effortlessly) inserting a HUGE dildo up his ass. I swear it was wider than his thigh. So I guess the possibilities are almost endless, but that's a bit over-the-top. I mean really, where does one go from there..?

Jason,

I'm not recommending that you go any farther than your 2.5" plug, but I'm curious as to why 3" is currently the magic number you're aiming for? I certainly love plugs and nozzles and enemas, but my usual is about 1.5-1.75". I can imagine 2", but even 2.5" seems like it would take a lot of practice with smaller ones to get that far. I don't have any interest in seeing how big I can get in or hold, as my 1.75" black nozzle (Klystra?) I bought years ago from Tyler feels great and is large enough to act as a plug for most enemas I'll ever do without leaking. Just curious about your 3" goal.

Of course I have my DBC from Rusch with nominal 250cc balloons, but I don't really know how large the inner one inflates to - I just do about 4-6 pumps until it doesn't leak.

Eric