Your age the last time a parent was with you for an exam

Until I was 18 😢 my mother accompanied me always in to the exam room. However the most embarrassing experience was not being able to pee after surgery, then getting an erection while being catheterized with my mother and nurse in the room !

"Did you have to take your sons to the doctor after their problems and were you present while they were being examined? If so, what was their reaction and were you uncomfortable at all being in there?"

Baraja,

In some cases we did see the doctor, like the poison ivy, but often it just needed a look, hug and maybe an ice pack.

You guys really shrink up with ice. 😁

I don't think they were embarrassed by my being there because I always was, and often the doctor we could see in the practice was female. One of my sons has told me he always felt funny when seeing the male doc but the female just made him feel comfortable.

At my yearly physical my doctor would always undo my pants and lower them to my ankles before examining my stomach. As she palpated by abdomen she would put her fingers inside the waistband of my briefs and comment on the weather which would always get me hard. This always caused my a lot of anxiety/embarrassment.

To "agman" :

it is not the first time that I read that a boy had to walk in a hall nearly naked, only dressed in underwear to be weighted on a scale.

it is strange! I presume that the nurse came with you but it would have been more simple to have a scale in the exam room?

do you meet other persons dressed in the hall, even if you did not, you could have?

it would have been embarrassing!

until what age was it like that for boys because I guess that the girls had not to undress like boys ?

Moms do you miss seeing your children naked once when they decide they want privacy? After being able to see their growing bodies for all those years it must be, for some, a little sad to be denied that privilege.

Desert rat

No desert_rat it is not like that at all. Moms never think anything about it, actually encourage their kids to learn modesty. I never looked at it as a privilege to see my kids naked, just a necessity, but glad they are old enough to take care of their bathing, toileting, and dressing duties. The last thing you want to do is embarrass your kids. Its bad enough that they have to be seen with you in public. :😃

@Kimberly

Glad they are old enough to take care of their bathing, toileting and dressing duties.

Kimberly, I know you had to house break your husband. How are his bathing, toileting, and dressing duties coming along?

😁

Oh he did well in that department, just picking up after himself, or cleaning up after himself, have been the hardest for him, but he is a keeper. 😉

"is accepted of kids as something uncomfortable but unavoidable procedure"

At the end of the day the choice should be the patients.

If he or she decides he or she does not want an audience, mother or otherwise then that should be respected.

The parent can always pop in afterwards and discuss any findings with the doctor.

Its easier said then done. As I posted before, my Mom was in the room when I started puberty and was in the exam room for several years thereafter. I as a child, although I protested, had no choice in the matter. My doc insisted and she insisted that she be in the room for the exam. But perhaps times are different...this took place in the late 70's early 80's.

I would be so embarrassed.

My mom never came in with me, but my dad did.

I think it is worse when ones mother is in room i do feel as a rule boys are better with female doctor they make one seem more at ease

Today is different. But then again, I'm an adult going to an adult doctor...I don't even have to undress anymore. But as a kid going to the pediatricians office, in my case, the room was small and we had to undress to our undies. This took place in the late 70' early 80's. The nurse would escort me into the exam room, then instruct me to take off my clothes leaving my undies and sometimes t-shirt on.

Then she would weigh me, take my height, do my blood pressure and then I would turn over and she would undo and slide my undies down my ass and spread my ass cheeks and insert the anal thermometer for about a minute or so. After she was finished, she would remove the thermometer, roll my undies back up and told me to sit up and wait for the doc. If my Mom was in the room (which started when I was around 13yo.) she would see everything because the chair she sat it was near the door next to the exam table. The exam room was small.

Once the doctor arrive (which was like 10mins later) he would carry in my records and proceed in speaking to my Mom. Then the exam would begin. I know my Mom watched the whole time and I know my Mom was very interested in my "growth" and that is why she watched the exam. I think all Mothers are curious about there son's development.

At my physician's office there is actually a sign next to the entrance door of the exam rooms that states "Anyone under the age of 18 must be accompanied by an adult". Mom always followed me until my mid-teens.

For boys who are under 10 or 11 age in elementary school, I don't think that it is really embarrassing if a female teacher is attending their examination, it is rather normal and men must not always complain as little babies about the double standard examination, they are thinking like adults men , not like boys of 7, 8, 9, 10 age, it is a fact that most of the teachers are female persons so it is normal that they are present for the school physicals if necessary to supervise the boys or to help the doctors, a boy of that age is used that female persons are caring about him at home, for instance for bathing, so he does not thought that it is unfair, it would be the same for him if it would be a male teacher but a male teacher is often less used to deal with little kids.

of course, it is different for boys older until 13 age if it is still the case in Russia or other eastern european countries to have a female teacher present.

It depends also how the physicals are performed, if it is in the nude from the start or not?

" For boys who are under 10 or 11 age in elementary school, I don't think that it is really embarrassing if a female teacher is attending their examination".....I am not so sure.

When I was that age we did our PE (gym) wearing shorts and no shirt and girls wore PE knickers and a t-shirt.

