Just found a great product, crushed ginger found at Trader Joe's. It comes in a jar and is the consistency of pudding. No messy peeling or wasted time. Insert a well-coated finger in your partner's anus, slide it in and out a few times, then repeat with more ginger on your finger.
Don't forget to hold your partner's cheeks tightly together, it increases the sensation. Use it as a lube on a douche nozzle, dildo, or vibrator. It's a very stimulating sensation with no after-effects. The wonderful burning-like sensation subsides with no irritation. Try it, you will like it.