What do YOU enjoy most about giving others enemas for fun?

I think indy0000 hit the nail on the head in his posting of 4/8: Knowing what an incredibly erotic and gratifying thing a well-given enema is for me, it likewise thrills me to be able to bring that experience to a partner. Power, dominance and control may figure in the psychology of it somewhere, but those aspects were not what got me tingling when I was lucky enough to be giving one. I think it's similar to oral sex -- why the performer "gets into it", right along with the receiver.

The anticipation either giving or taking and then the insertion but most of all that sensation, either observed or felt, when you truly first get the "enema feeling"

The enjoyment of giving is two fold for me. First, watching the partner anticipate the enema while I'm preparing it makes me want to take special care for her sake. Also,I always precede the enema with a massage of the lower back and buttocks so that there is a hunger built for continued stimulation around the anus. All of this in preparation to give an enema. The enjoyment I receive while giving the enema come from hearing and seeing her body move as the nozzle (or colon tube) and water are flowing into her body. Usually the water is quite warm and the nozzle is never left unattended. Watching her arch her back and draw the nozzle into her body brings me great pleasure. And yes, it is followed by more pleasure in doing it all over again and again.

This I would really like to do, male of preferably female.

Sliding an enema nozzle into a tight little hole is so wonderfully erotic.

It's such an intimate experience, giving and receiving E's.

It is exciting to spread someones buttocks, lube their anus, and insert a nozzle deep into their rectum. Then the click, and filling their colon with a special enema solution and watching them squirm from the pressure is quite thrilling. I love to administer enemas to others.

The best part when giving the enema is when the guy has to totally expose his bottom and anus for me to lubricate and insert the nozzle, very erotic when watching him squirming, groaning, moaning and beg me to stop the flow for awhile, the time he has to hold it also really great too

Getting it all prepared .its erotic and stimulating to do it to someone

The enjoyment of giving others enemas is in the prepartion and being in control and watching the receiver take the full bag and being aroused to a climax before the bag empties and being part of it too!

My enjoyment comes from seeing the person in a braless T-shirt and panties waiting apprehensively as the enema equipment is readied. I like to use a medium bat-shaped nozzle since it takes a while to insert it fully. While the bag is filling, I like her to hold the nozzle and caress its length and girth before attaching it to the tube. I enjoy the opportunity to savor every aspect of the enema experience; removing her panties, taking her rectal temperature, lubing her anus and rectum with gloved fingers, slowly inserting the nozzle into a rapidly dilating opening (with a lot of coaching), and giving the warm soapy enema. It's a great feeling to have someone trust you so completely that she surrenders her body for an exceptionally intimate procedure. I also like to witness the expulsion by rubbing her belly as she evacuates. Although my example assumes a female I'm equally comfortable giving an enema to a male.

Same for me love the control of giving and love to see her as she waits for me to get things ready .the look on her face as i lube and give her the enema she goes fromm excited to sometimes panic is a big turn on form me

My favorite part is lubing her anus and sliding the nozzle in. Sometimes I pull it out just so I can slide it in again.

I like looking at my lover's lubed up anus and pushing that big nozzle in there before I inflate it.

Each experience is different. Sometimes it's the preparation, sometimes the insertion, and sometimes it's watching the bag go flat and knowing that I am holding that water inside me. Some days I want comfortable and soothing, some days I want maximum discomfort and cramping. Soothing begins with a mild Ivory soap followed by a tepid baking soda cleanser. Discomfort is always Lemon juice with other self induced painful stimuli. Clothes pins, clamps, hot wax, and large plugs are among the items I have played with.

I find that being in control is rewarding in its own right, and that really is part of it when giving an enema to another. Having the patient with rear in the air, accessible and not knowing exactly 'when' things will occur, gives me the control. I'm not into volume trials or painful experiences, so I believe that being aware of your partner's feelings and insecurities is being a good giving partner. Tease play, erotic touch, sensitivity and knowledge of what to expect is all part of the experienced giver. And bringing someone to orgasm during the enema is very rewarding to me, and certainly to the patient. Seeing the eagerness of someone desiring the 'nozzle' and then watching the twitching rear door as the patient trys to retain the nozzle, or the fluid, is very erotic. And the other asspect (sic) of this, is when you have a marvelous partner who is willing to reciprocate, and bring the same experience to me. That is trust and mutually arousing.

Oh yes. An extended lubrication session with a finger left inserted while having a nice butt rub is most pleasant. A "wiggly" finger and having the nozzle stroked or touched by a vibrator can extend the anticipation and even provide additional orgasms. No need to rush through the foreplay when it can be just as nice as the main show.

There are so many things to enjoy about giving another an enema. First, the sight alone of a woman, on her knees with with her ass in the air is truly amazing. There is nothing more erotic than admiring her anus, set off by swelling labia that are glistening with anticipation of what is to come. To be able to explore visually and physically the most secret and sensitive parts of another person is a privilege that is beyond description. The humiliation of spreading another persons cheeks and inserting a tube in their most private part is exhilarating. Forcing a person to hold the water beyond what they feel their limits in both volume and duration is most rewarding. What is there not to enjoy about giving another person an enema?

I think that bulbsqueezer has summed it up for many members of this site. The intimacy of a regular partner; people who when they meet and play, know each others foibles etc and can give pleasure to each other in their turn.

Pete.

It's in the getting ready. Undressing, lubricating and getting a little massage inside before the actual administration. Then taking it slow and easy. The longer everything is in him, the more I enjoy.

I like nilayman's method. Taking it slow and easy is the best way to

go, along with plenty of massage to help the Enema work.

Dan

Gees.....how much time do we have....soooooo many aspects of getting ready for such an intimate, sensual, sexual bold new adventure....especially if we're going to be in this 'moment for the vary first time.'and ahhhh those anticipated expectations of those multiple rushes with a comfortable relaxed aftermath...

First getting the bag out from under the sink and setting it out on the counter- but it is always just me.....

I like nilayman's method. Taking it slow and easy is the best way to go, along with plenty of massage to help the Enema work. Dan

...And I can vouch for Dan's (illfer's) method! 😄

I really like everything about. Positioning, them, lubing them, gently but deeply, coaching them to take just a little more. I also like a little strain and struggle to hold it with some moaning and groaning. I also like listening to the expulsion. Psychologically I think it is about the recipient giving control.

Everything position ,lubing putting in the nozzle , filling them up making the person take all the enema and best of all making her take deep breaths and pant , that's a turn on for me

After I have earned the sub's trust, I like the domination. I like making a non-enemaphile submit to an enema.

MMMMM let me count the ways: the view of a beautiful bottom awaiting the enema, the lubing and probing prior to insertion, the massaging in so many places while filling, and most importantly - the erotic stimulation, preferably to orgasm.

klyster3

I have not had the pleasure of experiencing enemas with another person...but I can imagine receiving one. Feeling a lubed finger slowly slide into my ass, wiggling around inside. Then feeling the nozzle being inserted....OH MY!

Really, if you are a klyzmo, what's not to love.

klyster3