My wife's vagina

My wife has what I think is a large vagina. She's in her early 30's, fairly slim and has never given birth. Her opening is long and wide. She has very prominent labia that hang down noticably. I can't imagine her doctor not commenting to her about it's size. She told me it's always been big ever since she started going through puberty. I've always wondered if it being like it is has more to do with heredity or something else. I would appreciate any insight you might have. I've often wondered if she's ever embarrassed to have doctors and nurses see it opened up when she's on the examinating table.

Doctors won't say anything about pendulous labia or a long "slit" just to comment on size. They don't say anything about a man's large penis either. If it isn't pathologic, they won't say anything about your genitalia. It isn't professional. It isn't like them saying something like "how do you manage to do your daily activities with inch long fingernails" or liking your hairdo. If your wife asks her doctor about a vaginoplasty or labioplastty, then, they will say something, but not before.

There is as much variation in vaginas (actually NOT visible from the outside) labia, clitorises, and the mons as there are in penises and scrotums. They all come from exactly the same embryonic tissues. You just haven't seen them all.

Thank you for your informed response.I really didn't think a doctor might comment on it but I'm sure they must think about it. Anyway, I appreciate your comments and I'm sure there is as much variation in vagina size and shape as there are in men's penises. I'm sure she's probably a little selfconcious about it though. I know I am about the small size of my penis at times. I guess were're the odd couple in that respect. What my question really relates to is do you think it's more a matter of heredity or something else that might be the cause of her labia being so big and long? Men certainly can't change the size of their penises from over use but I was wondering if the same thing held true for women.

There is reconstructive surgery for a large vagina. remember in the book The Godfather? She liked being merged with Sonny because she was SO big and he was so big. In the book she gets such a surgery. There is such a thing. You can look it up on the web.

Every girl is different down there, they're as different as faces. There's no need to think about surgery, there's nothing wrong with her. Why not just love her the way she is? It doesn't sound like she's 'big' to me, as you say, the problem might be that you've got the opposite problem.

That's telling him Joanne!!!

Joanne, Nicloe....you're both reading my question the wrong way I think. I'm definetly NOT complaining at all.Perhaps I should have been more clear about that. I love her just like she is...in EVERY respect. I was just curious about the causes....that's all. And bye the way, I do have a small penis. She's a mouthfull and I'm certainly not. We're sort of the odd couple in that respect I guess. Thanks for both of your responses.

I like women with large vaginas. I simply like seeing a large gaped out hole. The woman I am examining has a huge vagina. The opening is just really large. She is on the curvy side, but not fat. She does have large, firm breasts, though. Anyone else into women with stretched out holes?

HI,

I prefer to play with larger vagina.........it is easier and you have less risk to hurt.

But you have to be considered that larger meand less sensations during sex.

About the labia, according to my experience there are lot of difference among women. If your wife feel good with long labia should be OK for you also.

Doctors and nurses will never be embarassed for that

It's interesting how things change.

From speaking with men older than 50, I learned that in the 1960's and 70's to have it said that your vagina was "tight" was a bit of an insult. Men I've spoken to wanted a looser vagina, which supposedly meant the woman was more experienced and relaxed during sex than a woman who was described as tight. Nowadays, it seems most men like a tight pussy, to fuck, anyway.

I'm a long time freelance photographer, specialising in Glamour. Over the years I've seen thousands if vulvas and never two the same. Position of anus relative to vulva is also highly variable from .5" to 3" apart. Would be boring if they were made to a pattern!

Unless a situation might interfer with health or well being, the attending physician would never bring it up unless your wife did.

The vaginal surgery referenced above is called a vaginoplasty, if i remember correctly.

If it bothers her then seek a medical professionals opinion on her options. Nothing to be ashamed of as all of us are different "anatomically" in our own way.

I had a girlfriend in college before I met my future wife, who had huge external genitalia. It was really fun and i miss it quite a bit. My girlfriends have been mostly asian and average or small external parts, but this girl had some serious goodies. Part of the excitement was she was pretty pale, and very small, so it made her genitalia seem really large in comparison I suppose...big pinkish brown knots of flesh all wrinkled up (um, sorry, not sure how explicit one can get here?). I mean, it was comparable to some BBW who have lots of sexy fleshy junk, but in a short slim girl.

Downside? Well, we weren't meant for each other, and she had an incredibly strong smell when she got aroused that was apparently pretty tough on everyone she'd ever dated. We tried nutralization with various things, douches, etc. I sort of got used to it, but not completely.

But seriously, it was a very hypertophied but sexy thing to see...having it draped over one's face as she riggled around was incredible. She'd have made a great porn actress, with that unique vagina.

