I was 35 when I got my first prostate exam. I didn't like that one bit, I thought it hurt. And I've got another one coming up in 3 months, which I dread. My doctor is a female in her early 40s, and I've been going to her for several years now. She told me on a follow up visit that she strongly suggested I have a digital prostate/rectal exam because that sort of cancer runs in my family. So it was scheduled for my next appointment 4 months later. I really didn't dwell on it till the day of my appointment.
Cut to 4 months, I show up at the Dr.'s office 20 minutes early. Not many people were there and the nurse took me on back to get my blood pressure and vitals. Laying over on the counter in the exam room was a tube of K-Y and a pair of purple vinyl gloves. My heart immediately sunk because I knew all to well what that was for. The nurse told me to remove all my clothes but my underwear and put on a paper gown. I sat there hoping and praying it would be a while before she got in there.......too bad......less than 3 minutes passed when I heard a knock on the exam room door. No chance to get my courage up. She started with with the normal "hello" how have you been doing" routine. I was so nervous I couldn't stand it. I told her I was really stressed out about the exam and she said "don't sweat it.....it's not that bad, and doesn't last but a few seconds".
She first proceeded with the usual part of a routine exam....listen to my heart...breath in breath out....check my ears, throat, and eyes....check my ankles for swelling(blood pressure problems)........then I layed back on the exam table while she raised the front of the paper gown. She asked me to pull my underwear down, which I did to mid thigh. She checked my testicles and pressed up under them, feeling for lumps. Then came the big event.....crunch time. As she went over to the counter to get the exam gloves she told me to roll over onto my left side and bring both knees as close to my chest as possible. I could hear her snap on the gloves, then the farting sound of the K-Y being squeezed out. My heart must have been racing 200 beats a minute. She said " ok...you're going to feel some pressure when I place the pad of my index finger against your anus....try not to tense up and I won't be in there longer than a few seconds....try to relax as much as possible". I felt her raise my right butt cheek, then the pad of her slippery finger for a couple seconds, then WHOA! I let out a gasp because she put it up there fast....and as far as it would go. I could feel she had it up there all the way to her knuckle. That wasn't all that bad, thanks to the narrow girth of her finger. What hurt was all the pressing and poking around. She went to pressing in real firmly toward my prostate and I immediately felt like I was going to piss all over that exam table. She pressed down on one side of my prostate and hooked her finger back a little...........then pressed on the other side and hooked back again. I was gritting my teeth trying not to gasp out again. I wanted to sqeeze my asscheeks together, but with one audible slirp she withdrew her finger and said......"there..all done.....now that wasn't so bad was it?" I didn't reply and I was sore and throbbing in the area between my balls and anus. She actually took a tissue and wiped a gob of K-Y from between the crack of my ass.....talk about degrading......having a young, attractive female raid your ass with her gloved finger, then wipe your ass to top it all off. It's not like getting a prostate massage from your wife, girlfriend, or a tantric massage therapist. You don't have the dignity of being with someone you're comfortable being naked around.
But if nothing happens, in late November, I get to go through the whole process again. I think I'd rather take a horse whipping than have it done again. But then again it's just a woman's finger. My wife says I'm chickenshit if I don't go have it done. I'll definately never let a male doctor check my prostate. If a female can put me through that much distress with a small finger like she's got, imagine what a motherfucker with Wilt Chamberlain fingers can do 😁 .