How many people on this board meet up for roleplay?

Ok, so here's the question: do most people just talk and keep their desires private, or do folks actually meet up from this board? If they do, would anyone be brave enough to state whom they meet and what kind of experience/relationship that they have? I guess I was just wondering if there could be a database of docs, kinda like a real doctor referral, that states this roleplayer, whether doc or patient, was good or not anything that one would be looking for. Does this make sense at all? Thanks!

I do, I play patient but I'm not sure whether my Playdoc will want me to reveal who he is so I'll keep that quiet. Experience wise he is brilliant. He's an ex-nurse so knows what he is doing and makes every procedure as painless as possible, including butt injections and is only interested in my well-being during session and making it a pleasurable experience for me. Relationship wise, I now consider him a great friend for him to be willing to meet my needs, and I chat to him often, mostly about non-medfet stuff just asking how is is etc, as friends do. Great Playdoc, I will go to him again and again.

Lee.

Stethmax-

I get where you're going with this idea, and some of your thoughts have merit. However, some of the things you're asking about are quite improper.

As you spend more time here, and read more of the posts, you will find that this is a small community and that word gets around quickly. Certain folks on this board have reputations as competent docs and nurses, some as patients, etc. It's really something that's gained by experience and not necessarily by referral.

As for who we play with, that's frankly not your business. Everyone here knows that I have a medplay partner, and that we met on this board, etc. A few fellow members know who he is, but that's because I told them in one-on-one conversations. I wouldn't dream of publicizing his name for all and sundry, and he feels the same way about letting folks know that he plays with me. Having said that, if you pay attention to posts, you can generally figure out who the "couples" are. As to the nature of the relationships that start on this board, I think that too is the domain of the individual players.

Again, you're new here, but I think you'll find that if you read carefully and take the time to get to know some of the personalities, you'll discover what everyone's "specialty" is, and whether or not people are "good" or not. Let's not forget that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Somewhere on the forum there is a thread about a Play-doc Directory but providing that information is strictly voluntary. A glance at profiles and personal ads might also be helpful in finding what you want.

Play On!

LadyDoc

I agree with you, LadyDoc. Just for the record - no, I do not meet anyone for real life play sessions. However, even if I did, what do you care who they are? What difference would it make to you? Why are you so interested in people's private matters? Imagine you're in high school and you secretly like a popular girl, then someone comes along and asks you "Who do you like?" Would you say the truth out loud for everyone in the school to hear?

Yes i can say my partner and i meet up with people . my partner is there to be a saftey thing until we get to know the person

No I have never met anyone yet for play but I have been contacted recently and we currently setting up my first appointment.

It will be my doctor's first time too. She did contact me through this site but out of respect for her privacy I'm not going to mention her name.

Alex-

Good for you! You truly are a gentleman (and they say chivalry is dead). Best wishes to you and your lady friend!

LadyDoc

Wow thank you for the kind words, LD. Did you find that info on how to perform exams?

I think we might need it.

I'm working on something special, just for you. Just give me until the end of the week if you can!

Best,

LD

Yes, there are a few of us who are very much active in meeting patients, but a lot more who are just here because they enjoy the chat and the fantasy. I am, in fact, meeting a "patient" for an "exam" this afternoon, a repeat patient. I have generally found that if you are open and respectful in chatting with a prospective patient, good things will happen. Of course, a doc might have to chat with 20 or 30 prospects before one actally will meet. But I enjoy the chat and consider that as a big part of the scene.

Sorry for offending everyone, that wasn't my intent, nor was it to pry into anyone's personal business. Maybe I can clarify further my point: when someone says 'i'm a play doc' or 'patient', that can mean MANY different things to different people. For example, some meet for sexual encounters, some don't; some are into very invasive procedures, some have very strict boundary limits; some are into bondage and more 'extreme' interests, others are not. Medical fetish means many different things to different people. I was simply asking a question if anyone thought it was a good idea or not. That way, perhaps individuals with certain desires could facilitate an encounter much more easily with someone that matches their needs more effectively.

