As a starter, I did a "massage appointment" scenario where I sent my wife a pretend "massage coupon" in the mail. She made an "appointment" for a Friday night, and I had her pretend she drove to the appointment. I set up a massage table and lit candles, and put on relaxing music. When she "arrived", I introduced myself as a 26 year old graduate student who was doing this at night to make extra money, although she was playing herself. Beforehand, I told her to pretend it was an actual appointment, and I said she should act naturally. As the masseuse, I told her to disrobe, put on her bathrobe, and wait on the table. I came back and told her to lie down on her stomach and remove her robe, after which I quickly covered her butt with a towel, trying to protect her modesty. As the massage progressed, I gradually moved the towel until her butt was fully exposed. I then asked her if it was OK, and if she wanted her gluteus muscles massaged. She said "yes" and I continued with a massage of her butt and legs, during which I tried to test my limits by letting my hands occasionally "wander" between her legs. About 45 minutes into the massage, I asked her if she wanted a massage of the front part of her body, and she said "I guess so". I again tried to protect her modesty by covering her breasts and "pussy", but the towels were gradually moved away, at which point I exclaimed "I'm sorry", and she said it was OK. Finally, I started massaging her breasts and abdomen, as well as her "pussy", and I eventually brought her to orgasm, although I didn't ask for anything in return (being in character as the masseuse). Afterwards, I reassured her and told her we were just pretending and having fun. So if your partner is reluctant to role play, give this a try first. They will at least enjoy the massage, and who knows, maybe you can progress to a pretend doctor's appointment.