Vaginal Fisting

Just loved that juxtaposition of your name with fisting. How things have changed in a couple decades. In my early clinical training we were taught that fisting was a life threatening gesture to be used only in massive uterine bleeding (Crede Procedure). Interesting change

DrLaennec (ClinicalUSMLE) Yahoo

I have vaginally fisted ALL my recent patients, including those who've not had children. I am told I have very big hands (and I do); there are several things I've observed...

1. Don't say the word, "Fist." Just gently begin stretching. Your patient will tell you if she has had enough.

2. Use LOTS of lube. (should go without saying, but...).

3. Be extremely gentle as you open your patient's vagina with your hand.

4. Stop if there's a lot of pain.

5. Massage the clitoris and other erogenous areas while you do it.

6. In all cases, doing this procedure has resulted in multiple massive orgasms for the patient.

Of course, if the bowels are loaded up, you must give a good cleansing enema first (I normally do enemas till clear). There is only so much room inside, and you will be taking most of it with your hand.

Because I never use the word, but just do it, I have not had any recent patients "tense up;" instead, they all just appear to "enjoy the ride."

Couple caveats: fisting can be dangerous in older women. Once a woman reaches menopause, the walls of the uterus thin out. Be careful.

Gloves really help, since they can be made "slicker" with lube than your hand.

Don't try to use your fist too much like a penis (movement). You can bruise sensitive tissues, especially if the patient's not used to it. "Let your fingers do the walking" with your other hand, and massage her clitoris. You will get excellent orgasms.

It's fun for both, and especially for the girl, who, as I said, normally has multiple massive orgasms (if she's relaxed, and trusts you a bit).

"now just lie back and relax, dear, you'll feel a bit of pressure. Let me know if you feel pain..."

My boyfriend has big hands and we'll spend hours with him gently and slowly working his big hand inside my vagina, keeping me excited and wanting all the time. Once he's inside me and has his big hand squeezed into a fist I like to push against it with him pushing back so I can't get it out. When I'm nearly spent he'll let me come and pull his fist out as I bear down. These orgasms are the most intense I've ever experienced. I feel incredibly vulnerable while he's fisting me and extremely close to him after.

I have found that using progressively larger specula and slowly dilating the vaginal opening is great way to prepair a patient or play partner for the full insertion of the hand.

Once you feel it is time for the hand, do all of the things stated above, employ plenty of lube, gloves (I have special long OB gloves I sometimes use that seem to add a bit to the drama of the impeding insertion) and clitoral stimulation along the way. Take your time and press firmly downward and inward with your hand folded in a tight "duck" position. The vagina will slowly yield to your hand as you press toward the rectal cavity as this is where you are stealing internal volume as your hand goes in.

In many of my exams, this is the climax. After speculum exploration and dilation of the vagina and rectum, after urethral dilation and clitoral suction and stimulation. I will ease out the graves speculum (I find the graves can be opened slowly and is best suited for dilating the vaginal opening) often closing it as little as possible as it slowly comes out. Once the speculum is out, I quickly replace it with my hand. Once my hand goes in, invariably a wave of seemingly perpetual orgasm follows.

I am sure this would not be the same for everyone, but this is how I experienced it with several of my last few play patients (some mothers and some not).

Sorry for rambling.... 😃

Get yourself one of those fat 18 inch double dongs.

It's not a fist, but you will have a similar sensation of something you can fit inside yourself up to "the elbows."

I have been fisted vaginally and anally by a couple of women, but never by my husband because his hands are just too big for me. This dong does the next best thing for me.

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Slow and gradual... and remember people are different shapes and sizes so dont have any pre determined goals :p

Hmm, it IS possible to do it painlessly but i think it depends as much on the person as it does on the technique - some people just find it more uncomfortable than others and even if they are aroused by the idea of it might not actually be able to handle it when it comes to doing it. best idea is always to try one finger at a time and see how far you get wihtout too much pain. the most i've ever gotten inside a man is four fingers, by which time he was not really enjoying it anymore. anyway the most important thing is LUBE. lube lube lube lube lube lube lube lube lube lube lube lube lube lube lube lube lube lube lube lube lube lube. cant emphasise enough.

I have done lots of fisting. I have never seen a woman orgasm like when she is feeling all that pressure inside and also being clitorally stimulated. If she is willing to receive anal stimulation as well...wow. I actually had one woman cum at least a half dozen times, and beg for more pressure. The problem is that with older women (post-menopause), the vagina thins out, and one must be very careful. No TEARING!.

