Thanks for the posts... I had a session over the weekend, and it went very well... We had dinner beforehand, some drinks, discussion about all the things mentioned in the posts, thanks, those pointers kept the discussion focused... So I got a good idea of what we all wanted.. took a "stern" attitude (pun intended),
Did spread those cheeks as mentioned in the posts, lubed those rosebuds, took temperatures (great ice breaker), told them why they were being punished, didn't have a ping pong paddle with a rough side but the one I had was rough enough on both sides - got the cheeks nice and rosy coloured, included the creases as listed in the post, gave the enemas to every one's satisfaction
I got a nice reward of oral treatment by the woman...yum... Anyhow many thanks to the posts - it opened up my eyes and because it went well enough we are going to have a repeat in a few weeks and try to improve on it each time we meet - practice makes perfect..... I'll report on the future "improvements" as they happen and maybe it will help others, as well as keep me trying to get better at this enjoyable new activity.