Girlfriend finally got an enema

My wife originally let me give her enemas....

but now (after a break in time) she has reverted back to her original position of "this is a private matter".

I don't know if I will be able to get her interested again.

😢

@nozzeler: (ahem) Sandra Bullock. The film is "Gun Shy".

Wow, what a surprise to your girlfriend! Lucky girl, I hope you both continue to enjoy! I don't think I will tell a future bf about my enema interests but I may talk about the spanking play if it gets pretty serious.

Shay,

I strongly believe you should find a way to share your enema interest with any serious boyfriend. It is generally a lifelong interest which does not go away, nor should it. But it can lead to a smouldering unhappiness if you are not compatable about it. I shared my interest, among other things, with a girl, who accepted it and, until her passing last year, led to 46 yrsof a very successful marriage.

I'm curious how others feel about this.

gdfru

Sharing is key, but give it time and ease into it with something like ass play.

From my experience, if your girlfriend is willing to try enemas for your sake and even mildly curious, it works better if the experience is linked to something she really likes so there is an association.

In the past I have made sure the bag was hung really low and the temp warm, not hot or cold, to prevent cramping. Usually before and after, and sometimes during, if she is on her back, I give an erotic Yoni massage to really stimulate her. Kind of equate enemas with you with nice orgasms ... however you can do that.

Once you introduce someone to the pleasures of a well administered enema, they never look back. People often need to get over their initial fear.

My girlfriend in college was a student nurse and was more than willing to give and receive enemas and rectal temps. She was very anal erotic

I think both partners have to really be into it for it work. I don't think mere acceptance will work in the long run. Two anal erotic people is the key.

I have found that if you can make her enjoy the first one, and get her to associate it with pleasure, you're on the right track!

But ultimately, it will have to come in it's own timing.

My girl hates them i would love for someone to give me advice on how to make her first time or even convince her to take on for the first time, its a loosing battle for me, and it makes me up set

I don't want to be pessimistic eman21, but you may simply have a partner who's not into enemas like you are, and no amount of talking is going to make a difference. You may have to decide how important this aspect of your life is to you, and if it's not going to be fullfilled, you might have to decide whether or not the relationship should move forward. Better to find out now, BEFORE you're married, than to be sorely disappointed in the future. Open communication is the key. If you are both honest with each other, and you still get a firm NO......that will most likely be your answer. Good luck.

Sounds like a lot of fun! I still have not told my boyfriend of 5 years the joy I find in enemas and being dominated. Sadly I'm stuck with the vanilla sex life until I get the nerve to share my secret interest.

@ inj716

If you like enemas, you should really let your BF in on that. Or any other fetish for that matter. He may really enjoy it, or at least enjoy giving you enemas. If so, you will be very happy you brought it up. If not, it might start a discussion about other things you both enjoy. If all else fails, it may be time to find someone a little less 'vanilla'...

Good luck! 😃

Speaking as the girl friend; a friend convinced me to accept an enema once when I was severely constipated. She sold me on it as a quick cure, and when the time came she was gently and caring. Using a bulb syringe she slowly gave a nice warm enema with no cramps and massaged my back while the enema worked. It was over all a pleasant experience and I would not hesitate to let her do it to me again.

My ex- thought that enemas were really weird. I think it's great if you can interest your girlfriend/wife, but I wonder how many men have similar experiences to mine, that is that they think it is icky and weird. Unfortunate, but I suspect true. Any guesses as to what percentage of women really do like receiving? And for that matter how about giving?

JT

Finally got my GF to let me give her an enema. And I completely blew it! AAAAAHHHHH!

We were messing around back there and we both noticed we had make a small mess. No big deal. But I was prepared with a Fleet (well, almost prepared). She was face down and got the enema out and told her she needed one. She didn't object, so I gently inserted it and squeezed. But forgot to take the inner seal off first. Only a small amount actually went in, and the rest went everywhere.

So close and yet so far. I was so excited, I completely forgot.

But the good new is we have broken that barrier. She knows I do them because she sees my bag in the closet. But we really haven't talked about it.

Wish me luck, the weekend is coming up.

My girlfriend agreed to be punished with what I call classic punishment.....