Our changing rooms were open plan and a passing teacher could see clearly the children changing, stripping to their underpants/knickers. I don't remember ever giving this a thought or being uncomfortable with this but if asked to strip naked I think I might have felt a little uneasy, even at that age, but then again, in a 'formal' situation, ie, a doctor's examination and with a female teacher present I imagine I would have just done as I was told. If I had to drop my shorts in front of a female doctor and a female teacher was present I am sure I might have been a little embarrassed but I would have simply done as I was told.

My Mom did that to till i was 16 wasn't

i didn't think much of it

we seen each other nude lots of time

no big deal

My mom always wanted to go with me, but I stopped letting her when I was 12.

Beside all those accidents as kid, I've never had any of my parents around when visiting a doc. Well, maybe as infant but doesn't really count right?

For the school checkups letters were sent home (usually with us kids) informing about the upcoming event "next Thursday" or so. Any parent feeling like it were welcome to participate. I don't think no one ever showed up!

All I ever brought home after the visit was a small note stating my weight and length, and the nurse wrote "everything's ok" on it. For those having any issues, usually bad eyesight, the nurse called home and left the news.

I had a truly embarrassing situation when i was 14 years old. I had problems with my bowel movements and my mother decided that she will set up an appointment with a well known pediatrician (an older male, in his 60's) to have me checked out. My aunt was an old friend of this pediatrician (he was the doc for my cousins too at that time), so my mother asked her to book an appointment for me.

When the big day arrived my aunt and my mom take me to the doc. After some waiting, the nurse came out and invited us in to the exam room. My aunt asked if she should come in or not, and my mother answered her that she can come in with us. It turned out later that it was a big mistake...

So we went in, all sat down, the nurse disappeared, and after some embarrassing questions from the doc, which mostly answered by my mother, the examination began.

First, I did not have to undress, the doc measured my height and weight. He said that I'm in the lower part of the normal range for my age. Than he instructed me to take off my T-shirt, so he can listen to my heart and lungs. After this, he said he would like to examine my tummy, so i had to lay down on the examination table.

Without hesitation, he unzipped my jeans and pulled it a bit lower. I was a bit tensed at that time, a total stranger pulling down your trousers, and your mother and aunt watching it...

After some push here and there, came my worst nightmare. He asked me to pull down my trousers and underpants completely, so he can examine my rectum. What? I was in total shock, but what could I do in that situation. After some hesitation I'm obeyed like a good boy. My aunt said that don't be embarrassed honey, I will turn away, so she get up from her chair and turned half away.

With my pants and underpants at my ankles, and some tears in my eyes I climbed back up on the table. The doctor positioned me (on my side, legs up to my chest)and than I saw that my mother has perfect way to my small teenage penis and even smaller scrotum with some minor hair around it. (I was a "late bloomer".) My aunt's view was even better, because she was standing only meters from the examining table... My face went red as fast as hell. Then doctor put on some gloves, put some jelly on his right index finger and slowly but firmly push it in to my rear hole, rotate this way and that, poking here and there for a good two minutes I think. When he finished he said, that he found nothing wrong back there, and let me to dress up. When I climbed down to the table and pulling up my pants, he glanced at my genitals and made a comment that I'm developing well, but slower than average. Oh thank you!-that was only I could thought at that time. It was so embarrassing!

After that the doc wrote some prescriptions, and it was over. There was complete silence in the car on way home...

My Mom was always in the exam room from the time I was 12 to 13 to my last exam with that particular doctor at age 18. It was a small room and the chair would be near the exam table were my Mom would sit. Each exam would be different each time. When I first reach puberty, he handed my Mom booklets which contained information about boys and male puberty, I never got to see the books and to this day, I never knew what happen to them. I know ever since that exam, my Mom was encourage by the Doctor to inspect me periodically at home which she would do from time to time throughout my teen years.

This is one exam that happen to me when I was 16 years old at the time:

The nurse would call me and my back into the exam room...I would get undressed to my undies. The nurse would weigh me, and take my blood pressure and temperature using an anal thermometer.

A few moments later, the doctor would come in, examine my eyes, nose, throat and ears. He would listen to my heart and then I would lay down. Meanwhile the nurse would be preparing things and place it on a cart to be later rolled near my exam table for the doctor.

He would listen to my heart as I would lay there and then palpate my lower abdomen and then his hands would go underneath the waistband of my undies. Then we would feel the base and then tell me to lift my butt and he would remove my undies. At this time I would be hard.

While the doctor would be holding my hard cock in his hand, he would talk to my Mom about my development. He had asked her if she had been inspecting as he advised and been reading the booklet he had given her a while back. She did and her concern was that when she inspected me, I would become hard and ejaculate while she inspected my penis. She was concerned that I had pre-mature ejaculation issue's like my Father and my Mother didn't want me to go through what my Father went through. Both my Mom & Dad had a horrible sex life which contributed them to getting a divorce.

