Small Penis Humiliation during Examination

Hi, is anyone have the experience that during an examination, you have to strip naked with other people. And they found you have a small penis and you feel humiliated?

In a word NO. In my 65 years and loads of exams the subject never came up.

I've had group sports physicals which involved undressing in front of the other boys and being examined in view of everyone else. But my penis size is fine, thank you, so no problem there. The group exams were embarrassing but not humiliating.

How do you know they thought your penis was small? And why would you care if other guys thought your penis was small. The only time size might be an issue is if your significant other thought it was TOO small.

Yes. At age 23 I had a exam with a new doctor and he seemed disturbed that my penis was small. Few complaints from women, especially for oral sex; they can enjoy the penis experience without choking to death. But then I'm into pleasure for me and my partner rather than domination. Works out OK. I also have my fair share of kids, so no damage there, just enjoyment.

When I was 13, I still lacked pubic hair and had a childish penis. My twin was quite the opposite with respectable bush and large penis, We were taking a summer camp physical and it came time to do the grnital exams. My brother went first. When it was my turn, the doctor said, "Okay, let's see how much hair you've got," I wanted to run away and hide, I dropped my boxers to the floor, and it seemed if on cue my penis shriveled to a nub. The doctor finished his genital exam and had me turn around and bend over so he could examine my rectum. When this was complete, I almost tripped and fell trying to get my shorts up. I just wanted to die.

I never did grow much of a penis and I'm always a bit self conscious during grnital exams. I do have two daughters to prove it got the job done. Like you I concentrate on pleasing my partner other ways than mere size.

Jupite - yes. my boyfriend went though one moment in his lifetime where two female medical professionals made comments, not knowing he was near them, where they humiliated him over his lack of size. if you're still on this forum say so, and I will write about it.

My guy told me that he once had to take an exam for some school activity and some of the other guys, who were also taking the exam, ridiculed his small penis and later gossiped to others who were not even there. He felt so humiliated afterward.

This never happened to me. No doctor ever commented my penis size. ... and other boys don´t see it, i always hide it 😃

I have experienced humiliation several times since age 16 when a Doctor made very personal comments during my pre-employment medical.

I have given the details in several similar threads about Penis size if anyone wants to read them.

I am one of the guys whose penis shrivels up and scrotum pulls up tight when the anxiety of having a physical exam sets in. It has always been a source of embarrassment when I have to lower my briefs during the exam. I am always thinking that every doctor is comparing each patient's penis that he sees to those he has seen in the past as well as his own penis. I want to measure up favorably and, regrettably, I do not. I am really envious of guys who hang long and thick when the doctor gets a look at them. When I go for a physical I always notice guys in the waiting room and like to think how they look during the genital and hernia exams.

I usually have the same issue as Exam Doc. Most of the time because of anxiety, nerves, embarrassment, or whatever, during an exam all my stuff is shriveled up and is very unimpressive. Although, there are other times that I struggle to keep from getting an erection (and don't always succeed). I seem to go from one extreme to the other. Why can't I just stay somewhere in the middle... Dang it!

Alisa T, I did have such experience.

Never been an issue

I once needed a physical for job but didn't have insurance. I went to a clinic provided by my local municipality and was examined by a female doctor who was older and possibly Russian, Polish, or some other similar nationality. When I had to get my genitals examined, she had me pull my pants down to my ankles. She snickered a bit as I stood there. When I was a kid I went to a local pool with a neighborhood kid. When we changed into our suits, he was obviously an early developer, considering that he was a couple of years younger than me. He had hair and a larger penis and made fun me because I was still hadn't hit puberty. Frankly, I haven't thought of that in years. That's about it.

Do any of the small guys get aroused if a woman humiliates you for having a small penis? Or have you ever gotten an embarrassment boner if you were found to have a small penis?

I have never had an issue during an exam, however, I have had many negative comments about my size when hard.....I think I get aroused when woman make fun of me, I think it's just the attention (good or bad).

Have the same situation as Exam Doc. Penis gets smaller and scrotum tightens up.

Never happened to me, but dunno why ppl should worry

My hubby has a perfectly normal sized erection, but when his penis is flaccid it withdraws back up into his abdomen so it looks very small.

He related it to a stallion: you don't see a stallion's penis except when it's in use. The rest of the time it withdraws up into the penile sheath, which is then the only part of the organ visible under the horse's abdomen. Actually, if you think about it, the same is true of most mammals. I read a statistic, I think in Cosmo, that about 92% of human males do NOT retract when flaccid, leaving about eight percent that do. For these guys (hubby included) there does not appear to be any relationship between flaccid length and girth and erect length and girth. Take my attestation that hubby is a totally satisfactory normal male when aroused.

He too has related the embarrassment of having the smallest endowment in class, especially after the word got out. But being the mentally resourceful fellow he is, he took a class presentation opportunity to remind his fellows about the increased performance that retractable landing gear affords an airplane. Then a couple of days later he mentioned casually to someone he knew was involved in the spreading of "the word" that he had the high-performance retractable model. Whether it convinced anyone or not, it got his endowment raised to the status of cafeteria lunch table conversation among the young ladies in his school. I think I am experiencing "retro-jealousy" about his before-I-was-born demonstrations of the phenomenon to several curious unclothed females!

Hugs,

Diane

... the embarrassment of having the smallest endowment in class, especially after the word got out.

I am always perplexed and bewildered when I hear about things like this, word getting out about a classmate's penis size ... what a bunch of gossips they must be ... it's almost a wonder that pupils survive high school without serious emotional issues ... I simply cannot recall a single instance of such kind of gossiping amongst pupils ...

