What is is exactly what you like about giving/receiving enemas?

Having a naked Black or White bbw/ssbbw lie on my exam table, or bed, in the prone position. Splaying apart her big (or very big) buttocks and watching a douche nozzle and/or a big buttplug nozzle being slowly engulfed by her tight anus. I also "toy" my patients with a vibrator until they acheive orgasm.

I think it is more blessed to give than to receive and there is much I like about giving enemas to a docile female.

I enjoy the ceremony of the enema, gathering up the equipment, putting it on display, mixing solutions. I like to escort the supplicant to the place of execution. I like to watch her undress.

The psychological aspects of the enema are quite exciting: the voyeurism on the part of the giver, the exhibitionism on the part of the receiver, threads of domination and submission, and somehow the embarrassment and humiliation on the part of the receivers is strangely erotic.

I especially enjoy when she assumes the position to receive the nozzle proffering her bare bottom and putting it on display. The sight of a woman remaining still with her bare bottom on display is one of the sexy sights imaginable. And she is completely exposed, anus, vulva, all the most intimate areas of her body. I like to part her soft buttock and take a long lewd look at her exposed pucker. I enjoy the lubrication of anus and rectum. I enjoy watching nozzles and tubes disappear into her rectum. I like to watch the water line drop as the bag siphons into her belly and I like to watch her reactions as her belly swells. I enjoy being present while she expels adding to her humiliation making the enema experience more intimate and exciting.

Oh, I am with Cogito ergo Cum. Let us not forget the little whimpers and moans of pleasure from the entry and the flow. We must be gentlemanly about it and soothe her tummy and caress her lovely breasts as they hang free and proud. If the tummy soothing hand brushes vulva or labia it will be appreciated. My reverie: however lady applicants may apply.

My fav part is proving to a skeptical person that an enema does not have to hurt or be painful and that elimination does feel wonderful.

So much that I like about enemas but particularly when I am finally to the point of an enema when I have to "pant"....

This is a tough question! There are so many aspects about administering an enema that I enjoy. First, is the announcement, telling the receivers that they WILL be getting an enema. Secondly, is the removal of the underwear, something that is a real treat for me. I like to remove underwear s l o w l y. Third, is the spreading of the cheeks and the lubing the anus. Finally, the insertion of the nozzle. I could go on, but those four parts are my favorites.

My favorite part is seeing how the belly swells as she takes the enema. Turns me on big time!

Hot damn, Cogito - You have brought out the voyeur side of me, for sure! Your post makes me want to be a "fly on the wall" in your bathroom (or where ever you administer the water to the woman)! That is as much fun to me as actually taking part in the ceremony. Thanks for the post and enjoy!

Indeed, cogito. That's a great post. Nothing much to add really.

To tackle it from a slightly different angle: there is the physical and the mental part that intertwine so closely and which eventually bring about the joy.

Being intimately close and still living a scene which includes dominant and docile aspects separating the lovers from one another can work miracles.

For the more graphically orientated mind: really there is nothing better than a woman's round naked butt being shown to you - and being available to you for your (and her!) enjoyment. A warm surrounding - be it a summer day in the backyard, a secluded part of a little bosk or a well-heated bathroom - and you can take it real slow. I enjoy making her undress and kneel with her bottom up in the air, parting her legs slightly and spreading her cheeks for me. Then leaving her for a while while she has to hold her ass open. Part of the excitement is that (at least theoretically :-) a stranger may walk by and see her giving such a lewd display (of course, I make sure that nothing like it will happen and of course, she knows).

Just a couple of minutes usually do and I have to hold back watching her while I am a few meters out of her sight. She doesn't obey my order to keep her ass nicely parted but starts to masturbate. Again, the real fun takes place in our minds: she knows that I watch her and I again know that she knows but still puts on a show for me. So part excitement comes from the reality of the kinky situation and part of the fun is just fantasy. I think this can only really work if you trust one another.

Naturally, we like to continue the scene. She doesn't like to be lubed too well but enjoys the raw feeling of just a saliva or pre-cum coated nozzle entering her.

(Apart from that everything has to be pretty comfortable and just allow for the illusion of real dominance and submission).

I enjoy getting a blow-job (hey, what a surprise) when I make her hold the enema. If she likes me to take it easy on her, a mid-size butt-plug helps her retain the enema. But I also like to make her hold it without such assistance. Her squirming not to leak is good fun and making her hold her ass cheeks apart to "train" her ass properly adds some enjoyment.

If possible we like to cum simultaneously while she expels. The combination of heavenly sexual arousal and the illusion of humiliation or complete control respectively make for some wonderfully intimate time to remember.

