What is is exactly what you like about giving/receiving enemas?

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What I enjoy about giving an enema is the reaction my sub has. I love the "attention" that I get from him. Whether it is waiting for the enema, the insertion, the enema, or the solution he has to hold. Really the whole idea of the giving up the control over what happens with the enema turns him on, which then turns me on. It is a vicious cycle but someone has to do it.

I personally like the bloated belly. I think it's sexy!

I love the look on my partner's face. Although I don't currently have a partner, I'm always anticipating what kind of reaction I might get from my next one. And I love it when my partner is finished and anxious to return the favor.

The control over their mind and body. Knowing that he has to totally surrender his body to me.

I love the whole thing.

I love going to our S&M room and selecting the bag and type of nozzle or tube, lingering over the selection, telling my husband his time has come, positioning him on the bed, bathroom floor, restraining him if necessary, squeezing the lubricant out of the bottle onto my fingers, rubbing it all over all his bottom parts, feeling my fingers slide smoothly and effortlessly over and into his body, lubricating the nozzle or tube, inserting the tube either teasingly or in one deft definitive motion, positioning the nozzle and inflating the balloons or snaking the colon tube far up his behind, feeling the tube advance along his colon with my hands through his abdominal wall, clicking open the clamp to allow the water to flow through his body, sometimes seeing him squirm as the water flows, other times seeing him take his quarts like a champ, grasping hold of his inflating cock, licking it softly at first, then positioning myself to completely swallow his penis as his colon fills, watching his abdomen swell and become turgid, seeing his face as he gets ready to cum, feeling him cum either in my pussy, hand, tits or mouth, making him hold the enema until I'm ready (or until he is ready to release it if I'm feeling benevolent), removing the tube, especially a colon tube, which I may do slowly and with short re-insertions or with one fairly quick recoil, making him expel as I monitor his progress and finally, making sure he cleans up well and showers. . . . and then violating each other again and again in the most vile ways imaginable.

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I couldn't help the lengthy description.

My husband has been out of town since Monday morning and won't be back until Friday and I'm very, very horny. Masturbation helps, BUT I NEED A MAN! 😁 😁 😁

My wife prefers coffee enemas and I must say I love to administer them to her.

The best part is...everything! Watching the guy remove his clothes, seperating his buttocks, looking at his beautiful anus, rubbing lube into his anus and inserting the enema tube. The only thing I don't like is the expulsion -- when he expells his body waste I turn my head. Then, when the expulsion is over, it's time for another enema!

Being a voyeur practitioner as well as a champion of unbridled cuckoldry, the best part is the interplay of sense: touch, visual, aural. There is no greater pleasure in the world than having a lovely BBW right in between her husband and my male intern on the edge of the bed with her legs held up on either side (a kind of human stirrups) and her big bare butt lovingly projected to receive the nozzle. To say the expression on her face and the delightfully reddening blush on her (fore) cheeks as she turns her head and devours each of us in turn with her eyes is "warming" 😉 is an immense understatement. 😜

The best of the best part? The teasing tickle of the almond infused Vaseline which I apply in two ways: by dipping the nozzle in the jar and scooping up a gob which I direct with perfect aim to her anus and gently manipulate; my finger (I do not use latex gloves except for show) which I delicately insert and halfway pull out and rotate; finally the "moment of truth" when I send the nozzle to its target while whispering in competition with both hubby and Maynard who each have their lips to each ear. 😄

My favorite part about giving an enema: creating and maintaining her anticipation. I make certain that she is an audience to all the preparations, but won't involve her directly. When everything is otherwise ready, I hang the four-quart bag, filled to the brim with a hot, soapy water (nearly opaque) and have the tubing hang right in front of her so she can see it. I lubricate the largest of the double-balloon catheters in front of her; I then lubricate her anus and rectum liberally, then slowly push the tube one fraction of an inch at a time into her. When the straight wall of the first balloon pops into her rectum, I slowly inflate the forward balloon inside her; fill the second balloon; and give it a little tug to let her know that it isn't going anywhere -- and neither is she. The weight of the water-filled tubing sometimes pulls on the catheter anchored in her bottom and causes her to clench with her muscles on the balloons and interior tubes, causing the exterior tubes to wriggle and sway. Of course, I am behind her pretty bum and have the perfect view. There will be many different, plausible reasons why we can't proceed immediately, but the truth is that I am giving her time for her anticipation to build. Sometimes I'll see her looking wide-eyed at the bag, eyes full of anticipation and awe, trying to intellectualize where all that water and soap is going to go, and wondering how it is all going to fit. I'll ask her if she is ready to start, and occasionally she hesitates -- and I'll let her think about it for another minute or so. Sometimes I have the tubing kinked so that nothing can flow into her, and will make the unmistakable sound with the clamp flying open. Other times, if I can get just the right amount of control over the clamp, I'll barely open it so the hot water flows very slowly into her, and she'll feel every cup of water going in. She also likes to bow her back and stomach deeply so that her legs are at a right angle to the bed, but her belly and back form half of a "U" shape, her chest cushioned by her large, firm breasts. But, yes, it all works for me. Especially her anticipation.

