How to tell your wife you want to give her a medical exam

How do i tell my wife i want to perform a medical exam on her

Tell her you both shoul add some salt & pepper to your sexual life and that playing doctor is something that even children do and that's erotic cause it'a a domination reoleplay and it's harmeless. good luck

I would tell her during foreplay that it would turn you on to do some role play. Tell your wife your fantasy, and tell her you will act out one of her fantasies as well. Your wife my find that she enjoys you examining her if it leads to some good orgasms.

It depends on the relationship you have with your wife. I have a fantasy of having the exam performed on me for hours with all the equipment but also find it difficult to explain this to my boyfriend. You never know your wife may like the idea. Let me know what you decide x 😉

Telling her you want to do some role play is a good way to start. Then suggest a doctors & nurses theme.

You might just be surprised by your wife's response when you finally ask her. I know I was. Honesty is best. Worst she can say is no, right.

Tel her that you have dreamed a very intrigous situation, then manage her behavior.

good luck

Tell her you have a surprise for her, and set up all of the instruments you will need. Get her a little tipsy and then lead her to the bedroom. Sit her down and show her the instruments. Then tell her exactly what you're going to do. If she is hesitant, tell her to relax and that you're going to be really gentle. Also tell her that you think she will enjoy it too. Be sure and make it pleasurable for both of you.

My wife accepts my fantasy but she don't like, the firt time i told her about this she said "No" but bit a bit i finally do it.

I think, the best way is still just to say. Of course, it is better to ask in the moments of best intimacy. My wife liked the idea VERY much and even bought some equipment (stetoscope, vaginal mirrors).

If she would not like - not a problem. I hope you will not make her to do things she does not like. But it is also a question of your relations and your both development. If the first try is not successfull, later you can return to the suggestion. We tried with my wife different plays. Some of them she liked, some of them not. Some of them we tried not from the first time.

Possibly small surprise even can turn her on. But anyway, the best way is to be open, gentle and have patience.

During foreplay you could start "examining" her brests and vaginal area and if she likes it keep progressing and talk to her about it. If she dosen't like it, it may be a good sign that she may not enjoy it.

Good advice. I'll try this too and let you all know how t goes.

Two girlfriends refused, two enjoyed the idea, another asked for the exam while I massaged her breast.

Before opening up the instrument case.... I would seduce your wife, lay her on the bed, and slip on a pair of latex gloves and proceed to 'examine' her most intimate parts. Take your time, and tell her how wonderful she feels, get her to lay on her back with her knees up, with her bottom towards the edge of the bed, you kneel on the floor, and 'Worship' her sex. Believe me, she will be more open to any further investigations if they are all as centred around her own pleasure than yours. You must only concentrate on her arousal, get a mirror, show her , her swollen labia, tell her what you love about her pussy. show her how wet she is by showing her your slick fingers after they have been deep inside her.

Next time, say you have another idea how to make it more intense for her, she will be intrigued and more than likely agree to more. Say you want to listen to her heart, listen to how excited she is, cold steel of the stethoscope on her nipples, will drive her wild. Be calm, assertive, Ok, Breathe in....and out.... then push two fingers deep inside her whilst you listen to her excitement, Maybe wear a mask to add to the mystery, dim the lights except for a spotlight on her pussy. You stay dressed, in scrubs perhaps, She will be aroused by your erection and precum, dribbling and staining your scrubs....but take it slowly, only pleasure her at first,resist the urge to touch your cock, remember, you are a doctor, a professional..x she will soon want to return the 'favour' she wont be able to resist. Take it from there.

Good Luck

I think the most important past to introducing someone to medfet would be to have a frank conversation sometime when you're both relaxed. And in my experience, it may be best to bring up new sexual fantasies outside of the bedroom so your partner doesn't feel overwhelmed or pressured.

No doubt in my mind, if I wasn't already into it, what nnnurse69 suggested in her post (Sep 23, 2008, 16:16:07) would certainly make me more receptive as a newbie.

Hello, perhaps I'm only supposed to reply to the OP??

My wife tends to be passive, but greatly enjoys any physical attention to her body - that is, with the exception of her rectum and anus. I had hoped she'd get over it, but many years have passed with no change in sight. I've always bent over backward to avoid causing her any discomfort. She's even put off by the gentlest touching on the outside.

She twice suggested anal copulation (and seemed to tolerate it well), but I suspect she had ulterior motives for keeping me away from the other area.

I'm a man of modest experience, but I've never come across another woman who didn't love to have her ass played with. And I've read that this is the norm.

I've always loved making (and buying) "furniture" and sundry devices to expose my wife's vulva and subject it's innermost parts to excrutiating pleasures. She has never complained or objected in any way, and has often said how much she enjoyed this or that particular procedure.

For some strange reason, at this point in my life, all of my lust is directed toward my wife. It drives me crazy that I can't have my way with her ass, but I don't really want anyone else's.

Sometimes I think she's turned off by the possibility that some small amount of excrement may find it's way into the picture. But she's equally adamant in her opposition to enemas, and (as I said) any stimulation of the anus, even when no penetration is planned - even by the most delicate of instruments. I love to require her to spread her buttocks until the anus is beautifully exposed. Even this she finds very difficult. She doesn't like to call attention to it in any way.

For me, on the few occasions when I've had my finger inside, it's been the most heavenly experience. Once, when she was asleep, I was able to insert it fully without waking her. So, you see, it's not a question of discomfort. Only plain stubbornness.

Do you think her bahavior is anomolous? Or am I doing something wrong?

“Do you think her behavior is anomalous? Or am I doing something wrong?”

- I can’t answer that question but I wonder this; if she was really asleep? Do you think she could have been faking it?

I do this with my girlfriends all the time. they enjoy examining me

If your lovemaking currently uses sex toys or vibrators for stimulation you could suggest that this is just another foreplay option except you will be doing an "erotic" exam

Ok ask her! 😁

Ask her how it went next time she goes for her gyno, check out how she acts ( body language and such ) then bring up the idea of her just doing the same to you so you can understand better, take it from there, if she does give you one then your open to take it to the next level, or maybe she might let you do it while she explains what is to come next while you examing her, good luck with this it worked for me DOC 😎

Just like that is good.

Just wondering if Mr Shy has had any luck with getting the wife on board ? Doc 😎

So many of us seem to cream our panties at the first memories of playing doctor..(especially naughty or taboo doctor patient games) that I wonder if your wife has too.........

You might suggest accompanying her on her next pelvic exam. That should generate enough conversation to broach the subject. Good luck.

Perhaps you could start with some simple things at the house such as latex exam gloves and ky jelly?

For these sort of fantasies it's a good idea to be specific about what aspect turns you on. I've found that most of the apprehension comes from a lack of understanding.

good luck!

Lack of understanding is one thing. Another aspect is to point out that this play is indeed a fascination for her as a sexual person, and not just relatet to objects and acts incidently involving her.

I love to perform medical exams in girls, auscultation and blood pressure. I have a really good sexual life with my girlfriend and is based in communication and confidence.

In one occasion we started talking about sexual fantasies and based on this confidence I explained her that I like very much to play doctors. She accepted it and now she allows me to auscultate her and take his blood pressure (no gyno, I don´t like it).

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