Pleasant or strict?

Quick question, and something that could turn into an interesting discussion. In medfet play, do you prefer a play "examination" to be as real as possible with good equipment and a nice doctor/nurse with a good bedside manner explaining what they are going to do etc before they do it and always gaining your consent and making the procedures pleasurable, or do you prefer a strict doctor who will tie you down and administer as much pain as possible and indulge in some BDSM play?

As for me, I prefer the former, I'm not into any sort of BDSM and I have a medical fetish because I fantasize about all the different procedures and instruments. And I love it when the play doc is as real as possible. At my last play exam, it was so real I thought I was actually with a real doctor.

Lee.

For a play exam, I'd be interested in a mixture of the two. I would like a doctor to be authoritative and perhaps stern at times when examining me, but not strict.

I prefer a mixture of the two, because too much of one of those isn't good.

As realistic as possible both in procedures and surroundings (hard to find both these days). And a beautiful young female nurse/doctor with a no nonsense attitude ranging from professional to strict depending on my behavior.

I'd prefer a mixture of both😃 too much of one can be a bit borin, in my own opinion anyways.

I'm not into BDSM, so I prefer the former. I'd add some sex in, though.

I would prefer a realistic examination, without sex at the end, not tied, but with every procedure being made as painful as possible...

Ooooo I'd like a mixture of both, please. A nice pleasant doctor, with a great bedside manner who takes the time to explain the exam, builds trust and gives you a false sense of security. Mixed with a no nonsense, authoritative, strict doctor, who subjects you to uncomfortable (not painful) procedures and injections and holds you accountable for you behavior. 😉

I prefer a mix. A nice bedside manner, calm tone of voice and gentle touch but with just a hint of strict when moaning / squirming become too much. The mere idea of getting the 'Now, now this if for your own good lecture' while being spread by a large speculum gets me wet. 😉

I'd like to try out both but in two different settings.

I'm really weak for the caring, sensitive type. I don't want to be scared, but feel safe.

For a play exam, I would like a mixture of both pleasant and strict. I want the play Doctor to handle me with compassion and tenderness yet at the same time, sometime lecture me that this extensive exam is medically necessary for my own good health. The idea of having the play Doc spread me wide open with a speculum while repeating how necessary it is certainly gets me wet 🌹.

Lady Teddy

Bring on the BDSM!

I'd love to be forced into random useless procedures, exams and treatments!!

I like exams to be as real to a regular exam would be.

Definitly a mixture for me. I could do without the pain but I love power play! The surroundings would be realistic with exam being less than. In my experience real exams are done quickly and with little emotion. It is done this way to minimize discomfort and embarrasment. In play I want it long, lingering and very thorough preferably being made to squirt several times for the good doctor.

Definitely the former; not big on pain. However IMHO, having it be strictly realistic makes it seem...well, more realistic. Which is all well and good, but I think a bit of a fun, sexy edge makes it a more interesting. Something like an 80/20 or 70/30 between realistic/playful.

Strict for me. Realistic as in not completely unbelieveable. But real exams don't turn me on the slightest bit so if it's too realistic I get bored or even turned off.

Definately real with real instruments , good strict instructions and pain.

Definately as real as possible. Don't ask permission, just instruct me on what needs to be done... I would like to put up a bit of resistance just to add to the situation, but the old "this is for your own good" can put an end to that...

Normally, I am one of the kindest, sweetest docs out there, just ask him, he'll tell you. I'm all about asking the patient if he wants this or would enjoy that.

We have a play date coming up in two weeks. I'm feeling exceptionally frisky just now, and I think Dr. Nice and Sweet is going to a medical conference. Dr. Demanding and Bossy is coming in to take her place for a little while.

There will be a lot more "I'm afraid this is going be a little uncomfortable" than "I hope this doesn't hurt you". Gone are the days of "would you like me to ...?" they have been replaced by "this must be done, it's for your own good". I think there will also be a healthy dose of "I can't let you do that just now, you'll have to wait a while."

Fasten your seatbelts and Play On!

LadyDoc

Hey Lady,

He will greatly appreciate your new stern demeanor with him. Most men find it a HUGE turn on when their woman takes charge of them and is in charge and makes no bones about who is in fact in charge at any given moment.

Doing so means that you have reached a very high level of trust in your relationship that will only bond you to that much closer.

Saying things like, "this will only hurt for a minute, it's for your own good, and just relax, I'm in charge here", will surely get his blood pumping to all the right areas. Trust me here....no, seriously, trust me on this.

Ummm, I have to admit, I've had several moments of fantasy that involved the three of us getting together to practice the erotic medical arts on two or three exceptionally lucky men! Actually, the three of us getting together just for coffee would be pretty special too!

As for the "turnabout is fair play" aspect of our play session, I can hardly wait. In fact, I wrote and sent him a very detailed scenario yesterday about something that I would love to be subjected too. He has also sent me one that involved sensory deprivation, I'd love that too. I'll be putting together a playlist of some especially distracting music for the iPod in the next few days!

Play On!

LadyDoc

Hahaha, well if we are all being honest here, I too have had many a thought of the three of us getting together. I am sure if all three of us were in the same room men all over the world would suddenly be afraid, very afraid. They would sense something was amiss. In the outside world we would be the "Three Amigos" but in a medical setting we would be the "three female masters of med fet", lol. Envied by some, feared by most, lol.

I would also suspect a lot of men might come to us, strong, brave, and thinking they could take us, but in the end, would leave shaking, tired, and totally submissive.

We would stand together, together in our starched whites, smiling at a job well done as our last patient slinks away. We would then take a deep breath, smile again at each other and then one of us would yell..."NEXT". Hehehe.

Well, I must be honest here.

More than a time I have thought to be in the hands of two nurses, not three, really too much, but two for sure; this would be interesting, it's a dream of mine, lol

However, now I would ask you, smart ladies: have you never thought to reverse this?

I do believe that even a girl with two good playdocs would be nice ... 😉

M.

I've had that fantasy for a long time; being subjected to the ministrations of two play docs. Of course, my current playdoc would have to be in a lead role, because he already knows what this patient likes!

LadyDoc

Great ideas from two experienced ladies on the board. I think that I shall follow their lead and become "Nurse Strict" during my next play exams with my patients.

Lady Teddy, needles sharpened, "This will only hurt for a minute. Just relax now."

I'm more into being bound while having a strict doctor and an as real as possible experience. I like the doctor telling me what he's going to do, rather than ask for my permission.

A beautiful but strict nurse is my preference, especially when she insists on giving me injections in the bottom.

I like a pleasant gentle doctor, that will do what they need to do procedure -wise, but while making me comfortable

I have to admit, I need a good strong somewhat strict doctor. Has to be a male too because I could never submit to another female. Hell, it's hard for me to submit to most males for that matter. Lol. I remember the first time I was in Doc's office for a physical and he came at me with a tongue blade. I put my hand up and told him to stop right there, that was a hard limit for me and he wasn't going there. He was a bit shocked I think for a second. But then he got sort of stern and said this wasn't play, this was real, there aren't any hard limits in a real doctors office. He made it very clear that day who was and who wasn't in charge. We have had a few power exchanges in his office over the years, and oddly enough he always seems to win those.

Mashie