Whaledriver: Use TWO clamps. One for the ON-OFF and the other to control the FLOW RATE. You can count the number of clicks the clamp makes from it's open position to whatever degree of flow you want.

I love the initial parts best. A slow deep lubrication and then the pressing in of the nozzle and that reaction to the first rush as it starts!! My favorite position is to have my partner on her back so that I can watch her face at each stage. I also love the part where the enema begins to get to them and that first flash of panic strikes when they are not sure that they can take it all.

I enjoy everything about enemas... SOmetimes its relaxing and other times its a trial. Experimentation at its best

It is soooooo exciting giving that e the first time to a newbie. It is so personal and gets me rather hot.

For me it's the whole situation that is very exciting! Getting undressed, expose the most intimate part of the body... waiting for the procedure... inserting the nozzle... feeling the water going in... feeling some cramps... and finally the relieve! All this is exciting on both giving and receiving ends.

Like what doesn't turn me on about giving an enema?! Big round bottom up in the air or over my knee. What nozzle, solution, & temperature shall she endure? Watching her squirm from the pleasure & embarrassment of having her bottom lubricated. Guess really the big thing is the submission that enemas bring on. My favorite part is just shortly after I unclamp the hose releasing the solution is the moment my partner's head drops from an upright position above her shoulders down to below her shoulders. That part gets me every time. From that moment on, I know that I have her undivided attention. And a genuine hot soapsuds enema is taking place.

Only to ex-wife as foreplay Never just for fun Do solo now for cleansing and stress relief. Usually masturbate with last one still inside

Yes, a very lovely woman that I was involved with when my soon-to-be ex-wife and I were swinging. She and I both enjoyed recieving from one another. We will actually be moving in together soon. Hopefully her water bill won't jump up too much...lol

That first moment when the anus is exposed and in full view for admiration and the insertion

I love watching my partner's reaction during the process, seeing his hole twitch as i expose his most private place, watching his penis plump up and his erection come and go as the pleasure and discomfort ebb and flow, listening to his breath and moaning as the power of the water overtakes his senses. ...it's all so good and so intimate

I have never been given an enema by anyone other than myself, but in my fantasy, i am on my back with my legs spread wide and up. my doctor is at the foot of the bed. i have a sheet on my knees so i can't see what the doctor is doing. i hear him squirt the lube on his finger. he puts the finger very slowly in my hole so i am writhing with ecstasy. he pulls it out and pushes it in all the way. then he removes it and lubes his other finger. he inserts it in my ass, again, slowly pushing and making me feel every inch. when one finger is in my ass, he takes his thumb and fingers my pussy, so he has one finger in each hole. then he withdraws fingers, and inserts enema nozzle. i can see the hose protrude from under the sheet, and my anticipation and nervousness about being in his control is overtaken by the pleasure and the pressure of the warm enema. i have no choice but to handle it, as i lay cramping and wincing from the discomfort. while i lay there breathing deeply and slowly, he fingers my pussy. that's my fantasy.

Not to worry about making it come true. Just say when you're ready and the line of men will stretch all the way to Vermont.

On the more responsive side to the question, I like the lubing of the opening (which should take a minute or two) to the talking about each step as it occurs. Cool water in the length of the hose being released wide open for about 5 seconds, then clamping it down to nice and slow for the warm water. I like to encourage her to let out her expression, whatever it is, from moans to 'stop' the flow for a brief time. It's a cooperative effort: the more cooperative the engagement, the greater the experience. Lots of possibilities within this framework!

The most enjoyable part for me when giving is inserting the douche pattern nozzle into that most lovely and broad female backside. Women have the cutest little "rosebud" and I always use plenty of lube, vaseline on the nozzle and a tad of jelly on the lovely sphincter. I have her on her knees in the bathtub and I have her spread her checks to make matters easier, I check the temp of the water against the bottom of her feet and also to purge the air from the line. Then bliss, sliding the slick stick into that sweet anus the full distance. Then I announce that she is to receive the water and click. She sometimes uses a vibrator while the water is filling her, I pull the nozzle back until she tells me that is the best feeling spot, about and inch to two or so. I also enjoy reaching around and feeling the firmness developing in her tummy which becomes a belly...

When giving, I enjoy the insertion and initial reactions. There is also something very erotic about a partner who is trusting to extent of allowing me to control her body.

My favorite is getting the fat nozzle ready then the lub with the finger that I will insert into the rectum , then inserting the finger and feeling the sphincter ring open and then turning the finger so I can get the lub all around and in slowmotion pulling the finger out so to feel the ring close .

then the insertion of the fat nozzle , watching it go in ever so slow lee

Though I prefer getting to giving, I love the opportunity to give him pleasure. I like the intimacy and the nuturing aspect of it.It seems a little strange to me that when I'm receiving, I like the punishment/being dominated aspect, but when I'm giving I just want to take care of him.

If i'm on the receiving end, my favorite part is feeling full and finally cuming.

if i'm on the giving end, in my personal life my favorite part is inserting the nozzle and massaging the girl while she soaks up the enema. in the films that i produce, my favorite part is the elaborate bondage (too lazy to do that in my private life!) and making the girl suck my cock while her belly is getting larger.

I guess I'll just have to find a partner to give one to !! 😃