Watching Wife's Exam

I will be wanting my husband with me for my second gynecologist exam in September next year. I know he will be interested and I should have had him with me last month when I had my first instead of leaving him in the waiting room.

When I was in the Army, my wife had to see a doctor for pelvic pain. She saw a civilian doctor at the Army hospital. I tried to go with her when they called her back, but the nurse stopped me. I sat in the waiting room the whole time stewing about being excluded, imagining what was going on in there, and wishing I could watch. She told me a bit about it afterward. She had to see him after a course of antibiotics to see if the infection cleared.

This time in the waiting room was the same as before, except this time I knew he was a white haired old man, and I knew for a fact this time that he was going to do a pelvic exam. It was rough picturing this old man touching my 18 yo wife like that, but also terribly exciting. She soon after became pregnant, and none of the Army doctors she saw for OB appts let me come in.

I thought it was one of my greatest desires to be able to watch. But then about 7 months in she needed a colposcopy, I can't remember exactly why. This time they let me in to hold her hand. She was placed in stirrups, spread very wide, and in comes a middle aged male doctor. He was between her legs, and I knew he could see everything and I was literally shaking. But then it really started to hurt her and any enjoyment I was experiencing was instantly gone.

I've been fortunate enough to get to be present for two of my wife's exams. One was by a male OB when we were expecting our first child. I think due to the scenario, my concern outweighed my fetish and I didn't really enjoy it at the time. Reflecting on it I really remember the breast exam. My wife is well endowed and the doc being a former military doctor was "all business" according to her. I really enjoyed the covering she was provided. It was a paper gown that was really a vest that she wore with the opening in the front. Some of her movements left her pretty exposed.

The second exam was more enjoyable at the time. This was with a female doctor that I share with her. They gave her a cloth gown and told her to wear it with the opening at the back which was disappointing to me. Really enjoyed the breast exam then. I didn't really enjoy the pelvic as much because of two reasons. 1. The doctor made me stand near my wife's head and I didn't really have a good view. 2. Due to her past my wife has a hard time relaxing her pelvic muscles so exams are quite painful for her.

My wife and I had our yearly physicals today. It's always such a joy for days leading up to the exam to watch my wife start preparing. She always says she doesn’t enjoy the experience but her actions always say differently. Last night she primped for an hour shaving and trimming. This morning before leaving she bathed and touched up her trimmed area. Toes have been painted for three days. She put on her underclothes and a nice short denim skirt. She looked great! Our Dr. is about eight years younger than her and it looked like he was quite pleased at her appearance when we went in. Even though we both had appointments he was fixed on her most of the time and I don’t blame him a bit. He’s been a friend of ours for nearly twenty years. I was very fortunate to have a seat right to his side so I could watch the whole procedure. Anyone wanting to know all the details let me know it was great. Also got some great photos as well.

Sounds good Hoss, I am looking forward to seeing the pictures you took. As always tell your wife thanks for being such a good sport about this. She is quite attractive, you are a lucky man!

Second part of exam: The Dr. left the exam room and the nurse gets out the exam gown and a small sheet. The nurse leaves the room for just a moment while my wife strips and puts on the gown. By the way the exam room is very small and I am sitting on a bench seat at my wife’s feet. The nurse reenters and seats my wife on the exam table, pulls the stirrups out and places them wide apart. She then has my wife lay back on the table and extends the table out so her legs are supported until her legs are placed in the stirrups.

The Dr. knocked and reentered within just a couple of minutes. The nurse joked that she didn’t place my wife’s feet in the stirrups before the Dr. reentered because it gives everyone passing in the hall a show. Since we all have known each other for years it is always very light hearted conversation and joking around while being serious as well. The Dr. placed exam gloves on and placed a second glove over his right hand. The whole time he keeps eye contact with my wife and engaging in conversation.

He then grabs my wife’s right ankle and places each foot in the stirrup. He then readjusted them just a little further out, sliding the table extension back in. He adjust the sheet just at her knees and ask her to slide down, she did and then he ask her to come on down to touch his hand. That forced her knees wide apart at this point and caused the sheet to slide down her thighs some. At this point she was very exposed to the Dr. and myself. My heart was racing and I am trying to look calm! He looks over all her lady parts, and by the way she is trimmed very short and a good portion has been lasered. He then takes a large plastic lighted speculum, puts a small amount of lube on it, parts her labia with his left hand and places the speculum inside her and locks it open.

