My Fantasy

My child birth fantasy would involve me giving birth in a very sterile, hospital environment, perhaps the OR with the bright lights shining down. It would be long and painful with a lot of pushing and definitely a large tear or episiotomy as the baby comes out.

Katie80

Katie, I am guessing this is your fantasy because you are not a mother first of all, and if you are you were sectioned. Because no woman wants to have a long and painful laboring process, do a lot of pushing, or better yet a large tear or episotomy cut..

But hey, it's your fantasy, so have at it sister. But I gotta tell ya, anyone whos ever been through those things will think you are totally whackd out of your mind, but to each their own no?

Mashie

Mashie--No, I am not a mother. And that's right...it is a fantasy. To be honest, anybody who doesn't have the particular fetish that those of us on this board have would think all of us are "whacked out of our minds."

I don't think it's whacked out to have fantasies about real-world scenarios when they are stated as fantasy, which I would read to be different from what someone would want from the same situation if it were taking place outside the realm of fantasy. Personally I fantasise about painful injections and when doing play injections I like to (sparingly and within safe limits) use large needles and large volumes as well as positions like being over my partner's knee. When doing my medically prescribed injections I would find that position humiliating and abhorrent, and I use the smallest needles possible and make sure the injection is done very slowly to minimise pain - they are two different things and I keep them very separate. If I were to give birth I would not want a long and painful labour in the same way I would not want to be restrained while having a real gynaecological exam but it turns me on in fantasy and in play situations where such things are being recreated outside of a genuine clinical environment.

Katie80 I like the bright lights effect in particular, there's an element of sensory deprivation done in an interesting way there as the lights are so bright you can't really see what's going on. It adds to the sensory overload aspect of such a hectic situation.

No body should feel weird about having a birth fetish i don't since meeting so many new friends via different fetish sites just about pregnancy and birth.my love would be to give birth in hospital every time be locked in the stirrups shaved by midwife have a long hard labor have medical intervention by doctor cut if needed then several stitches afterwards and be kept on bed rest.

When I was in Vietnam and had to deliver there, the room was full of males; they were the 'midwives' and the doctor and the 'birth helpers', or so they were called. I was naked on a inclined chair. One male was actually behind me holding me to his front while his arms were around me massaging my belly. One at each side acting as my leg supports; another with his face between my legs assisting the delivery--he was my doctor. This is totally true and apparently the norm there, or was then. It was the most amazing mixture of childbirth pain, sexual arousal and impending motherhood emotions; I cried and groaned and took deep breaths of the gas and felt totally a woman. The men were very gentle but kept running their hands over my body like it was their property the whole time, even spending time cupping my breasts in their hands and massaging them. One birthhelper kept massaging my bare feet--reflexology he called it.

Lisa

Lisa, that sounds incredible. Thanks for sharing.

Loved your story Lisa.

Thx.

Carla

That's a great story, lisa, thank you for posting that!

My child birth fantasy involves having several hours of labor and then a c section

My childbirth fantasy involves having sex with the woman during labour making her have monster orgasms with milk leaking out of her breasts and rubbing her clitoris during labor and as she crowns with the babies head stimulating her gspot as well and making her cum hard birthing the head.

Birth Lover are you for real? Puhleeze!

My childbirth fantasy was to deliver 10 minutes after getting to the hospital, not having any pain or bleeding and not needed an episiotomy.

I guess I'm a birth lightweight!

My child birth fantasy is to be at home watching TV, in no pain at all during contractions and have my husband deliver the baby. Definetively no tearing involved, too much bleeding, complications, or unbearable pain.

Highly unlikely, so that's why it's a fantasy.

That reminds me of when Calvins father tells him where he came from in Calvin and Hobbes. From a Blue Light Special at Kmart.

My birth fantasy. I find out I am pregnant and the child is delivered to me 18:years, toilet trained, manners, education and so on, later while I am getting a mani-pedi. To each their own on fantasies, but, YUCK on childbirth. Sounds like very messy business. And painful.

Turkey1 wrote: Sounds like very messy business. And painful.