I have chatted with a few off this board, but time and distance always seem to be a problem in trying to meet someone. I would be very open to a meeting, but everyone I talk to seem to be on the other side of the world.

I've tried several times, but no luck. I would enjoy being the patient for a thorough exam preferably by a female and would also enjoy being the gyno...

I'm in GA if anyone wants to meet up.

I have found that enema partners are easier to come across, but I've not done that yet.

I met someone extremely special on this board and they know who they are and I will keep their name private until they are comfortable with it being released. We are trying to work a real life session and we have have done some online roleplay and found we have alot in common. If you are looking for someone to meet up with start with one thing and see where it goes, also be respectful and kind we are a small group and we all deserve each other respect.

I haven't met any in particular on this board yet but would still love to meet up with someone for a detailed exam. Just takes time and patience to find someone you "click" with for a successful, stress and worry free experience.

Hi Stethmax, I too have met a wonderful play partner on this site. We have become quite close in fact since meeting here. I think you will find some really wonderful people. Just take your time, spend a little time reading blogs, participate in chat and you may too find someone to play with, either online or in a real play situation. I feel very lucky to have found someone here and have also had some other really nice experiences with other people over the years. Some have been friends for more than a decade! Good luck in your search and in the meantime, just have fun.

I met someone very special on this site and she traveled 10,000 miles to spend time with me for our first meeting. i feel very fortunate to have met such a beautiful, loving, and giving partner. i love her very much and we're trying to figure a way so we can spend our lives together. wish us luck.

If i met anyone here and they were ok with it i would have no problem telling ofthem

And that's exactly the point; if they were ok with it. My partner and I met on this forum and have been playing together for years now. A few individual members know who he is, but he prefers that I refrain from splashing about who he is. A request that I'm more than happy to comply with.

The forum should NOT be used to "out" various partners.

I have met several people on here and they have all been very great drs. The kind the respect limits, modesty, and privacy. Couldn't ask for much better in a play partner!

I have met (from this Board) with one Playdoc.

I have met a couple of people and they are very good friends now too

I have not met anyone for real time play, but remain hopeful. To those who have connected I am happy for you. Have any of you who are searching on this website been led on by phonies who correspond with you but have no intention of meeting?

You cannot say for sure why anyone suddenly stops communicating. Perhaps they believed they were ready to meet and as it was about to happen, they had second thoughts and realized they were not really ready. Maybe it was just a whim on their part to see if someone would consider meeting them.

I've had people re-open communication after a break of a year, or even two years, and eventually meet. I suspect they grew more at ease over time and realized I must really be who I said I was.

Be patient. (No pun intended)

@rt4u - you get phonies wherever you go in life, its weeding them out and deciphering whether they are or not. Many, myself included have chatted with them, women posing as men and visa-versa ... good luck with your search

Yes you will encounter phonies but in my experience there are more genuine people on this board than on the Yahoo groups of old. I've personally met quite a few since I became a member.

And yes you will get single men getting off pretending to be a woman or a couple, that's something you have to identify and deal with otherwise you could waste a lot of time and effort.

I just ask to make phone contact with them, that normally quickly deals with that problem.

But you might also encounter those who are genuine but perhaps too nervous at this stage to take the 'plunge'

Dr Philip - The UK Play Doctor.

Agree with Dr Philip's comments. Intuition plays a part too, trust your judgements with someone. Just remember never to give out any personal details about yourself until you are absolutely 100% sure you can trust the person concerned. If in doubt .. don't.

Rt4u - I have had that very experience here. When I was a newbie here, I ran into a fellow that seemed as though he was very interested in meeting. Somehow, he always managed to find one excuse or another for why he couldn't get away. Finally, I looked at his Facebook page and at the comments that people who knew him had posted - even his daughter. That's when I realized that if his lips were movin', he was lyin'.

Ahh, you live and learn!

I would definitely meet you ladydoc if you resided nearby. Unfortunately,the VERY FEW women interested in enemas seem to reside very far away.