He does a scrape only, because she has had a hysterectomy. He then unlocks the speculum and very slowly extracts it while looking closely inside her. As the large speculum comes out she is left gapped open for just a moment. The nurse places lube on his right hand fingers, he turns and nudges my wifes knees slightly to have her open wider, and then he slides his fingers across her labia and starts entering her with his middle finger followed by his index finger. He palpates her feeling her ovaries and at this point the sheet is on her stomach. He pulls out when he completes the palpation and she is gapped open even more.

Now she is even more exposed! I am loving it by the way. He then removes his right glove witch leaves the first one he placed on his hand. The nurse has thrown away the first package of lube and they joke that my wife is going to prefer lube for the rectal, we all got a little laugh out of that. This is delaying the exam a little, leaving her exposed longer. The nurse opens some more lube and places a large blob on his index finger.

Spreading my wife’s butt checks apart with his left hand and rubs the lube well on my wife’s anal opening and then starts working his index finger deep into her rectum rotating counter clock wise and then clock wise making a full radios in her rectum. He pulls out of her and wipes his finger on a culture card. Unfortunately it was over at this point until next year. This is a yearly ritual we both enjoy as we know how it turns us both on, while keeping healthy as well! . We both love to hear any comments you have. Feel free to pm us.

Great narrative Hoss. I hope you took your wife home and got busy. I sure would!

Thank you for the story, hoss!

This story was great. Thanks for sharing!

I always wanted to take pictures or videos of the doctor (male) examining my wife. Do you think the doctor would allow it?

I go with my wife to as many of her exams as I can. I don't get jealous when she gets examined by either a male or female doctor but I love to watch the exam.

I always wanted to take pictures or videos of the doctor (male) examining my wife. Do you think the doctor would allow it?

I just keep my cell phone In my pocket recording through the whole event. So for I have to complete exams recorded and no one but my wife and I know! Good luck!

I don't get jealous when she gets examined by either a male or female doctor but I love to watch the exam.

I used to get jealous, but not now I just get excited!!

I have witnessed my wife receive complete physicals including pelvic, rectovaginal and rectal exams by both male and female providers, and I've never felt any jealousy. Even if the examiner was secretly aroused by examining my beautiful wife, I know that she has no interest in having sex with anyone but me. She doesn't get aroused during an exam. After the exam is over and we are alone while she is getting dressed, she knows how turned on I am from watching her get examined. We kiss and feel each other up a little while she gets dressed, which in turn gets her aroused as much as I am. We then race home and have hot, passionate sex!

When she witnesses me receive a complete physical, which for me includes a testicular exam, hernia check, and rectal/prostate exam, she does get aroused. She doesn't get jealous of the examiner, either.

My husband had to leave the room, to go masturbate, while I was in labor... just after 2 female nurses came in to check me out. One was being trained. I was equally turned on but thankfull that it was the early stages of labor and not the latter, when he left my side.

My husband had to leave the room, to go masturbate, while I was in labor... just after 2 female nurses came in to check me out. One was being trained. I was equally turned on but thankfull that it was the early stages of labor and not the latter, when he left my side.

I believe you, but I'm incredulous/shocked given the circumstances.

The last time I was in the GYN exam room, my wife was being dilated for an endometrial scraping by 2 female N.P.'s to see why she was bleeding after being through menopause. It hurt her, so I was holding her hand hard and stroking her hair. I felt nothing but sympathy and caring for her. Fortunately, it was not because of any malignancy. She was grateful for my being there for her.

It hurt me emotionally to watch her have to go through this. I only wanted to pamper her after this. Nothing erotic about this.

I have always viewed my wife's pelvic exam and nothing unhealthy has ever been detected, for which I am very thankful.

My husband has been with me during my exams only a few times in the last 25 years. The exams were always routine and there was never any pathology to discuss.

I'm amazed that so many men have gone with their women to their exams. Don't they have a job? My husband is always at his office during the day when I have exams.

Not for routine exams, but when my X was pregnant, we scheduled her prenatal appointments so I could attend. We considered the pregnancy and subsequent parenting as a team effort.

Two weeks ago I had my annual physical. It was comprehensive and if you want, I will tell you all about it but last week it was my wife’s turn and this is her story. We arrived early and after telling the receptionist who she was and which doctor she had an appointment with, my wife was handed the clipboard with the 5 pages of questions that told everyone else in the waiting room that soon, she would be wearing nothing but a gown.