I was giving her a 2 ltr warm water enema while I was spanking her buttcheeks...

she loved..........

A few mentions were made us using a Fleet when doing a first enema with a GF or BF. Why? Anyone who doesn't purchase a bulb syringe or hot water bag with a variety of attachments is eliminating the potential for enjoyment before the game begins. Maybe even long before your potential partner agrees to the enema experience. You want to make an enema an enjoyable experience, don't you? When he/she says "yes, let's try it", then you do things to give your partner an opportunity to back out (no pun intended), well, that's like saying "hey let's play ball, but first I've got to get a ball, bat and glove."

Okay, you've talked it over with your partner and the game is about to begin ... getting the partner relieved of clothing is the first goal ... that gets the juices going, so to speak.

Then let the potential recipient see you prepare the solution, whether it's filling a bag with clear, warm water, or filling a bowl with a solution so you can use your bulb syringe.

Guy, I'm going to tell you what I love best ... my hubby loves to have me lay across his lap, and I love this position, and he very slowly, very gently, lubes all necessary areas and the nozzle. He makes sure his finger penetrates me so some lubricant is on the inside of the channel. Then he takes the filled syringe, gently inserts it into me, to the tilt, so the speak, gently squeezed it so that I can feel the water entering ... but not too fast. While he's doing this, maybe on the second or third insertion, he's also massaging other important areas of my body ... I usually get totally aroused.

Now, with your partner ... be very gentle ... the first time is so important ... done right, your partner will look forward to future experiences ... hopefully on a very regular basis.

And remember, the e-session is only the start. A shower after is so important (remember, the recipient may need extra time to purge him/her self), followed by a nice toweling off session and then, finally, well, if I've got to tell you, there's not hope for you, is there?

My wife is a trooper, but she is repulsed by enemas. It took a while but I opened up to her about my interest. She gave it (receiving) the ol' college try a couple of times, but panicked and HATED it. She is repulsed by the thought of them, but, she's compromised and will give me my weekly (or so) enema. She's actually become quite good at the process. When she gives me the enema conventionally, she'll stroke me until I come. If she's in the mood to come, too, though, she pinches the tube while I go down on her. She'll start releasing water when she gets close to her orgasm. By the time she comes, I'm full of water and could cut diamonds with my cock. She'll roll over into doggy position, and I'll enter her with the nozzle and two quarts of water up my bum. I come so hard when we do this I'm surprised I haven't passed out. She enjoys it, too. I think she's been able to almost totally dissociate what I'm doing to her and her giving me the enema, and she's able to focus just on the sensations of my tongue on her clit. It's a tremendous rush.

Sure, I'd love it if she'd agree to be on the receiving end, but the reality is I'm very blessed to be with a wonderful woman who is open-minded enough to tolerate and even participate a bit in something she's completely not into.

I had my bag in the bathroom linen closet. My girlfriend of 4 months evidently was snooping around the bathroom. We were out one night and I mentioned to her that I was feeling down and slugglish. He immediate responses was, " I am going to have to give you a soapsuds enema tonight". And, when we got to my place that is just what she did. Too bad we broke up a few months after that.

I had a girlfriend many years ago who I thought was vanilla. We started to play around and I discovered that she enjoyed being spanked. She loved having her ass played with, so I suggesgted an enema. The first time I gave her one I was playing with her clit and she came 4 times. She became totally into enemas after that.

There are those of us who've had an enema interest that goes way back in time. But there are definately others who, when introduced later in life, quickly become great fans. Being somewhat anally-erotic to begin with seems to be a prerequiste!

How did she like it?

I'm not sure I've ever had a full-on girlfriend who didn't end up enjoying a nice warm enema. I guess it's all in the presentation?

I am would love to give my wife one

That sounds like a great experience for you!

Does she want to try an enema again?

Being constipated is a starting point !

I am usually the recipient but sometimes my GF is in need of an "attitude adjustment" (an occasional "off day" is OK) but a prolonged bad attitude is not. It seems that when she is on the receiving end until her attitude improves the results seem to have a lasting effect.

I would like the blindfolding the first time with him - I like to play the "I didn't know what was happening/I like your surprises" part