Do Enemas Fill a Void For Those Who Don't Have A Sex Partner

After reading many post and threads,many enema lovers appear to use enemas as a way to sexually satisfy themself with enemas.I realize some are still looking and hoping at sometime in the future the right emate will come along,meanwhile enemas fill the void.Am I right or wrong? Let the good times flow w/m72yrs/W.MA

I don't know if I would say it fills a void, mainly because I don't feel there is a void... Well, at least not until I expell that enema 😁. I have an FWB, but we aren't able to get together as often as we'd like, but I don't use always enemas to fill that time. Masturbation in general helps me fill the times we aren't pleasuring each other.

We have been married for many years, enemas have been part of your sex for as long as I can remember. We use them to feel better, in role play games to help each other when your partner is sick. For us it doesn't fill a void for no sex, but it can be a huge turn on. I don't know about other couples and how they feel, I doubt it would fill a void but it can provide a pleasureable escape.

There is no substitute for the real thing. The only void an enema fills is the empty space in my large intestine. If I need sexual release when I'm alone, then good ole Rosie Palm and her five sisters come and give a 'helping hand'. I've know them since I was a teen and they've never failed me.

Hi Bagger,

Perhaps for some?? 'Reminds me of a story a nurse friend told me of one of her girlfriends doing coffee enemas on a weekly basis and referred to the time as,"Her date with 'Big Red'!!" 😉 😉

Your enemabag won't mind if you find a sex partner.

Your enemabag won't mind if your sex partner discovers it in the towel closet.

Your enemabag would like to be introduced to your sex partner!!

Anyone else 😉 😉??

"Click!!"

highwater

Sherry Taylor, the wonderful founder of the Sherema Clinic, once told me (as she was giving me an enema) that while enemas and sex are closely related for us e-types, they are still entirely separate--neither can take the place of the other.

But when two sexually compatible partners who both are aroused by enemas play together, the results are the finest sex in the world.

Following surger a few years ago I can never again get an erection, and my sexually active days are over. But I still love my enema, and I still get a huge crush on any kind nurse who gives me one (see my post from earlier today, "Sunday Morning Enema").

I would say that when younger they help to add to a way to get a relese when no one else was there to help out . Now older relaxing and feels good

Your spouse may hate you for your enema habit

Having lost my sex partner and giver of loving enemas, I am continuing the enemas, but it is not the same. But who know what tomorrow will bring?

I would have to say: YES! 😜

Speaking from experience of course. Even when I did manage to have a "sex partner", only one of those lovely girls ever wanted to participate in "the enema thing."

Now, I am happily married, although my spouse and I have not yet broken the give/receive barrier...she does know I take enemas myself, and she also knows (from experience) that I end up quite horny afterwards. 😁

Speaking purely from the female point of view and as a very anal erotic gal, I find the enema nozzle and some imagination a substitute for the lack of male companionship. It appears the male side doen't think of it this way.

Not so Vicki! In my single days, my imagination ran wild with all sorts of 'scenes' that I would have loved to have happened with a female (both give and receive)...but the enema itself for me was a fairly good substitute...although, I always wanted a female partner!

No but it can come close on certain occasions when a "sex partner" isn't available.

I agree with Arianna.

When age makes finding a sexy woman very difficult surely enemas are a compensation.

Does this mean "safe sex."? ???

My first wife and I had some beautiful enema sexual experiances,however,my second wife who isn't into enemas understands my love of them and will sometimes lend a helping hand when I take my enemas.She knows how horny I get while taking them and does not mind if I masturbate.She will often help me masturbate too.For me,enemas fill the void in a big way almost everyday.Let the good times flow.w/m72yrs/Western Ma

I am 56 and loved the eneama most of my life. All I can say about the subject is that if you don't have a sex partner, and you do enjoy masturbation and enemas, the enema can make the whole thing more intense and pleasurable.

They are much better with a willing partner. But one is fine solo. My biggest pleasure is the expulsion, feeling everything coming out through my anus.

Before I had a partner sexual pleasures were enjoyed by giving myself regular enemas.

