Speculum too large

I have had that in real life. I was too embarrassed to tell the dr I was a virgin and so they used a medium speculum. It was not pleasant. I think if a doctor was going to use it for stretching I would want them to start on the smaller end and move up

I've found the standard size to be very uncomfortable any time it's been inserted. I don't like to be penetrated vaginally by anything, so find it hard to tolerate anything in there.

My wife has always had a medium Pedersen speculum used on her, except for her first pelvic exam, when a small, or virginal, speculum was used. And when she had her IUD inserted a medium Graves was used to open her up more. Since I have been to many of her exams, including her IUD insertion, I know that the medium Pedersen is quite uncomfortable for her. From what she told me the medium Graves actually hurt her almost as much as the IUD insertion itself. Since she has a small vagina and is tight due to not having children, she says the speculum part of a pelvic exam is more uncomfortable than the bi-manual or recto-vaginal parts of the exam for her.

Not that I can recall. Apart from my first exam as a virgin, I have never had much discomfort from the speculum, so I assume the appropriate size was used.

I have a set of petersen's and recently had some solo play with them. The medium wad perfect, the large was too long and didn't seem to fit all the way in, although the girth didn't bother me.

Years ago, 1970s, my first pelvic exams were uncomfortable, the speculum was too large and cold. When I asked for a smaller one, they would say next time. It was already in. The bitch of a nurse would never remember for next time until I made them use a smaller one. This is also before nurse witnesses.As I grew up I always took control of my situation and made sure they used the correct size. I was also told my uterus was tipped (?) Which sometimes caused the discomfort.

I think that sex with a woman after an actual pelvic exam could be another unexplored fetish. I've had several friends tell me that it's the best sex ever.

I felt like my second exam the speculum was larger than any other exams I've had. The NP even was apologizing for not having a smaller one. All my other exams were completed with metal speculums so not sure why the plastic one seemed to hurt more than all the other exams.

In my wifes evams they put out a range of sizes but always seem to chose the right one as she has never complained about the size..