I suppose it must be the communal showers I hear about so often, but never experienced myself - not in US public schools, not in US parochial schools and certainly not in Belgian high schools. I wonder if I only attended schools that didn't place an iota of importance on sports and gymnastics?

I'm with the group that when at the doctor the damn things just shrivels up to nothing. I've had a female doc for years now, and on my third female PA. No one has ever made a comment, but gosh darn it, I do feel self conscious that it can get so small. On the other hand, I did get a raging hard on that wouldn't quit while receiving a colonic from the cutest thing. But what an amazing organ that can go from nothing to SOMETHING, but can never behave itself. If only I could learn to command it at will. Often the smallest or largest at the most inopportune times.

I had to attend an ultrasound for a lump on one of my testicles and I was mortified when I went into the exam room to find it was a woman. I could feel my penis retracting in embaressment and when she told me lower my trousers and pants and lie on the couch I was so concious of not having much to show. She handled me several minutes while I was being checked over and I just wanted to leave. She never made a comment however.

I did see a GF for a while who was a nurse and she used to talk about exceptionally large or exceptionally small penises she had seen in her career and I know the other nurse would often discuss the subject (usually after a few drinks after work).

"... the embarrassment of having the smallest endowment in class, especially after the word got out."

I used to have annual exams at school in groups with a few classmates but I never had to drop my underpants in front of anyone other than the doctor - although occasionally his assistant was there too. The genital exams where always carried out in a private corner of the exam room behind a curtain.

When you name was called you went behind the curtain, removed your underpants, stood in front of the doctor (who was sat down) and let the doctor examine you, front and then back. He certainly took notice of your state of development and marked it in his records but this was kept confidential. There was no chance of the other boys seeing your dick during the exam and comparing measurements.

In the showers after sports practices was another issue though...

Same result for me. My penis always shrinks before and during the exam as does my scrotum. Annoying as hell since its difficult for the urologist to do the testicle exam.

For me it's not psychological; it's the environment. Growing up in Arizona, I'm happiest when it's about 104 outside. To me the doctor's office is like a meat locker. I'll bring in a heavy sweater in the middle of summer, but even with that, half undressed it's a sure bet my penis is going to hide in the cave. My biggest fear is that he will peek out, see his shadow and then go back inside for six more weeks of winter.

Just to get a take on people's thoughts on penis size in the medfet scenario.

I indeed have a small penis and find it affects my ability to relax in a visit to the doctor or play doctor.

I have had numerous things I've had to go to doctors, specialists and dermatologist where I've had to drop my pants. Although I kinda like it I still get embarrassed when exposing myself and wish I'd had that extra inch or two.

I had/ have a tight foreskin and went to get a semi circumcision after nurses and consultant had been round to consult, it was time for the op, last thing I remember was a young cute operating nurse standing over me saying everything will be fine and gave me a grin and wink!!!! All that could go through my mind was OMG he's going to see how small I am!!

Another time was when I had to get and ultrasound on my testicles, as they were inflamed and they thought was from previous condition,there was a doc and student, the doc had at first tried to hold my penis away whilst moving the pen roller type thing, he was struggling so said maybe best I do it, I was embarassed as still to this day I don't know if he meant cause it was too small.

There has been many more situations but don't want to bore you.

Does anyone else suffer from this??

There has been many more situations but don't want to bore you.

Does anyone else suffer from this??

I am a major "grower" when it comes to size and appearance of penis and scrotum. When erect, I am close to 8" length and almost 6" in girth. When flaccid and I am in a relaxed state of mind it hangs at a pretty nice size, probably 3-4" with the balls hanging nicely. It is circumcised and the head is big which contributes to a pretty respectable package. When I become anxious, as I do during physicals, the penis shrivels to less than 3" and the girth and size of the head become smaller too. Probably the most dramatic feature that changes is the shrinking of the scrotum to almost nothing so that the balls are almost up inside the groins. This makes a pretty embarrassing genital package for a tall slender guy with large hands and feet.

When I become anxious, as I do during physicals, the penis shrivels to less than 3" and the girth and size of the head become smaller too. Probably the most dramatic feature that changes is the shrinking of the scrotum to almost nothing so that the balls are almost up inside the groins. This makes a pretty embarrassing genital package...

Yeah, I can relate to that. When I'm nervous for a full physical, the most embarrassing issue I have is the shrinkage of my scrotum. Just as you described it, it's as if my balls are pulled way up inside me and it looks like I don't have a scrotum (or balls) at all. Very embarrassing. Add to that the shrinkage of my penis, and you've got an embarrassing exam.

Over the last few years, I've taken a Viagra (actually Cialis now) prior to the exam and I have to say that it does help. Maybe it's just a confidence booster, but the fact that my penis is much longer and thicker during the exam makes me feel better. No, I'm not trying for an erection, I just want to appear better than I previously did when everything was shriveled up. And for some reason, my balls and scrotum don't seem to disappear anymore either. I don't know how that all works due to the Viagra/Cialis, but it does. YMMV of course.

I have a small penis and was always terrified of group exam situations. Growing up, I had group exams for PE class but luckily they never required nudity and boys just took their shirts off.

When I turned 18, I had a group exam for military service in Brazil, but again I got lucky and didn't get naked, just stripped down to my underwear.

My luck changed when I started college and had not one but two group exams that required full nudity. We were required to take two semesters of a chosen sport and there was a mandatory physical exam for each. The signs said girls had to wear swimsuits but said nothing about boys and I had heard rumors we had to get naked.

It was a surreal experience to be completely naked in a room with several other guys but it certainly helped that I was more mature at the time and didn't know the guys.