I feel gay when I put things up my butt

I'm a guy and i admit using a dildo on my ass used to make me feel that my sexuality might be in question whether i was gay or bi

but now i know i am straight and if it makes you feel good it doesn't have to prove anything else

A lady friend gave me a prostate messuage and i cummed very explosively like i never had before!!

maybe some of you, your partner didn't do it right

my lady friend also gives me an enema and after i expel she insert a butt plug into me and the i proceed to give her an enema, we both get off

Not gay, bi-curious, love anal stimulation. I'm not attracted to the male form however, the idea of having a cock up my ass or sucking a man's cock under the right circumstances (probably having a woman present and getting caught up in the moment) is very arousing to me. So, I guess I don't feel gay with anal stimulation... I guess I'm just normal... whatever that is

I have felt this way in the past, it used to be believed that only gay men like anal play. Thank goodness that there is more information out there now. I have been aware of my love for all things anal from a very young age but was always careful to keep it to myself. It was only after I had been married for a number of months that I got the courage to have my wife use a vibe in my rear. She looked at me like I was crazy for the request but after that,she does not bat an eye when I need some attention in the backend.

I have never thought about any gay feelings having anything up my butt. This just never crossed my mind.

Bill

I try to look at it from a technical standpoint. Since the male g-spot is shoved up in the ass, the only option for stimulating said spot is with anal play. If anal play extends to enjoyable intercourse with another guy, then bringing up the question of homosexuality would definitely be valid.

You ani't gay just because you love anal play...you not gay if you get a cock up the bum a couple of times either...not even bi....if you do it all the time...cocks up the bum then you might be bi or gay....i have had two cocks up me and it was awesome....30 years ago...yea i would like it again.. not alll the time....i have my trusty vib....a strap on by my wife would be nice but she won't do it.....may be some day....

I use a prostate finder its amazing

My wife constantly accused me of being a latent homosexual and the fact that I got off being reamed by her jumbo dildo, and loved that big boy up my hole didn't help my case for 'straighthood'. She had me doubting myself and still wondering. Maybe I am because gay fantasies and gay men turn me on.

I don't think it's a case of being gay. Are you attracted to men?? If so, then you are, otherwise no.

The feelings I get while being penetrated have to do with a desire to submit, to accept and to surrender.

They are very powerful. The pleasure increases inversely to the degree of surrender and the desire to surrender increases as the pleasure increases.

Indeed during a good bum fucking with a big dildo or a fist I turn into a complete slut.

I have been known to shout out "give me a baby".

Does that make me gay?

I have been heterosexual and homeophobic also all my life. I have changed after I had a wife that enjoyed mild bdsm. She also loved to give enemas on a daily basis if I so wanted. She suggested dildoing me as foreply on my knees and I sure liked that. Now divorced. my fantasies turned to male anal and cock play. I had live meetings that have been successful. My last encounter was with a woman and I was equally pleased. To be honest, I have decided to go with the flow. Am I straight or bi? I don't care.

I believe I am one of those 'male lesbians', at least partly. I have some masculine desires (as the penetrator), but even stronger feminine desires (as the penetrated).

Above all, it's women who make my cock go hard and fat, which should settle any debate.

Bum play is Bum play in my book - But I only love women and only want a women putting anything in my bum or playing with my bum - so not gay

Its all to do with the femal image being part of the sex act for me

Just recently getting in to threesomes and found the idear of fucking another mans bum hole apealing as long as it turns the women on and she helps out sucking me putting me in by hand etc - also I love sucking pussy and would never dream of sucking on a cock but mix to two together and what the hell if I am sucking a cock dripping in pussy juice its part of the pussy and if I was eating a pussy whilst having my ass hole rimmed by a guy it would be cool

But I draw the line at kissing a guy - no the thought makes me want to puke

I wonder how I would react after a few beers with a convincing TV though ??

OK so maybe I have a Bi side to me - perhaps?

Wh00 is right. Whatever your feelings are is who you are. There really is no right or wrong. If a vibrator in your butt feels good, then do it. Time is too short. Do what feels good to you.

I love butt play. I have a small 'old' vibrator and a butt plug for myself. But would love to have a lady do it for me and more so with a strap on. Why should it labeled for just gay? Girls enjoy it and they aren't labeled as Lesbian!

