Medfet as a basis for making love.

When I was nine years old, I saw my parents make love in the living room. My mother was taking my father's rectal temperature. I figured out that taking a rectal temperature was part of the love making process. I took that scene to heart. To this day, I cannot make love to a woman without taking her temperature. It has become part of the routine for me. Anybody else feel the same ? I didn't question my parents about it. I believed it at face value. Anybody else feel the same ? Thanks.

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If you feel your fetish is getting in the way at times, just remember empathy is key to a healthy relationship. Just put yourself in your partner's shoes and brainstorm from another perspective. You are bound to find some resolution.

I never have sex with play dr, to me ruin thrill. It would go from dr to lover

We don't use it as a basis for making love but we do use medfet fantasies to spice up our love making.

Medfet love making is not really my scene. Each to his or her own though.

I use med fet as foreplay with my girlfriend but that's a different situation. Were I playing with someone else there would be no sex.

No experience with that but I use to be able to hear my parents make love and it was a real turn off for me. To this day, I still have problems with lovemaking due to that. However, I do not have the same feelings with man 2 man.

No experience with that but I use to be able to hear my parents make love and it was a real turn off for me. To this day, I still have problems with lovemaking due to that. However, I do not have the same feelings with man 2 man.

That's interesting because I had the exact opposite response. When I heard my parents making love, I sometimes got close to their door so I could hear, but not so close if I knew my older brother would see or hear me. It was a real turn on to know someone in the next room was fucking, especially before I started having sex. I would have loved to be a fly on the wall and watched them.

As far as medfet is concerned, when it is with my husband, it is a vehicle for really hard dirty sex to follow. If it is at a party, it's purely an examination and exhibitionism.

In some of my fantasies, I've imagined sex as a "surgical procedure," with all of the surgical prep and sterile precautions as being part and parcel of it.