Which buttplug will stay in place?

My GF Sue and I are experienced enema users and reently tried to add buttplugs to our play but we are having problems with finding ones that will stay in place. Neither of us are terribly large back there but we can insert a plug of 1 1/4 to maybe 1 1/2 inch diameter max if it's pliable. We started out with Doc Johnson Jelly Anal Delight and the y went in easily and the tapered bumps felt good. The problem was that the "neck" area at the base is a little too wide to allow the anal sphincter to get a good grip and hold the thing in place. I see that many plugs are too wide at the base for secure fit. Any suggestions? Thanks.

While they're out of stock right now, I'd suggest a Klystra double balloon enema nozzle, either the F2S or F3S. This way you can regulate whatever size you want and I can assure you that you won't wiggle away from it. A little pricey but worth every penny. Enjoy!

You might want to do a search and take the time to read the posts about butt plugs and you will get lots of tips and names or links to preferred plugs. I, too, dislike regular butt plugs for the same reason you cited, the base is too wide to fit easily between the cheeks.

My favorite and one that will snuggle right up there and can be worn in public is the Njoy stainless steel plug. http://www.stockroom.com/nJoy-Pure-Plug-20-P3076.aspx. This is just one site you can get it at. Google it and shop for the best price.

Again, this is probably one of many out there. Just plugging along... 😉

Thanks Petalsoft and Waterboi; I'm surprized that so many of these plugs are too wide in the "neck" to stay put...the Jelly Anal Delight plugs that Sue and I bought were fun, but just wouldn't stay in place. We had planned wearing them on a shopping trip for groceries; mine shot out when I bent down to reach an item on a low shelf...but you get what you pay for (only $12 or so). The cheap "jelly" that they were made of was impossible to really keep clean. We just ordered 2 Infinity Anal Plugs in large and small http://www.stockroom.com/The-Infinity-Anal-Plug-P3011.aspx these look great with a narrow neck to allow the anal sphincter to grip and a small base to fit between the cheeks. Thanks.

I would recommend looking into the small Tantus Severin. It's 1.5" in diameter by 4.35" in insertable length. I've owned the large version for some time now and can attest that it can stay put for hours 😉 . It has a larger bulb near the base to help it stay put and also has a small and comfortable base that's way smaller than what's found on the Doc Johnson plugs. It's available on Amazon right now for about $25. Hope this helps!

Heidi, Susan and I love the "Paci" plugs (http://www.early2bed.com/mm5/merchant.mvc?Store_Code=ETB&Screen=PROD&Category_Code=sbt&Product_Code=PACI)

They are shaped like than a child's pacifier, and some in two sizes (there isn't much difference between the small and large). What we love about the design is the delightful "bulb" that fills us up, but yet they have a narrow neck that your sphincter can clench around. We also love the narrow round ring (instead of the traditional flanged base) this ring can nestle very comfortably between your butt-cheeks -- and thus not working to pop-out the plug as you bend-over to pluck items from low-lying grocery shelves! LOL!!

These are a lot like the ever-popular nJoy, but lighter (and cheaper!). Again, this is our favorite plug for long-term wear out in public.

Thanks for all the info; Sue and I were able to get a couple of the Infinity Anal plugs last night at a local shop. They really stay put due to the skinny neck; they were very comfortable when first inserted but seemed to get less comfortable as we left them in for a long period of time...the longer we had them in, we noticed a gradual feeling of "fullness/need to have a BM" which would not have been necessary since we enemaed each other until clear before the plugs went in. Not painful, just distracting; I suspected gas pressure was building up and when I removed Sue's plug she had a real blast of gas (she's normally a little fart-factory anyway).

My question: are anal plugs even vented with a small hole to allow gas out? We have an old set of Young's rectal dilators from the 1930's which range in size from finger width to very large and every one has a vent hole. One of our nurse friends says to just use a lot of lube on the neck and gas will noisily escape by itself; especially if you are sleeping with the plug and your sphincter is relaxed. Just curious. Thanks.

I found tthe problem was't so much that the narrow part was the wrong size but that it was too short on some plugs. I have copied one of my favourites and increased the neck length just need to make a new mould now and try it. But for staying in place you can't beat the mushroom shaped ones.

It would be nice if we could pass on our suggestions to some of the commercial anal sex toy makers. I think we could come up with some awesome toys. I have found very few that have measured up to my expectations.

If this item: http://www.meo.de/catalog/product_info.php?cPath=175&products_id=8840

were made of rubber or silicone, I think this would make a great toy. I think the metal would be too uncomfortable for extended wear. I would like to try something that has a hollow opening like this, but in rubber or silicone.

Sue and I finally found a buttplug that stays in place and has a vent for long-term wear: http://racy.com/vented-comfort-butt-plug.html This is an inexpensive buttplug ($12) but it goes in and stays in and it's the only one that we could find with a vent for the release of gas. We bought 2 of these and we both slept with them comfortably in place and woke up with that wonder full feeling in our behinds. Without the vent, both of us tend to shoot regular anal plugs due to the build up of gas. We wore these while excercising today (with a panty liner) and the sensations were awesome.