Gentleness, firmness, and very slow movement...and lots of lube, as others have said. And also, of course, the knowledge that sometimes people are just physically too small for your hand. It's happened to me. But with most girls...😃 😁

😃My partner [Barb] and I have been into vaginal fisting for years, I did have an asian lady with very small hands fist me anally once it felt wonderful. Barb and I also enjoy anal sex parties with a gay male couple often, they love being fisted by us. We always use gloves and two kinds of lube, typically butter and wet. We start first with anal massage the I fold in my thumb and slide right in (they are well practiced at this). Before sessions it's understood that everyone be well cleaned out first, for me and Barb that's a series of enemas which we do almost every weekend. Any other ladies out there that enjoy fisting guys? Personally I get extremely turned on doing it.

This offers me quite a bit of insight as I've only ever been able to accommodate 3 fingers and always thought you could only fist someone who has vaginally delivered a child.

My GF has had 4 children, i have tried many times (and am still trying) to fist her but seem to get stuck at the widest point of my hand.

Although i do have large hands i wouldnt say they are HUGE!!

But the good news is she manages to fist me often.........bonus

Will keep trying 😉

It took a few sessions before I was able to take my b/f fist vaginally and no, I haven't had any children yet. Unfortunately we broke up half way thru my anal fisting training. Practicing on my own wont work as I need the stimulation of having it done to me while I'm tied up.

It's just not the same on my own, but I'm sure I'll find someone new soon enough who will want to continue my training.

I think I was 18 when I realized I could get my hand in my vagina and the awesome orgasm I had from the stretching! The pressure and the pain mixed pushed me over the edge and I've been addicted ever since.

Hey Girl! Nothing's impossible. You just need a sensitive and patient partner who will let you take your time and relax, and about three times as much lube as you think you will need.

Don't try to get it all done in one session, it may take several!

Good to see you back!

Play On!

LadyDoc

Have any other play Docs done fisting to their female patients? Is it safe? Is it possible to do in a woman that has never given vaginal birth? How soon does the vagina size return to normal? Anything else that I should be aware of it?

I am just wondering if I should try it sometime during a play exam?

Lady Teddy

I have an ex who loved to be fisted. She loved large cucumbers in her vagina. I would use them as an dildo. One day, I started to use a third and forth finger in her. She seemed to be enjoying it but it was nothing until the day I finally got my whole hand into her cavity. She went crazy. I would do her for at least 10 minutes once a week. The longest was about 30 minutes. She would get so excited, I didn't even have to use any lubrication.

Thanks to gynoslave for bringing up this interesting topic, and to the others, for their contributions.

Fisting is something that I am often asked to perform during a play examination, and something that I would strongly recommend in the appropriate circumstances.

I've found for some reason or the other that the woman can become intensely aroused by having this performed, it seems to satisfy a deep urge in them. I'm not sure why that is but perhaps one of our female members could address that?

Yes I do find it more difficult with a 'patient' who has not given vaginal birth, and sometimes do not succeed, but the attempt is often pleasurable for both parties.

The problem I often find is getting past the pelvic bone without hurting the woman too much, the gap seems to small in some women.

But I do often have success with the woman in a kneeling position.

Obviously it is important to be guided by the woman and if things become to uncomfortable to stop.

Dr Philip.

Hello everyone - another fan of vagimal fisting here. Can recommend the small book on the subject "A Hand in the Bush", which by the way Dr Philip gives hints on passing the bridge of the hand through that narrowest point which we found helpful.

Take it slowly with lots of lube (we also love Liquid Silk). I find that, at the widest point when you feel ready, if you consciously relax and actually exhale and bear down a little the hand will slip in more easily. And remember withdrawal of the hand after orgasm can feel very intense so go slowly then too.

Speaking for myself the feeling of being so exposed and stretched is beyond anything else I have experienced although it took a long time to actually ask my bf as, at the time, I thought I was definitely in a minority. Luckily he loves it as much as I do and, like Dr Philip, we have found it is sometimes easier, and adds a new dimension to the feeling, if I am on my knees.

lovescoldmetal

Thanks to lovescoldmetal and that book is on Amazon so I look forward to obtaining it. I'm very glad that you find the experience pleasurable. It is very rewarding and I would strongly recommend it to any fisting 'virgins' out there.

I've played around with gfs over the years with this but the experience became much more profound for me as a play doctor.