I my self love anal play have done ever sinse I could remember was about 12 when I first started putting things up there and have not stopped I am bi sexual but never thought I was, it was only from the want of some one else to play with my hole that I turned to a man to do it as was single at the time at first I just see it as no matter who does it to me as long as its done so I went with a man at first was just going to be toy play but he ended up fucking me with his penis and I ended up giving him a blow job and even after this I did not think I was gay or bi I just see my self as straight but after playing with a few more men over the years I now know I am bi I don't fancy men I just love their cocks bigger the better but just Coss you like your bum played with don't make you gay or bi if you don't want sex with men or don't fancy them then your straight I have a few mates who love their holes played with but I can tell you they 100% straight. I have had a few girls over the years finger me or stick dildos up me and once got fucked with a strapon I did not ask any of them to do it they just done it to me was a lucky boy lol and not one of them questioned my sexulality ot even suggested that i was gay or bi my current gf fingers me and uses toys she knows I am bi but she did not know when I first asked her to play with my hole and she excepts me for me she don't care that I am bi nor did she susspect it when she first started playing with my hole. To many people get hung up on labels sod the label do what makes you feel good and don't worry if you gay straight or bi you are who you are no need to be ashamed of that.

Marc

I hate it when people say that men are gay because they like anal stimulation. Gay men also have oral sex and nobody thinks that is gay! There are gay men that do not engage in anal sex. Does that make them not gay? Of course not. Gay is being attracted to the same sex, not what kind of sex your having. If you play with your own butt, I consider that masturbating. If you like the opposite sex to play with your butt, I just consider that kinky 😉

Yemaya has it right! I always put it this way: As long as the person who is playing with my anus, or whose anus I am playing with, is the proud owner of her very own vagina, it can't be gay! 😄

There is nothing wrong with a man playing with his own ass - I'd gladly play with a guys ass if I knew he was comfortable with it. Here is one way we are very much alike. There are tons of nerve endings - its pleasureable - it doesn't matter male or female. I've always thought it would be awesome to milk a mans prostate with a finger or toy up his ass...

I should think most men have pushed an object of some description up their back door it just seems to be that a cock shaped tool is beset .

There is nothing wrong with a man playing with his own ass - I'd gladly play with a guys ass if I knew he was comfortable with it. Here is one way we are very much alike. There are tons of nerve endings - its pleasureable - it doesn't matter male or female. I've always thought it would be awesome to milk a mans prostate with a finger or toy up his ass...

I couldn't agree more with you Charlotte, there are tons of sensations back there and the orgasms can be incredible!!!!! 😜 Too bad so many people think the anus is so taboo......

My most recently dildo purchase had a penis shaped end. I did not even think about it, because that was irrelevant to me. My interest was in the size, and how it felt. But my wife noticed, and even commented that she got the impression I wanted a real penis in my butt. I was surprised. I had not even considered that when I bought it.

I read some of the other posts here, and I think the only way I can imagine having a real penis in me is if I'm really intimate with a woman at the same time. Cunilingus perhaps, mmmm....

Charlotte and Yemaya are absolutely right!

If men and women were more open (sexually) and took the time to find what your partner likes (or dislikes) we'd all be much happier and content.

Gosh, I so love standing on a soapbox 😉

Well, not to be a smart ass here, but I just can't seem to help myself, or refrain might be the better word......

By old world definition I can honestly say, "I feel gay when I put things up my butt." By old world definition "gay" = "happy", the words were interchangeable. So I would be telling you the complete and honest truth when I said, ( changing the words out for the other, sly and tricky move, I know) "I feel happy when I put things up my butt."

So while the person who started the thread was posting the question as more of a "OMG, am I gay, a freak, a perve, or what?" And was more in a panic state about it, my frame of mind is a bit different. My thoughts are, 'okay, I feel happy when I put things up my butt, now what am I going to do about it?'

LOL, please forgive me tonight. My excuse tonight is that while I have electricity, and I am so very very grateful and thankful for, I still am working on getting the air conditioner working. One thing at a time I guess, lol

Mashie

Topic: I feel gay when I put things up my butt

Well, it's true and you are. Okay folks, JK

It's just another pleasure palace, like the perineum, the ears, the neck, the small of the back, lips/mouth/tongue. The largest sexual organ is the brain...so try to convince yourself that the brain is fooled by nerve stimulation...of any kind.

You'd be amazed by the number of red blooded, hetrosexual men whose wives or girlfriends take them up the butt.

Yes, Pmoi, you are probably quite right about the heterosexual men who enjoy such activity. And to that end, there are a mysterious number of female "members" here who are not female either, but they believe it provides an access to conversation with a woman for that very reason. But, I digress.

There are an exceptional number of learned responses, sexual and psychological, and I think most sexual expressions and desires are learned and not genetic, contrary to so much hype. It's just that people don't have the memories of being an infant, and so much of what is formulated in the earliest of years has an impact upon later psycho-sexuality. Hence the interest in adult babies, diapering, that role-play. Many subjects don't recognize the effects of sexual signals and iterative responses occurring during early adolescence. But that stimulus and response can be learned. And it's very clear that neural pathways actually change with feedback. That stated, it's not PC to talk of Skinnerian psycho-sexual responses and attribute later sexual behavior to such origination.

Anal play just feels good, it does not make you gay!

I am a guy and i am not gay but am curious about anal play but when ever i stick something up there i feel guilty and feel gay. any thoughts?