About ten minutes later, the nurse comes out and calls my wife’s name and we follow her back to the little room where she takes her weight and height. As we then proceed down the hall, I am hoping extra strong that the first exam room is already occupied because the guest chair sits next to the exam table in that room as opposed to being at the end of the table in the far room. We turn the corner, and someone must have been smiling on me because the first exam room door was closed.

We go to the far room, sit in the two chairs and start chatting with the nurse about things in her life. The nurse asks my wife a few questions about her medications, health and checks to be sure that the doctor takes care of all my wife’s gyn issues as well. She is unable to find the last time a pap smear was done and we tell her the doctor doesn’t do one because she had a hysterectomy. She says they only do them every three years now and I knew that it had only been two since her last pelvic exam.

Then the nurse took her blood pressure. She then opens a drawer on the exam table and removes a gown and drape and hands it to my wife. I am almost floored by the next thing the nurse says, something that she has never said before to either one of us. She tells my wife to remove her clothes, BUT she can keep her underwear on and put the gown on. I remarked that last week I had to take everything off and the nurse said it is different for the men. I am inwardly becoming disappointed in the direction this exam is headed.

The nurse says the doctor will be here in a few minutes and leaves the room. I help my wife get undressed and fold her clothes, and as I reach to unclasp her bra, my wife says that the nurse said it could stay on even though I though she meant just her underpants. My wife puts the gown on, sits on the table and finishes completing the questionnaire. After a while we hear a knock on the door and the doctor enters. She greets us and has a seat on the rolling stool. She spends a long time going over blood work she ordered and some of my wife’s medical issues.

Satisfied with the discussion, she picks up her otoscope and proceeds to check my wife’s ears, nose and mouth. Next, she got her stethoscope and listened to her lungs and heart. The doctor then asked her to lie back and she lifted the gown up to the bottom of her breasts at the same time she covered my wife’s lap with the drape. She proceeded to palpitate her abdomen as well as listen to it with her stethoscope. In a surprising move, she lifted the gown and bra above her breasts and started to do a breast exam. I say surprising because I did not expect her to do one after having done one at her last appointment a few months ago.

I am watching the doctor as she slowly works from the outside and makes small circles with her fingertips working in toward the center. I interrupt the conversation going on between the two women and ask the doctor a question that I have been wondering about for a while now. I asked her if she thought my wife’s breasts were abnormally lumpy because I think I would have a hard time telling if there was a real lump to be concerned about. The doctor tells me that her breasts are quite normal and that I would feel a definite pea sized hardness when I lightly pressed between the breast and the rib cage.

She then spends the next few minutes demonstrating how to do a good breast exam. I thank her and she tells my wife she can sit up and the doctor asks her if she has any problems “down below”. My wife says no and I am again disappointed that it looks like the exam is over. I ask the doctor how often she thought “down below” should be checked out. She said that there is a variety of opinions.

Surprise number two, the doctor says that since my wife still has her ovaries, it wouldn’t hurt to check things out. She tells my wife to take off her underpants while she pulls out the stirrups. I help my wife remove her underpants and she sits back down and the doctor puts her feet in the stirrups and instructs her to scoot down. The doctor says she doesn’t have her bright light and then starts looking through the drawers of the table and then in the cupboards of the room looking, I presume, for a lighted speculum like she has used in the past. Not finding one, she again retrieves her ototscope and sits on the stool between my wife’s legs. I never sat back down so I am standing right behind the doctor this time.

The doctor then proceeds to give me an excellent running commentary of what she is looking for and at as she exams my wife’s exterior genitalia. She then separates her labia and says she is looking for growths, discoloration and abnormal discharge. Satisfied with her findings, she stands up and puts some lube on her fingers and introduces two of her fingers into the vagina. She showed me where the ovaries should be but because of the age of my wife, and possible her size, she said she could not feel anything. She said everything seemed fine and then helped my wife get off the table.

She said she ordered some more blood work and an ultrasound and would see her in three months. The doctor then left the room and I helped my wife get dressed again. An exam that I thought was going to be one of the least revealing turning into one of the most intimate and even more importantly, the most informative from a purely medical standpoint that I have ever attended with my wife.

Hi all

I have been lucky enough to be with my wife for her medical exams, we are not to concerned if a male or female carried out the exam , I find it a mix of turn on watching the various procedures,and how she responded, I am also concerned for her well being.

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