You don't understand. Childbirth fantasies are sado-masochistic fantasies. That's the whole point.

My ultimate fantasy would be to give birth in a third world country, very low tech environment, where one is treated like a piece of meat, but that there is another lady in labor on the bed next to me. She would see me and i would see her. Nightgowns pulled up to just below our chest and nurses coming in and out just to see how we are doing.

Pushing at the same time, no stirrups (or with them, depending on my mood).

Dear sccorpia - I have the same fantasy of watching the kind of birth you describe. You may like this video:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KAvl4y3nQqQ

The birth starts at 17:57. It's a birth in Armenia in a crowded hospital room where 2 mothers are in labor and 1 has given birth. The birth that is filmed is of the mother in the corner bed but the one that draws my attention is the mother in the middle bed. She pushes with her legs open and her dress pulled up to her chest, completed exposed to the nurses and the film crew who are paying attention to the delivery of the mother in the corner bed.

This is absolutely AMAZING 😃 thank you very much. i LOVE it 😃

You're welcome. What I love is that the mother in the middle bed is pushing with her legs wide open in a crowded room but nobody even seems to notice. I wish I were the cameraman - I'd be sneaking a few peeks.

I know. and the fact that everyone around the room is going about their own business. I once had a similar video and just tried to find the link to post it but i have no idea where it is.

I also like the part when everything is finished the lady in the middle is still pushing on her own

sccorpia: My ultimate fantasy would be to give birth in a third world country, very low tech environment, where one is treated like a piece of meat, but that there is another lady in labor on the bed next to me. She would see me and i would see her.

Being treated badly during birth would be awful in real life but great in fantasy life. But real life and fantasy life meet in this photo series which was posted on the laborroleplay.com forum.

http://cargocollective.com/romanpyatkovka/Maternity-hospital-1988

"The Soviet maternity hospital remained in the memory of every woman who had visited it at least once. ... Often Soviet maternity hospital plunged many into a state of shock and horror. Terrible attitude, everyone talks arrogantly, everyone's busy. No bathtub, the toilet was in a very bad condition. ... The women had to wear worn-out and somewhat torn hospital dresses and gowns. It wasn't allowed to bring any underwear from home, and other things were not welcome, either. In the pre-natal wards were up to twelve pregnant women, some of them for hours writhed and yelled in prenatal agony, and only occasionally, someone from the medical staff came to them and strictly asked to be quieter, have patience. Generally, women had to give birth without any anesthesia. ... For some reason, there was such an impression that Soviet nurses treated women in labor as if it was wartime and the woman was having a baby from some SS officer. That is, with some hatred mixed with squeamishness. For no apparent reason."

I definitely have a MedFet fetish associated with birth. Lisa, I would love to be one of those men in your story. I think giving pleasure in such an intense moment would be very erotic (although I have only seen birth through video so what do I know). Outside of the hospital seems like more fun in this case although that conflicts with my MedFed desires but maybe if I was the doctor and had the delivery room to myself to cherish and focus on my patient.

My fantasy would be to be a doctor in a third world country to deliver all those babys

It should go without saying that these are fantasies -- I'd never want to endure this in real life, nor would I ever want another woman to go through anything like this.

My most recent fantasy involves twilight sleep, a horrible practice from the 1950's and 60's where women were given a mix of drugs during labor and delivery that made them forget the whole experience. It was said to relieve pain but, in fact, the women were suffering natural labor and delivery, just too drugged out of their minds up to make any sense out of the whole thing.

I'm a young, first time mom, heavily pregnant with triplets. I arrive at the hospital in early labor, deposit my husband in the waiting room, and am shaved, given an enema, and catheterized before any medication is administered. Once the meds start to take effect, my legs are strapped into stirrups and my arms tied to the side of the bed. For the next twenty hours, I writhe and scream in agony as the contractions get increasingly stronger. It feels like by body is being ripped apart but I'm too out of it to remember my own name, much less than I'm pregnant and in labor. The nurses mostly ignore my crying and moaning, casually chatting about their weekend plans as they make sure my restraints are still in place despite my desperate bucking.