Having been in OB-GYN for many yrs I can say it is a rare pt. who has complaints about the size or appearance of their external genitalia. I have seen some genitalia that if it were mine I might have concern, but I would never make any comments unless the patient brought it up

Having seen a lot of vaginas during my career. I have to agree with Switchablesusie

There is as much variation in vaginas (actually NOT visible from the outside) labia, clitorises, and the mons.

I think when women are younger they are a bit curious and concerned about how the vaginal appears when compared to their friends, the same applies to the male penis and scrotum. But I think as you get older and more in tune with your bodies it becomes less of an issue for most, their will always be a few that will not like the appearance. I believe at a lot of it has to do with magazines like playboy which seem to always have the perfect vagina ( after airbrushing).

. . . .I believe at a lot of it has to do with magazines like playboy which seem to always have the perfect vagina ( after airbrushing).

I think Playboy tends to pick the women with perfect "clam" vaginas because what I have seen on their television channel are only perfect clam vaginas. I think they pick them for that characteristic so they don't have to do much photoshopping in their magazine and I don't know if they could even fix it in their videos. In the lower quality mags and pornos, there is a greater variety of normal female genitalia.

I personally find all the differences in women's vagina's fascinating. I actually prefer inner lips that are larger and more pronounced. The feel is great, both with your fingers and during sex. I dated a women in collage who had very large inner lips who also had a very strong smell, I loved it!! Such a huge turn-on, I really miss it. I feel sad when I hear stories about women having them removed because everyone is unique and that is what makes us human! Everyone is beautiful in their own way! It seems the media always tries to "brainwash" us into believing what they want us to believe is "normal".

In my experience, every woman's labia etc. are different and unless there is something medically necessary I would think it would be inappropriate for a doctor to mention it without the patient asking first. Enjoy the variation, but if it is something that bothers you (her) then feel free to change things up 😃

It generally different for each and every women.There is nothing wrong to complain.If you both not ok with it , you can consult dr. My ex girlfriend has similar type of genitilia. we both loved it.

I remember some friends of my mothers coming over once for lunch. This woman's daughter was young and had taken an EPT that came out positive for pregnant. She had not been to the doctor yet because she was shy. Okay my mom is very straight and old fashioned. My mom said,"don't worry about it. There is nothing the doctors haven't seen before. Besides we all look alike down there". I thought I was going to choke. Thank goodness she didn't ask me to back her up on that. Me being a nurse and also I love other women. The truth is we are all not the same down there. A doctor is not going to say anything at all. I had a girlfriend who was a dancer and had large labia's. She was thinking about labiaplasty because she had a problem keeping them hidden in her G-string. But she decided not to. I liked them anyway. So enjoy what she has. Unless it bothers her leave it alone. Just my take on it.

I doubt very much if it is hereditary Allen. I have been with mothers and daughters who were built quite differently in the vaginal area and my father had quite a large penis and my brother did too, whereas mine is smaller by comparison. All just luck of the draw I think.

I suppose that the inner labia are not too long until the woman can tie them into a knot. (I actually saw an old video - early eighties - where an otherwise average sized woman did this. She said, "I'm long, too", and proceeded to tug on her labia and tie them into a simple knot!) I found this to be unique, but not unpalatable in any way; I love women. Just think if she were your consort, what a skill to get a party rolling!

A doctor would not consider long labia a deformity, but it bothers some patients. If it bothers the patient the GYN can do minor surgery to reduce the labia by excising the excess tissue. Only if the patient desires it.

I think my wife’s exam fetish started with our family doctor putting more than two fingers in her. I had come in from work and she started telling me about her trip to the Dr. about her chronic low back pain. It had progressively gotten worse after our third child was born. She said that he did a pelvic and thought her uterus had fallen to an extent and was pulling on the ligaments in her back. He put what I think was called a pessary in her to lift the uterus back into position. She has a relatively small vagina considering she has had three vaginal births. She said it felt like he was pushing his whole hand in her at times. She knew it he wasn’t but knew it was three or more fingers at times. She said he had to re-lube once and had to work at it for several minutes to get it in place. Then he had her stand and felt the position with her legs bowed as she squatted. Then had her walk around the room and reexamined her standing. One of these times he had her place one foot on a stool the other flat on the floor while he felt the position of the devise. She left the devise in place for a couple of days and it helped the back pain. Within a couple of weeks she had a partial hysterectomy to remove the uterus. I vowed then I never wanted to miss another exam!!! I have had to but I try not to! I would have loved watching this particular exam, but having her tell me all the details as she did makes it one of my favorites anyway! This has been twenty years ago, now she fifty one. I ask her the other day if the nurse was in there with them and she said she didn’t think so, she wasn’t sure. In those days in our rural clinic he didn’t have a nurse with him when he did an exam on several occasions. This just makes it better in my mind, he was and still is a family friend.

I like big vagina!

It makes no difference what size vagina a woman has. Men need to learn to manipulate what she has to give her maximum sexual pleasure.