Could you have sex in front of a therapist?

I read an article about a sex therapist, Mirta San Martin, who watches as couples have sex in front of her as part of their therapy.

Just curious: If a doctor or therapist asked you to, could you have sex in front of them? Would you want to?

I would try , never thought I don't have anything more to learn , I don't know if I will be immediately ready , but to see what more can I learn ?

I'm not sure I'd want to, exhibitionism isn't really my cup of tea. If I was convinced that it was something that would help me and my partner in our sexual exploration/development, then I would seriously consider it.

Play On!

LadyDoc

My answer is yes if it is to help my relationship or to learn something new .

or if some positions could be made easier . . yep i would do it infront of a therapist

It is very exciting for me to be naked in front of an opposite sex doctor / nurse, but without any intercourse. If the doctor / nurse invokes an orgasm by the examination, OK

But I cannot have any intercourse with my sex partner in front of a stranger...

I do not believe that this would serve to something much less as sexual therapy between the couple!

The couple's sex life may require assistance Yes, but not to the point of having sex in front a doctor. A good dialogue between the couple will be the first step and only later pass to a health technician of health, but never to the point of having to practice sex in front him!

I could not pratice sex with my boyfriend or partner in front a doctor!

Cheers for all, PatientCare

It's more therapy for the therapist than for the couple!

I'd never do it in a million years, and all of the girls I've known would have told me to "get lost" if I'd suggested it.

I did see a (supposedly) serious piece on a 'sex show' where a female therapist was demonstrating to a man things his partner (who wasn't there) could do. She had him naked, on all fours, and had a gloved finger inside him, massaging his prostate. After a few seconds she told him she was going to massage his genitals. It looked sensational, and he certainly reacted that way.

I'd have no problem with having that done by a therapist, and in front of a partner. Mine would have nothing to do with anal stuff, but it's on my wish list.

I had an experience sort of like that. I was having problems with erections after a prostate procedure and the urologist wanted to check for blood flow. He injected my penis wit something that was supposed to get it hard but it wasn't working. So he asked me to stroke myself to get the blood flowing. I did it while he sat and watched me and then, before I could stop, I ejaculated - very embarrassing.

I would never do it in front of a therapist.I belive everybody here is smart enought to see what is wrong in the relationship/sex,to talk with he's/her's partner,or talk to friends about it to get objective view..Not any friend,but the ones you concider broders and sisters...

It's different however if someone is turned on by being watched.Then go for it 😃

If the couple was going to the therapist because of relational or emotional incompatibility problems, then I don't think having sex in front of the therapist would be a very good idea. It might be fun in a certain way, or a way for one of the partners to really put it over on the other by showing how uninhibited they are compared to the other ...

But if it were for anything in the way of insufficient knowledge of techniques or basics or nervousness or inexperience, then doing this might on the other hand be a good way to relieve some of the problems ... And for some couples it could very well be a good turn-on and maybe give them more self confidence ...

All that aside though, I would say that there is no generally correct answer, that this would have be decided upon on a couple per couple basis.

Personally I think I would have been very nervous had I ever been in such a situation, but the idea does have a definite attraction.

We have had sex in front of lots of people, so it wouldn't be a problem.

I have been a bit of an exhibitionist since childhood, and my husband loves showing others how he can control me!

No way lol , not sure i would like to do it in front of anyone

Yes. No question. We would.

Not surprisingly I applied for a job as a sex surrogate, meaning someone who would have sex with someone else to free them, educate them, demonstrate with them under clinical supervision. I didn't get the job and can't recall if sessions were to be at her office and/or videotaped. I was also invited, twice, to work as two different gay couples who were having problems in their sex lives. Winging it with no instructions, I simply got each of them going... and left the room.

I cant think of a better way to produce erectile failure!

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Not surprisingly I applied for a job as a sex surrogate, meaning someone who would have sex with someone else to free them, educate them, demonstrate with them under clinical supervision.

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Where did you hear of such a job being open? I can't really think of anyplace where one would find such kind of job.

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I had an experience sort of like that. I was having problems with erections after a prostate procedure and the urologist wanted to check for blood flow. He injected my penis wit something that was supposed to get it hard but it wasn't working. So he asked me to stroke myself to get the blood flowing. I did it while he sat and watched me and then, before I could stop, I ejaculated - very embarrassing.

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Was it papaverine? Some people with erection problems get this prescribed for self-injection. It can give you a bone hard erection that lasts up to 2 hours.

We have had sex in a sex-club situation, with other people watching and joining in. But the lights were low, there was music in the background, other couples fucking, and the odour of sperm, pussy and scent. But I don't know if I would be able to have an erection in a clinical situation. Although if the therapist was to help a bit, who knows ....

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But I don't know if I would be able to have an erection in a clinical situation ...

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I thought that is what medfet was supposed to be all about .... ha ha

I have actually had very vivid dreams about this exact thing. I would absolutely love to do it. Not sure Doc would, he's a bit shy. But I guess if I have him tied down with 4 point restraints, I'm guessing he wouldn't have much of a choice? lol

Mashie

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But I guess if I have him tied down with 4 point restraints, I'm guessing he wouldn't have much of a choice?

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As long as you plan on providing the necessary stimulation...I think you have a plan.

But I guess if I have him tied down with 4 point restraints, I'm guessing he wouldn't have much of a choice? lol

He still has to get it up........not sure how much control you have over that in this scenerio. It is a fun activity to dream about though.

Course said, "He still has to get it up........not sure how much control you have over that in this scenario. It is a fun activity to dream about though."

(clearing my throat, and blushing a bit, Mashie responds with the following comment),

With all due respect, just the thought of me tying him up is enough, much less me actually doing it. The sound of my voice, the smell of my skin, either or, again, he would be hard in a New York City minute. As far as me having control over him, including his erections, I own him, he is my most prized possession, and I am his. He was born to please me, and I him. We have been together going on 5 years now, and even pushing his mid-50's my hot studly hunk of man meat gets hard and stays hard, for hours on end, not to mention he's cum for me multiple times with little to no recovery period, and that's without ED medications. I probably couldn't handle him with ED meds on board, geeze. He's a stud, what more can I say?

Mashie

With all due respect, Mashie....the "thought" of you tying any one of us up would be "enough" to send us over the edge. Thanks for the thought!!!

MeOmY

I'd love that! Wife not so much!

MeOmY, really, I am a big whimp. No reason to think otherwise, especially in my old age, trust me, lol.

I've had this exact fantasy on a number of occasions.

When I was in my teens or twenties I probably could have had sex in front of a therapist, but now that I am 60 there is no way that I would want to, and probably could not perform due to the distraction.

Why not give it a try...?

I doubt I would be able to preform as well in front of someone else

There is no way I could pull that off.