The nurse would roll the table over, I didn't know what was on the table because it was positioned more behind me so I couldn't really see. I know he would take from the table, small oval balls which I later found out that he would do the tanner stages on me. He would tell the nurse my measurements and she would write it down. He also had the nurse write down my Moms concern and then mention its to do an over-sensitive frenulum. He then turned to my Mom and had her stand...while he held the base of my penis...he pointed out my frenum to my Mom and explained that I had an over active frenum that made my penis very sensitive to the touch. With his other hand he used his index finger and gently rubbed it which made my dick throb. He then told my Mom too take her finger and rub it...she did the same as the doc. He was holding the base and my Mom gently rub my frenum as she rubbed it, my dick would twitch. I was nervous, breathing hard, and was super embarrassed.

My Mom had a seat, and the doctor explained to her that he does have a treatment, its used for men that have erectile dysfunction problems and its electrostimulation. He told my Mom that she should look into this device because with continued practice, the electrostimulation machine will train my penis not to ejaculate so fast and it will build my endurance up with lots of practice. He had his own machine which was on the cart. He asked my Mom's permission to see if he can try it out and he would show my mom how the machine works. My Mom was all for it and trusted his advice.

The doctor walked to the sink to wash his hands and my Mom was asking him if its going to hurt and he reassured her that this is a treatment for guys that have pre-mature ejaculation that it also works to build up endurance, he agrees and thinks that this may help my issue regarding cumming to fast. Meantime, the nurse took these two straps and placed them onto my penis which was semi-hard. One strap was placed on the base and the other was placed right at the top of the head of my cock. There was a small metal plate attached to the straps which touched my skin at the base and the other was touching my frenum.

The doctor told my Mom to have a seat that he was going to test my endurance. The doc placed the stand near him which I got to see the box...the straps were on my penis with wires connected to the straps and then the wires were connected to the machine. The Doctor turned on the machine and I felt a small electrical current teasing my frenum. My penis got erect and hard very fast. The doctor touched my penis and felt around and made some last final adjustments.

He listen to my heart and told the nurse to place the dial on number 6, the feeling I was having was incredible...my dick was being teased as this device was flicking and rubbing my frenum. It was teasing me so bad that I totally forgot my Mom was in the room. I remember the nurse looking at me as she was telling me that I was doing great and just try to relax and not fight the feeling. The doc then felt my balls and he mention to the nurse that I was leaking pre-cum. He took one of those long swab and cleaned my leaking cockhead and placed the pre-cum onto a dish of sorts. He then told the nurse to increase the level to 8, at this point my breathing got harder and I felt I wanted to cum so bad. I don't know what happen, but the doctor inserted this tube small tube into my penis, I really didn't feel it going in...but I was ready to cum, my hips raised up from the exam table and I was thrusting a bit and I shot my cum...but it was being collected into this small test tube...I was watching as my cum was spurting out that this tube was collecting my sperm.

The nurse lowered the power and I had one of the most powerful orgasm I have ever felt. The doctor placed my sperm sample into another bag and sealed it as the nurse was disconnecting me. The Doctor told my Mom that my sperm is going to the lab for some testing and that she should either look into this device and do this at home or she should bring me here once a week for a treatment.

They walked outside of the exam room, kept on talking as I was getting dressed and just had the moment of a life time.

My mother accompanied me into the exam room until my teens and it didnt worry me as I was usually more concerned of the doctor was going to give an injection and where it was going

My mother was always overprotecive of me, and I always told her I could take care of myself, but she was one of those "whatever I say goes" kind of people. That meant accompanying me into the exam room until I was 19 and asking dumb questions.

For me, mother in exam room until 13, then dad took me for my physicals and came in with me until 24. Yes, 24, really. The only exeption to that was when I was 19, hurt my back during a tennis clinic, and mom took me to see the doctor (too much pain to work the clutch on my stick shift car).

Mom came in, which didn't bother me because it was just my back. But after stripping to the waist and the doc checking around for a while he asked me to remove my pants and lie back on the table. I was wondering why I had to do that but I followed his directions, lying on the table in in must my boxers and socks.

After some poking and prodding around my stomach, without any warning, he grabs the bottom of the legs of my boxer shorts and pulls them all the way down to my ankles! I was shocked at first but to tell the truth it was kind of exciting to be exposed like that in front of my mother.

My mother was always in the room until age 18 years old. My first erection after a rectal exam was at age 14. My mother had full view.

My mom always was in the rrom during our physicals. Never thought much about it until now.

My mother accompanied me to my physical exams until I was 15. She would normally restrain from watching during the genital exam, but a couple of times after I hit puberty she did take a look.

A friend of mine from college, who probably would have started high school around 1972, described for me a group physical which every freshman in his high school had to go through in order to apply for the football team (and nearly all the boys in that Texas town wanted to). It sounded to me very embarrassing, as it was conducted on the school gymnasium floor on a Saturday, the parents were welcome to watch from the bleachers (and most did), and each of the boys was required to wear just a towel, which was removed and replaced as necessary during the exam. Each of the boys' temperature was taken rectally, each was subjected to a skin check while laying naked on an exam table, and each got a thorough check of his genital organs while standing, all with their parents (and their friends' parents) looking on from the bleachers.

Sprinterboi did your friend say if more moms showed up then dad's? Also did any of the school female staff show up?