Role play during exam. How elaborate do you go?

In addition to discussing what procedures you're going to do during a play exam does anyone set up role play scenarios? I know the whole thing is role play but how elaborate do you choreograph things? My partner likes a fairly scripted out scenario. Like who I'm supposed to be who he is why am I seeing him and so e general parameters around how we're going to act. It's all mutually agreed on before so there are no 'bad' surprises. We were both into theater at one point so it adds to the fun for us. Anyone else like that?

Having a well thought out scene can be a good idea for some because it makes you do a lot of things and you don't forget things you would like to do, especially if you're not good at improvising.

For others, a totally scripted scene cramps their style.

The more detailed and realistic the role play, the more enjoyable :+)

I like to have a general idea of what the doc plans for our exam, but otherwise generally go with the flow.

Having a script is helpful so the Dr. does not miss any elements. Using a checklist simulates a practitioner's memorized step-by-step procedure. After the intros, dr. should conduct a medical history q and a of the "patient" then the actual placement on the exam table. Then proceed with checklist items.

I like play exams to be really strictly scripted. I published three exam scripts my examiners use in our play sessions. If anyone is interested, the scripts are located in the Pondering Play Exams section of this site. I like for my play exams to help me remember real exams in detail so the scripts are exact duplications of real exams I have had.

I've never done any in-person role playing, but I have done some playing online. It seems to me that I wouldn't want to just show-up and have someone start examining me. I would want to establish a back story -- who am I, who is the doctor, why am I there, what problems am I having that require seeing a doctor, is the doctor nice or mean, am I nervous, apprehensive, embarrassed -- what. All of that would make it much more realistic for me. And the back story would also provide realistic reasons for how different parts of the exam might be done. For example, if I'm a new prisoner, then some restraints and a full cavity examination makes sense. If I'm a new employee there for my initial physical, then the exam would be different than one in which I'm a teenager there for a sports exam.

I guess deep down I'm a story teller. Call it a story or a scenario, but I would want one.

I like role playing before, during, and after the appointment to make it as realistic as possible. I also like developing a back story so that there are no awkward moments in the scenario, but I also like leaving some creative discretion to the participants so that there are surprises, and so it won't feel too scripted.

On occasion, I have used a script to prepare for a session. It is more of an outline than a true script, in that I don't drill down to small details. I like to have the freedom within the script to improvise and play off the reactions of my patient as the role play develops. I always discuss the proposed scene with my play partner and occasionally, she has some good suggestions that we incorporate.

With one of my former play partners, we scripted a whole weekend, with an initial ER visit, followed by a hospital admission. We scripted the various tests and treatments, but left room to incorporate what surprises might come up in such a scene,

I always encourage my patients to have some sort of scenario or script, but if too rigid, then it seems to take away from the fun and surprises. I think that when patients are able to have their exams the way they want them to be and the direction they would like them to go, makes for a very happy experience for both patient and doctor.

Here is a form about examins

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Even filling out a form would be helpful. It is kind of hot filing out the questions.

I always like to have an approximate scenario discussed before a medfet exam. That way one can determine what procedures might be most exciting and what procedures she may not wish to experience.

I love role play and really enjoy getting into it.Sometimes I like to set a scenario and other times just make it up as we go along. I like to role play exams I or the other person has had , so I remember every detail.

How does the exam typically end? I have not had the pleasure of a full role-play - just little bits mixed in here and there. Do you cleanup and go your separate ways? I have also wondered how the speculum exam works - you insert it and then just take it out and move on?

Mine end in various ways .Some end when I get dressed and collect my prescription, Some with sex with the doctor,some with the husband /wife having sex on the exam table.The end is usually discussed because sometimes both parties want relief other times I want a very clinical exam.A lot depends on my mood .

The speculum exam I insert my own and then remove it once that part of the exam is over.If I don't use it for whatever reason I just imagine it.

