Watching Your Wife/Partner's Examination

For the females.

What feelings do you experience when your hubby/boyfriends comes with you to your gyn exam and watches everything?

What do you like best in it?

Carla

I asked my boeyfriend to come with me when I changed my doctor because I was afraid. The doctor did not ask anything about him and pushed us in her office, so he was there during all the visit.

He had a red face when she took the speculum...

Sometimes when I go with my girlfriend she is just letting me get my kink out, but on occasion she has been really happy I have been there too.

There is one NP there that tends to be in a hurry and tends to jab and poke. My girlfriend said she was a whole lot slower and nicer with a 200 pound gorilla in the room.

I like being there watching the exam, provides support but also i really like watching !

My girlfriend lets me watch her complete exam when she goes for annual gyn appointment. I don't think she minds at all, in fact I think she really likes it. Shes always all over after the exam. Bit of an exhibitionist I would say.

Definitely sounds like an exhibitionist bobby_james. I for one would be intreested to hear more of what you have seen at your girlfriends exams.... 😃

Ever since my husband has started to watch my gyno exams, the doctor seems to take longer to do them. I think the doctor knows my husband likes to watch every step. I have a male doctor that has started to do the entire exam while I am totally nude. My breast exams take about 10 minutes.

Hi ladyj, i often wondered this. Definitely the first exam i ever saw took much longer because i was there watching. The doctor took the time to explain things to me. 😃

Tell me Lady J, was the doctor any nicer or easier on your parts with your ale partner there? I equate to some extent slowness with gentleness. I have been told that the same doctor is much slower and gentler if I am around.

I think on one level it is just bad press to cause needless pain and discomfort and having another person around puts the professional on their best behaviour. I also think having a big guy that is most definitely there to support the woman also puts them on their best behaviour.

I have been there when things that may be uncomfortable were, but also things that I know are not awful if done right, like inserting the speculum, never seem to be issues when I am around and I tend to hear "Oh she was in a hurry and just jammed it into me" when I am not.

What is your take on this?

My doctor has always been gentle. When my husband was there, the doctor was looking at my husband to see how he would respond the his touching me. When the doctor started to examine my breasts, he looked at my husband (I couldn't see my husband at the time) and he smiled at him. So, I assumed my husband had given him a smile that met everything was OK. And whatever the doctor wanted to do with me was OK with my husband. From that day on, my breasts exams went from a few minutes to a minimum of 10 minutes. Seeing that I have 34Fs, there is a lot to examine. He explained a lot to my husband as well. Things got real interesting when my husband asked the doctor about my response to clitoral stimulation.

I get turned on thinking about my wife getting an exam. I have never been with my wife and have never told her of my feelings.

At first I was embarrassed when my husband came to my examination...then it started to turn me on and I used to flirt with him and the doctor while I was in the stirrups...now I have had an affair with my doctor who is a friend of my husbands so it is sort of awkward again because my doctor usually does more than examine me if my husband isn't there. Having a gyno exam turns me on so much that I love being able to have sex with my doctor right after the speculum examination so I try to book when hubby isn't available.

Just left my wife's gyno. As usual there for the exam Dr told us since she is one year postop from gastric bypass he feels we can start pursuing a family. So with that said time to go practice.

Male with female intern

My wife has invited me to her exams for the last several years. She says that she is more comfortable with me there in the exam room with her. Her next Well-Woman exam is in 2 days and I have made sure that I am off that day for her.

At first I was embarrassed when my husband came to my first gyno (preg)examination, because i did not know what to expect. But my doctor didnt mind him being there amatter of fact it started to be a teaching session. Knowing he was going to nursing school she was using my body and explaining the entire exam. From my breast exam that use to be just a couple of second turned out to be minutes right to the full pelvis exam.She was very patient and showed him EVERYTHING on my body and how it should be examed. After the 1st exam all others went back to normal. I came to all my appointments while i was pregnant and if our schedule allows he still comes for my annual. I have to say on a side not it was a very big turn on for him and me with that nice slow exam. 11 years later and i still remember it as if it was yesterday 😉

Our physician, a female internist, does conjoint exams, allowing us to observe each others exam. I watch my wife's pelvic exam, and she see's my urological exam. It is educational, as these are the two exams unique to gender.

LadyJ, that was a real cliff hanger... would love to hear actual detail of what happened! I have never had a dr. do a clitoral stimulation response test! Thought that was just in porn : )

wildermarie, you also left a lot out! What kinds of things have you been able to do during/after your exam? Did you ever go to the exam room after hours?

I go to my gf's exams all the time.. Dr even has me come around and see her spread open genitals when the speculum is in it... I think she's aware of our home gyno games... =)

I've always wanted to attend my wife's gyn exam and i hope i get that opportunity sooner rather than later.

The day my husband comes in with me to see one of my exams is the day singer, "Enya" comes out with a rap record!

So in other words...it won't happen! I like having my OB/GYN all to myself 😄

I always go with my wife. She like having me there. She feels more relaxed.

Never attended one, but would love to. A few weeks ago I was at the Dr's and I could hear my dr giving a gyno exam in the next room. I could hear everything going on. I would love to have been in there.

I was lucky enough to be at two of my wife's exams. We were expecting a child, and the midwife, invited me back. I thought I would just be brought back to hear the baby's heartbeat, but I was brought back for the whole exam. It was a huge turn-on.

I've been trying to use electro-sex to do a clitoral stimulation response test.

My GF has had electro-stim on her genitals.. usually in role play as interrogation or punishment for something.. It's her in an exam position before/after speculum exam.. Sometimes I'll use the speculum as one of the circuit points.

Nowadays i usually go to the doctor with my husband and he sees all of my exam .my doc being a female explains and shows various parts to my hubby .it gives me confidence because he's with me

Having my husband present at the exam is a necessity for me to feel safe even if having another person in the room in itself is quite stressful. For play I'm more drawn towards the idea of having two doctors or three rather than having a partner present. I'd like to play a one-dimensional role, as a patient, only.

I always go into the room when she goes. I enjoy watching all the procedures.

You don't know what you're missing if you don't go into the exam room with your wife/GF and even participate, if given the opportunity. Wives/GFs get turned on by it, also. Most docs don't object, as long as you keep it decent.........

Since we've been married I've always gone with my wife to her well-woman exams. We are usually making jokes and cracking up in the exam room while waiting fot her doc. One day we were laughing and he came in and said something to the affect of 'I don't think I can leave you two alone in here anymore' (If he only knew) I stay at the foot and watch everything and even asked to veiw rhe cervix and stuff and he thinks it's all OK and natural. I got married older than most and it was her 2nd and we tried to have kids abut it was not in the cards. He held our hands through 4 miscarriages and then I said enough was enough and the last one scared me so much I called it off. I couldn't put her throught the physical and emotional pain anymore and take it myself either.