What is the great thing about enemas?
Probably there are as many answers as people willing to answer...
Here is my view and I am (maybe others will be as well) interested in yours!
To me, enemas are a way of erotic experience far beyond the actual "mechanical" enema procedure. This itself would not make for thrilling joy. Of course, some warm water may give a pleasant feeling and the necessary time-out from hectic every-day life also has its merits.
But for that alone, I wouldn't be in for enemas.
It's the sexual joy that goes along with it and there are two main aspects that contribute:
(i) its very intimate and (ii) it feels naughty.
The first one is pretty obvious. But what about the second one? What makes it naughty? Why is it so erotic that just thinking about it makes you wet or hard (or both :-) ?
I guess people who like sex a bit beyond vanilla-type activities get a kick from various things.
Sex play: be unadapted, unassimilated at least once in a while; enjoy acting out fantasies. Along these lines: domination and submission, exhibitionism and voyeurism, sadism, masochism, and bondage – you name it.
Make your partner spread her legs (ok, this is from a male perspective…) make her show her ass, expose her anus, invade her with a nozzle, spank her bottom while the she receives the water, call it a punishment for – well – naughtiness for example, make her hold the enema, insert an inflatable butt plug. Talk dirty to one another. And being on the receiving end: enjoy the attention your butt gets, enjoy the smacks to your ass, the insults you may hear, the inability to cover yourself because you are bound, the indignity to be made to expel in front of anther person, the humiliation.
I personally find this aspect particularly intriguing: the humiliation is (usually) just some weird spectacle of your imagination. In reality, being playfully humiliated by a loving partner and being able to look into each other’s eyes on equal terms is a great thing and maybe a wonderful proof of ones’ intimacy. And, more generally speaking, intimacy, I imagine, is a prerequisite for sex, particularly in women.
Coming to think about it enema play to me is just a part of playful sex and one of the thrills of that can be to objectify your partner or to be objectified. To be in total command of someone, especially her ass, to have or to be a sex slave for one day, one evening or just one hour can be a huge turn. And enema play can be a great part of this.
Well, this is a sort of lengthy post now. I hope it didn’t put you off and wonder if anyone is willing to share his or her thoughts!