A play examination is about sexual pleasure let's be honest, but the focus and concentration is much more on the womans's pleasure. It's like extended foreplay in some respects.

So around seven years ago when one of my first 'patients' asked me to fist her I found the experience extremely pleasurable. I was amazed at how she reacted and the strength and length of her orgasm.

Dr Philip.

I do agree with your observations for anjalinairkk however I have had a number of successful full insertions on a first attempt. I use it under the guise of a "full internal manual palpation of the uterus" and I do not consider it as fisting, although some might. It is beneficial that I have smaller hands than most males and a very gentle touch with all the time in the world during an exam, but it usually takes 30 minutes or longer for complete insertion of my hand if anyone is watching a clock. An important criteria for attempting this is that she has already been fully dilated with the largest speculum without anything more than discomfort, and I would also note that all but one have had at least one vaginal delivery. While my patients have all expressed extreme satisfaction with the "procedure" I must say that I find find it scientifically rewarding to hold her cervix between 4 fingers and actually manipulate her uterus during the exam. Fisting using an actual fist could not be considered as something medically feasable so I can't relate to that, but when done carefully in the technique of a real exam it forms a close bond between the doctor and the patient.

I have only done this a few times, and all but one time was with a female who had not yet given birth. I would agree with what was said earlier about using a large speculum first with both adjustments opened fully. For those who tend to be more on the dominant side, remember....fisting is something you do with someone, not necessarily to them. Looking at your partners facial expressions, going slowly, and listening to what they are telling you is an absolute must. I was able to do this the first time I tried with a partner who also had never done this, but it was a very slow and gradual process. I think we played for about 3 hours before we were able to fully get my hand inside of her. Tons of lube is also an absolute must.

Another way I have thought about this before...which you may or may not agree with. From a physical standpoint, fisting to the woman who has not delivered vaginally is almost like a "second defloration". Most women retain some small amount of hymenal tissue after having sex, and fisting will almost certainly stretch or tear this. Granted, it isn't stretching to the same degree as giving birth, but to the first timer it may very well be the largest thing that has ever passed through her vagina. Don't rush, take your time, and don't feel that you absolutely have to do it the first time. Patience is key!

I hope this helps! Happy playing!

I love been fisted. Stretched slowly to take the whole clenshed hand and then have them thrust in and out but not too hard till I cum. It's the full feeling I love and enjoy. I sometimes also like to inflate a balloon inside my vagina and then pass it out like the birthing process

I thoroughly enjoy getting fisted. There is nothing like feeling my husband's fist deep in my pussy, stretching it as wide as it will go! And luckily, my husband enjoys fisting me too.....Haven't tried anal fisting, a little worried about the pain on that one....

Being vaginally fisted is a big fantasy for me, I like the intensity of being stretched but have never taken a fist. I also fantasise about it during an examinations (medfet is pure fantasy for me) is there a situation in which this might happen in a real-life scenario?

Also, if I was o try fisting for real, I would be concerned about maintaining my muscle tone. Any tips on this? Will fisting negatively affect the 'tightness' of a vagina? Also, any tips for assessing your own muscle tone?

Thanks

subgirl

I love it but it really hurts . i am relaxed and ready i dont tense up unless it gets to the knuckles on the 4th finger and i cant get the thumb in at all.

Yes, it can be painful. Let's face it, I'm not so sure the fist was intended to go "in there". Bigger things come out that portal, and certainly the penis is just the right size. That's not to say I haven't tried fisting, or that I don't enjoy it because I have, and I do. However, no man has ever been able to get his entire fist inside me. We just enjoy what is within our personal limits. Not being able to accommodate a full fist shouldn't be seen as a personal failure.

Play On!

LadyDoc

I must admit that I have small hands for a man, but I have fisted vaginally quite a few women and I have yet to encounter a partner I could not fit my whole hand inside. Massive amounts of lubrication, a bit of patience and the way I insert and fold my hand at the same time all help, I guess.

As one partner said after being fisted for the first time, "I have never done anything that hurt so much or felt so wonderful as this."

Speed

This is one subject i reall want to try . i want my mooie to be fisted ,

i have heard women get the biggest orgasms threw their mooie being fisted .

Sounds amazing! I have never tried fisting but it intrigues me. I have had up to four large fingers inside me at once. Perhaps, one day soon . . .

I have never been fisted, front or rear, but this thread has me thinking about it.