I completely agree with another post that I saw elsewhere on the site: the brain is the hottest erogenous zone we have.

Well now, this has become rather lengthy. I hope you still appreciate my thoughts.

Announcing to my patients that they are about to get an enema(s), lubing up the patient's anus/rectum, inserting the nozzle, releasing the fluid, and watching their reaction to it all. Often, I'll prepare some other instruments, or give my patients a nice warm oil massage as the bag empties.

Yes, a few times, to women only. I found it extremely exciting to be the dominating part and find them submitting themselves to me. Their moaning and sighing and obvious excitement was more than rewarding for me!!!

We love to give each other enemas just for fun ... trying different positions, different places ... we leave our game up to our imaginations. That's what keeps us young ... or at least younger-feeling than we are. I love it. When we're done, I feel so frisky ... don't you, too?

I dated a nurse once,she taught me a lot about recreational enemas

Most of the enemas I've taken ... and given ... have been just for fun ... after the first one prepares the playgrounds and the second purifies it, then the rest are fun, fun, fun. Sometime my hubby and I exchange as many as four or five "fun" enemas after the prep work is done. It's absolute pleasure ... giving and taking.

Yes and it was a very "interesting" situation - lots of instruction needed during the procedure!

Love to try it with someone. Oregon

Yes! I enjoy giving enemas most any time! But as for the person getting the enema? Well, most of the enemas are given for them to enjoy. There have been times when they were not, however.. But that is a different subject, isn't it? 😁

I gave my high school sweet heart one, one day after school when we had her house to ourselves for a little while. She was a very anal erotic type. When her mom did come home and asked why she kept running to the toilet she told her she had eaten some rich food for lunch time. We had a good little private laugh over that. I should have married her. She did get me in to anal sex however.

Being new at this, I can only hope I will be able to give for fun

I have been into Enemas with other guys for well over 35 yrs. and have given many as well as received many. It was the first time for many of them, but most have come back many times over the years for more. Having LOTS of equipment as well as an exam table herein the play area has no doubt helped. I'm always interested in hearing from other guys who are into Enemas, and from any guys who may be in the central IL area.

I have given a number to my wife, mostly for 'health' reasons. She was sort of taken aback by the last few, as she got aroused by them and didn't want to share that with me. She usually asks for privacy for expelling so I didn't wonder the last time I gave her one. After I left her, she said she still felt unwell and asked for a refill. In bed later, she admitted she had masturbated to several orgasms while she held onto the water in the bathroom and once she was empty, wanted to repeat the experience.

The old GF who helped me make the connection between enemas and pleasure had no qualms about the procedure being sexual in nature for her.

I love announcing it, especially after she's already tied up, and making sure she can hear the bag filling. making them crawl or squirm over my lap as I lube them really deep and slide the nozzle in is great. Best of all, it's when they start to whimper or complain about holding it, when I get to spank their naughty bums 😃

As I am almost 100% a giver I guess that I should contribute to this thread. Like many others, all aspects are sensual, from the time you get out the equipment, mixing the water, filling the bag, putting on the soft jazz and lighting the candls and incense. I do adore slowly and sensually lubing the ladies I "help" and then gently massaging their tummy as they fill. I also adore the look of total relief on the face of a lady who has been really constipated and I have helped to "go".

Aussie John

Since I'm solo, the best parts are when slowly sliding the retention nozzle in my anus, and then the rush experienced by the the warm soapy water entering me when I first click open the hose clamp. The whole enema is a "rush" for me though. When my wife used to participate with me, I loved the feeling of her sliding the nozzle in and out while giving me the enema, and massaging my butt at the same time. Oh GOD!!!!!

I like to show effection and love when lubricating the ass and inserting and cuddling her and kissing her in this position. Because of romance and effection, she begins to respond more.

For me, it is the foreplay. To make one's enema experience memorable and enjoyable, a little foreplay to get the person relaxed, and eager to continue the experience.

I enjoy inserting and playing with the tube, pushing it in and out .making it feel like your being screwed in the butt

I enjoy the full preparation making my bedroom into an enema clinic using rubber sheeting then filling the bags and putting the nozzle in slowly and squeezing the bulging enema bag as I let go of the clamp!

I like preparation to enema, preparation of a solution, filling of a enema bag, getting of a pose for enema, insertion of a enema tip, feeling of filling. I like all stages of enema very much.

I like it all, except don't go into bathroom at "the end". Often would listen to 1st expulsions to hear if worked. Wife used to say:

"You always make me take more". Had her wear "Rubber Boots" and

used various syringes.