I like my scenarios very elaborate, but not scripted. I like my patients to have very genuine reactions to what I tell them I'm going to do or actually do. But it definitely adds something to the fantasy if all the people involved seem like real people with complete legends and there is a true sense of verisimilitude. I actually have a whole persona as a play doc, and it's like becoming a completely different person in that mode.

It all depends on who I am playing with and what role. If I have a clinically astute patient, we start with a complaint and then as I do the history and physical, she will act accordingly. When I order tests, she will give me the results. Then it's off to treatment. Sometimes, depending on how I'm feeling, I tell her the results 😃

If I'm the patient, I prefer that the doctor tell me what the results are - and treat me accordingly.

Yes sometimes but like it fllow as the rp progresses its more fun that way but it's just my opinion

My one stipulation is getting painful buttock injections and my favourite scenario is bending over the lap of an attractive receptionist for them.

I would like my exam to be well thought and discussed.

I like to plan things out in advance. My partner and I will get together and talk about what sort of scenario we want to do. We have many different scenarios that we have gone through, such as a routine physical, first trip to the gynecologist, or a patient visiting the doctor because of some problem. After deciding upon a scenario to roleplay, we then gather all the necessarily equipment and try to make it as realistic as possible.

I only play online, and it is very important for me to set up a scene in detail. It's very distracting and throws you out of the fantasy when suddenly your play partner throws out something totally different from what you were thinking.

Additionally, I love using play exams as an outlet for simulating past real experiences and for acting out fantasies. In those cases, it's great to be able to explain your "vision" up front to make sure that you and your play partner are thinking along the same lines and can work together to give each other what they want out of the scene.

When playing online in a text-based scene, what you're really doing is telling a story together. The right amount of structure is good and helps to keep it cohesive. Not enough structure and you and your partner are all over the place - too much structure and you might as well just write a story yourself.

I haven't had the pleasure yet, but I would like to talk to my role play examiner especially if I haven't met them before in detail what he Is going to do and what I want to have done. I think I would feel more comfortable that way. We could discuss various scenarios and procedures. Go through what may or may not be done, and what will definitely be done. After that I would like for the practitioner to take control of the appointment.

It all depends on who you are playing with. The SO, we know each other so we really don't need to talk about much before we go and play. Someone new, it is worth talking about past exams, which if she is into medfet, is often fun for her, and kind of use that as a roadmap. I will admit that sometimes I don't go over everything, as in an initial exam you are still getting to know each other and there is no basis for trust at that point, and some things may sound a bit scary. For example I might not mention an anoscope up front. However, if she responds positively to digital rectal exam, and by than there is some trust built up, I might suggest that we should take a look up there. By than she has an idea of how rough or gentle I am, and how sensitive to her discomfort that I am etc, and I am much more likely to get a positive response than by asking up front. Of course no is always and acceptable answer as well, and if she did not respond well or seem to enjoy a digital rectal exam, I probably would not even bother asking, at least not for that session.

Depends. For online play I usually like to have a background/ setting agreed upon beforehand to ensure it's enjoyable for both parties.

My experiences with live play have had less structure and it's been mostly left up to the doctor/ dominant partner to decide how they want to conduct the appointment

Molly,

I agree with you, especially for somebody new, its good to know what to expect; to me, it is all about safety...

With experienced play partners who understand one another's wants and needs, that may not be a necessity for the obvious reason.

Communication is GOOD in most any area of life.

My girlfriend and I in adolescence shared a fetish for buttock injections (both giving and getting). Throughout the preliminary examinations when playing doctor, therefore, we always knew that the session would end by bending over or rolling over in bed for shots in the bare bottom realistically simulated with sterile pins. The apprehension of knowing what would eventually happen was always frighteningly thrilling for both of us.

Nurse Phillips, I do similar. As the result, me with my partner have few standart settings, and arrange to play one of them. Sometimes can place concret scenario elements, such as "When I'll say X, you must answer Y"