I'm in transition for almost an hour, the contractions hard and constant. At one point they put me on oxygen because I'm hyperventilating from not remembering to breathe between screams. Then I start to feel the intense pressure of needing to push, which I do for almost forty minutes before the searing pain of my first baby's head stretching my formerly tight hole hits me. It's a looooong crowning, followed by stubborn shoulders that spread me so wide I could swear my pelvis is breaking.

The second baby comes quickly, far too fast for my bruised, aching cunt hole. By the time the shoulders come out I'm sobbing in agony, pleading for the pain to end. The doctor, ready to go home, jerks the baby out too fast and causes a deep, angry tear all the way to my asshole. I whimper and moan as I wait for the final baby to come but, despite the hard contractions and my body's innate attempts to push, it doesn't. Finally the impatient doctor has had enough. He snaps on an elbow high glove and plunges his hand deep inside me.

Even drugged out my mind, this is the worst pain I've ever experienced. My poor, ravaged hole is forced to stretch even further as his fat wrist widens the tear at the bottom. My overworked cervix is still contracting even as he digs around in my uterus for what seems like hours. I'm shrieking, pleading for him to stop ripping me apart. I just know I'm about to die -- and I'd welcome it if it means an end to the agony. Finally, he tugs the baby out and, in my medicated state, I allow myself to imagine it might be over. That fantasy is quickly dashed as he pushes his hand back inside and starts digging around for the placentas. I'm shaking so hard the nurses have to hold me down as he roots around in my wrecked pussy for another 15 minutes. By the time he's done I'm almost unconscious from the long labor, the pain, the whole horrible ordeal. The last thing I hear before passing out is a nurse commenting on my bruised, gaping cunt, saying that it will definitely never be the same.

When I wake up, I remember nothing but, even with the ice packs on my poor pussy and anus, I'm in terrible pain. My insides are sore from the contractions and it feels like someone shoved something huge up there. My tits are full and aching, my arms and legs sore from pulling on the restraints. I ask every nurse I see if something horrible happened during my labor and delivery because feeling like this simply can't be right.

They all smile and pat my hand as they tell me it was a perfectly normal birth and I was such a "good girl" through the whole thing.

I'm a male and I have multiple birth fantasies I love entertaining in my mind.

The first is being with the labouring mother in an intimate home setting in which she and I are the only ones involved during the labor and I rub her clit and breasts regularly bringing her to orgasm and keeping her in a state of extasy until the baby is at the point of crowning. At which at this point, she would be nicely lubed up from cumming multiple times and I can watch her vagina bulge and crown and provide perineal support to the mother as she has more massive orgasms from the crowning baby and from it sliding out of her vagina.

The second is being the birthing mother herself and experience basically what I described in the first paragraph.

And the third Fantasy I have is a form of double penetration when the babies head is finally crowning in the womans vagina I penetrate her anally and feel the head compressing her anal canal and adding tons of pressure on my "nether regions".

Does anyone want an enema during their labor fantasy?

For women in labor, scopolamine was used. I do not think it relieved any pain but the women did not remember it. For those of us in the labor and delivery room, it was a scary experience - thrashing about, yelling and screaming. Scopolamine is not used any more.

Personally as a man I don't have a birth fetish but I have similar fantasies as those described by some here in the thread. I often fantasize about being a women and given a gyn exam, I often fantasize about being a man and being examined just like a woman in gyn chair. Perhaps my nature is somewhat bi or transgender but I wouldn't imagine myself living with man only a woman.

And i'm comfortable being of male gender however I would describe myself as an androgynous male.

Amyway it's the same thing with my surgical fantasies. In the real world I even fear an upcoming widening of the foreskin.

However for fetish reasons perhaps I would agree to being gassed like an studio and injected with a sedative in my buttocks.

But I would never want a real surgery for fetish reasons but something as close to the real thing as possible with gas anesthesia waking up with a catheter, being sedated rectally, having sedative injections in my buttocks perhaps my fetish could drive my to try such a thing given that the conditions were a 100% safe.