I just got a prostate massage from my wife the other day. She had a glove on and we used lots of neosporin as lube. She put two fingers in and I asked for three. I "suggested" I'd come innocently across pictures on the internet of people using their whole hands... she just shook her head at me in disbelief.. (sigh) It's gonna take a loonngg time.
Oh yeah, the orgasm was still deep and strong, and left me gasping on the couch my belly covered in goo..
Don't push your wife too hard. She might be scared to insert her whole hand/fist into your rectum.
This is something im probably too scared to tryI have difficulty with a dick lol also, wouldnt this be damaging?
Fisting can potentially tear the anal ring even in people who have done it before. Consider this: If you had never done a split, like in gymnastics, and someone put you into position and pushed you to the floor, you would have a lot of torn muscles in your legs, not to mention excruciating pain. Reparative surgery would likely be needed.
Surely she can take more than 1 finger. 2 would have to be a minimum. You just have to slowly work up from 2 to 3 and so forth. Make sure she is VERY wet. If not, break out the lube.
Don't wait to bring out the lube. Lather her up with tons of it even before you start. By the way, while some women love to have your penis inside them during sex, they don't feel comfortable having more than one finger inside when you are just fingering their pussy. The shape of an erect penis isn't the same as two or three fingers, and not every woman likes that sensation.
Hi, Pussyfistin makes my woman soak all over the bed. We do it as often as time permits. Assfistin is more difficult. Here we only succeed from time to time. One has to be very patient and work a lot to get a whole hand up the rectum. That goes for her as for me. Most times we only make it with three or four fingers
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Three or four fingers is great if that is what makes you feel good. The whole point of making insertions into the body is to do what feels good to each person, not to see how much you can force inside. I've said earlier in this thread that I have fisted men and women both anally and vaginally, and been fisted anally and vaginally by women and men with small hands, but never by my husband because his hands are just too big. It doesn't make me love sex any less with my husband because of it. We do what feels good to each other (except maybe in a corporal S&M scene, but even they have limits).
just thinking out loud...and reading about "fisting"...my question is obvious...isn't there a significant risk of injury to both channels? ???
Potential risk, yes, significant risk, well, it depends how forceful you are in making the insertions. The person getting the insertion MUST listen to his or her body and not proceed when that voice inside your head tells you it isn't a good idea. Getting a whole fist into the anus will take some pressure on the part of the giver, but when either party feels it is too much force, you must back off.
There, I've put my two cents in again.