Bi-Manual Technique

How have/do you have it done?

Really gently? Lips spread with one hand.Then 1 finger first..maybe a small finger(female)..then 2..inserted with the other hand.?

Or..2 very large,long, thick outstretched fingers in a very well lubed gloved and just pushed right in.

Or differently?

The first play internal I did..(my g/f at the time shocked me by showing up with some rubber gloves and telling me to go and get the lube before she changes her mind..while she got undressed)((she knew I was very interested and used to pleasure me with exam info.))

She positioned herself with her bum on the very edge of the couch..pulled her knees back and laid right back.She said this was the position she was in for exams.She then told me to just stick out 2 fingers and really lube them up (she showed me how much lube to use..wow!). And to push them right up her..and not to stop..not to go really slowly or fast..just go right up. Not to stop.Just go right up.

So I did..she was very tight..it was very un-comfortable for her..but she did say her Dr had thicker,longer fingers and it was more un-comfortable.She had other Dr's examine her at later dates..some were really,really gently..inserting one finger at first..very slowly,gently.

Another "play" internal I did..different girl. I did not tell her what I was going to do.We were fooling around a bit..she was laying down..

I spread her legs a bit..pushing them back and apart. She was wet so I just spread her lips and tried to insert 2 fingers..just like I had done to the first girl..just like a Dr would. She was really loose and my fingers just slid right up really easily..no discomfort at all.

Just curious how you have had it done..maybe how you like it done?

Thank You..

What a great article, like you're description of a Bi-Manual Technique . I love to watch my wife or give her a deep slown Bi-Manual she copes well with the discomfort with some gasps and cry. But is happy for more. ?

A very interesting discussion. I am sure there is no "right" way.. it all depends on who is doing, and who is receiving, the exam I suppose.

My husband gives me my play exams. He gets 2 fingers of his right hand lubed and he parts my labia with his left hand. He puts the tip of his middle finger in first and he puts his index finger in after. He pushes his fingers right up as far as he can, nice and gently though. I do not think it feels a lot different when my real gynecologist is pushing his fingers in but of course he is wearing gloves and when my husband does it he is not wearing gloves, which just feels naughtier to me. Maybe when my husband is just pushing his fingertips in it is a lot like my real gynecologist does it but I am not sure.

So the last time I had it done, the Doctor put lube on 2 fingers and went straight in. It was very uncomfortable. This was with my real doctor. For a play exam, I would like 1 finger in slowly, and gently, then a second finger, and if diverting a little from the standard, maybe more.

Dr.H uses on hand to gently spread my labia, and inserts 2 lubed fingers in slowly. She has some long fingers as I feel he touch the tip of my cervix. She sweeps side to sids and does the standard uterus, and fallopian tubes check. The fingers comes out and she pulls a glove off he right hand (she double gloves before she starts), lubes up again, and I get the ole finger in the butt and one in the vagina...what a strange feeling!

The PA that examines my wife is a tall woman, about 5 foot 10, so she has long, slender fingers. What some would call piano playing fingers. She will use ample, but not excessive lube, and she gently parts my wife's labia and slowly but steadily inserts both fingers into her small, tight vagina simultaneously until she's all the way in. My wife has told me that it doesn't hurt, but she feels some pressure and it is uncomfortable. She says it helps her if she can focus on slow, deep breaths and relaxing her abdominal muscles and thighs.

She also gives me my physicals, and I am glad her fingers are slender. When she gives me the rectal exam, it isn't nearly as uncomfortable as when I've had male providers with thick fingers!

Slender fingers are key - my wife's obgyn has small hands and it helps a lot.

I'm lucky my doctor has quite large hands, which when he inserts his fingers to do the bi manual exam, sometimes make be gasp...worse part is when presses down on my tummy with his fingers inside me still....not keen on the rectal finger exam as he uses 2 fingers, it's ok if he has one finger in my vagina and one in my rectum but sadly that very rarely happens.