This style of plug is absolutely one of the best I've found over the years. I've passed out many as gifts to new initiates and everyone has liked them. Additionally, the vent hole is large enough at the flange end that many enema nozzles or ribbed hose couplers will fit tightly and you have a great retention nozzle that not only helps you hold, but is comfortable as well. With a right angle hose adapter on the bottom they also work well for enemas while you are sitting so you don't kink the hose. Did I give anyone any ideas?

Great suggestions, Denema. We wore the vented plugs for extended wear and they were fine; my only criticism is that the vented one is made of some kind of rubber not silicone and it's hard to clean..they seem to absorb odors somewhat, but the vent is really nice. The Infinity plugs that we bought are silicone and impervious to absorbing odors; Sue wore hers all day and says it still doesn't smell. We did find a possible way to vent the solid silicone plug; trying to drill it just tears the silicone, but Sue knew someone in biomedical engineering at the hospital and asked them how to make a vent hole. She's braver than I am; she just hands the Infinity plug (a new one) to the guy in the shop and asked if he can make a vent hole! He took a piece of metal tubing (like a straw) longer than the plug and sharpened one end with a file. Then he drilled a hole at the other end 90 degrees to the tubing and inserted a nail as a handle (looks like a big T) and started the sharp end and the top of the plug and pushed towards the base twising as it went it. The cut a perfect core of silicone out of the plug and the hole is perfect. It took a few minutes and lots of twisting, but it worked great. He likes enemas and we will be having him over for a fantasy enema session......

For retention there's nothing to beat an inflatable. I have several in different sizes which have a solid core and pump-up sheath. This makes them solid to insert and easy to pump up. For a little variation on the theme I have two which also have built in vibrators in the tapered " neck" area.

It can be quite entertaining to take subbie shopping with the controls tucked into her waistband, and observe her reaction at inappropriare times!

Sometimes it feels great after inserting your favorite butt plug to "tie it in place" with cord around you waist and back into your ass. i aways leave the front available for more play... 😃

I'd like too the choiche of using a but plug for enema session much more for domination play, but, also for asimple retention of whater, personnally i prefer the red jelly one that are more glider to insert, but are easier to plop out.Roug silicon likethe other you showed belowed are effective for the standing on but i dont like cause make me feel pain.

But it'0s ever a question of choice

One of the advantages of being a wheelchair user is that buttplugs always stay in place!

Thanks to all for these posts, I have yet to find a butt plug that is just right ...excellent suggestions!

FORGET the butt plug to retain an enema.

Use a balloon nozzle.

Susie is right. Anything that you can get in will come out. A balloon catheter expands inside the rectum to a much larger diameter than you can expel.

Silicone X-Large Double Balloon Enema Nozzle With Pumps

@heidi2011

Being new, I didn't know why people's responeses were so off. Thanks to you, I learned that some here don't really read the original post. Perhaps they are in a rush and just make a quick assumption from the Subject Title.

FWIW: Of the 13 replies, 1 Female & 3 Male assumed incorrectly. 4.5 M's & 4.5 F's did understand. I've started a list so I can skip their posts when I'm hurried.

I'm a MALE living and working as a woman. I wonder how many will read this far?

I'm the two 0.5s 😃

I have used the Tantus Tulip plug. It stays in quite nicely. 😃

The super big end – butt plug from Doc Johnson real good one

I find I can keep most any plug in place by wearing a tight panty girdle.

Does anyone know of a plug you could wear for most of the day that will not come out when least expected? All the ones I try are too big or have too much that remains un- inserted. PJ

There are a lot of different plugs available from the internet and lots of reviews. Just search for anal toy and you should be able to find some that work for you. I like the high quality of the Tantus toys and enjoy the Tantus Ace.

Beads will stay in well usually, just have to find a way to make it less visible through your clothes

Some people love them others not but seeings how most place's sell a introduction to anal play set with lube and sometimes even a couple pairs or a plug for rather cheap you really won't be out much if you don't like them. As for ether pulling them out slow or fast that u just have to play around with tell u figure out how YOU like them my old lady enjoys having them slowly pushed in one at a time as we screw then just as she cum's to have them ripped out hard and fast were as i enjoy both slowly having them put in and slowly removed one by one as she sucks me off its a to each there own kinda thing.

You won't know till you try.

Tantus Ryder is 4 1/2 " x 1 1/2" @widest point. Goes in easily, comfortable to wear for extended periods. My personal favorite and as a sex toy seller, I have tried many different plugs and toys. It is made of silicone and will last a long time and you should never have an allergic reaction to it. All Tantus toys are silicone. Always use a water based lube. Silicone lube will break down silicone toys.

Good luck and have fun.

Hi, just posted a bit of my experience with this under the Heavy Metal Butt Plug thread. After quite a few years of experimenting - trial and error, and a few bucks too-- I found a good plug worth sharing about. Definitely built to travel without any hassle or accidents. plugsforfun.com