Now I am very fortunate having sex with my partner and indulging in my sexual enema pleasures....

Cwtae,

Yesss! Expulsion, especially difficult expulsion as of semi-solid enemas is a major enjoyment for me. As for it being a substitute for a partner, I don't think so. I have a loving, sensual wife, but not into enemas. But the evening after I enjoy an enema session can be guaranteed to be a sexual delight for us both, as I'm randier than ever! And she looks forward to it.

Johnny

They do for me. I have a totally disabled wife who requires ninety percent of my time as caregiver so there's no opportunity for finding sexual relief in the normal way. I can, and do, masturbate to ejaculation on a regular basis, but for some reason masturbating while taking an enema provides a totally different satisfying sexual experience.

At first I was just using enemas to relieve constipation. It was quick and easy compared to laxatives. When I discovered that masturbating relieved the discomfort that sometimes accompanied an enema, I looked forward to the feeling of pressure that stiffened my erection and the discomfort turned into a pleasurable sensation while I masturbated. Eventually, though, internal pressure increased to the point that I had to get up and run for the toilet, often leaking on the way!

I solved the pressure and leaking problem with a butt plug. as soon as the bag is empty I replace the nozzle with the butt plug, then I relax and masturbate though two or three pressure waves. When I get up and go into the bathroom another pressure wave starts, but instead of removing the butt plug I masturbate some more standing up, usually to ejaculation, and by then the pressure wave has passed and I can sit down and remove the butt plug.

[center]I have left a marriage of 20 years to a woman who did not know of my enema obsession. I have lived alone for over 17 months and haven't been laid once. I am a bit old fashioned and don't want to get involved with someone until my divorce is final (which may happen in the next month or so) Enemas have kept me sexually content for that long period of time. I don't generally have an orgasm while taking an enema, but I fantasize every morning about various ways to administer enemas to girls from my past or even girls I have seen on this website. When the divorce is final, I will try to seek out a woman who shares my enema fascination. I am not too optimistic about finding my perfect enemate, but one can only hope. I'm tired of masturbating every morning and would rather have the real thing. [/center]

For me they do not fill the void, nor do they replace a partner. I like them for what they are, an interest of mine, and yes they make me feel good. But a partner, sharing the passion or not, is in a different catagory. A partner who shares is preferable, but no, I don't feel that it is a replacement for what I have lost and I look forward to another relationship.

When I was connected to a few dear female enema play partners yrs ago...the friendship relationship was a true sexciting/exciting toal beautiful experience...now as I'm an older bolder still the gentleman of the bag...I am now solo and doing my enemas for that still sexual relief.... I do have female friends with benefits butt not with the enema sharing...so I am saying that I really don't have a that "void." This was an interesting question. :😃

In a sense, such is so. Those of us w/o mates, for whatever reason, suffer the sexual STRESS in terms of privation. Enemas are, among other things, stress-busters. Sexually, they are an "adequate" substitute for the release of sexual tension which is similar to a pair of shoes that don't fit right ....... you can't

think about anything else.

I wonder sometime what it might be like to have a real, live female enemate in the true sense of the term. Those of you that have THAT, are lucky in the extreme !

I wouldn't know, as it was my sex partner who introduced me to the world, and i've never looked back since

Yes ... of course they do. If U are a normal (more or less) human, the lack of a real sexual relationship (for whatever reason) causes severe stress in terms of privation for most of us. Enemas are known to be very effective stressbusters among their other aspects, so its a natural. A good enema session can produce an exhilarating high, similar to, but not exactly the same, as sexual intercourse. I would venture a guess that many of us on this site use enemas that way whether we know it and are willing to admit it, or not. Where enemas are used as a "crutch", playtime is usually on the kinky side, even if solo. ('nuff said about THAT) Its simply a method some of us use effectively to combat the emotional stress of living without a real companion.

; An enema bag can't be as loving as a good loving mate. But it can sure help in enhancing the love life lol 😃

Sometime i used enema for masturbate my sef but the best is together to another one better in a role play