Speculum exam at home

How often do you ladies receive a speculum exam at home by husband or SO?

inquisitive

My husband looks at me with a speculum once or twice a month now. He does it a few days after the end of my cycle.

Amethyst, thanks for the response.

Hard to believe you are the only female wishing to respond.

I'd like to hear from others being examined with a speculm at home and the frequency of the exams.

From time to time I use a speculum to examine my wife at home.

I am single but I have a collection of speculum's that I use to examine myself. I have a full length mirrored wall alongside my bed that I use to view myself with a very bright lamp.

Otherwise I get examined anyway very regularly in real life by my urologist and gastrointestinal Dr .

Nikki

Do the ladies ask their husbands and SO's to do the speculum exam or does the partner initiate the exam? How does this work?

For me it is hard to give an exact answer. I have a partner and sometimes out of the blue she will want to look inside. Sometimes I have started it. It sometimes happens just by talking about it. What I mean is that if a doctors visit is brought up and the girl says she hates it. I may ask her if she has ever looked inside another girl. Or tell her it can be erotic. All this usually leads to it happening. Once they know that you own speculums they become curious.

Do the ladies ask their husbands and SO's to do the speculum exam or does the partner initiate the exam? How does this work?

I just show my speculum to him and he knows I want him to do it.

^^^ So naturally he accomodates & "fills the bill" so to speak. 😁

The short answer: not often enough.

La Fille, how would the long answer read?

@inquisitive Well....the long story would look something like this:

I would have the opportunity to explore my medfet on a regular basis, including frequent, thorough pelvic exams....sometimes they would be completely kosher - check all the elements off the list - visual exam, speculum, PAP, bimanual, DRE, check, check, check, done, game over, nothing untoward happening here. Other times, it would be slow and sensual and borderline inappropriate with a longer manual exam, maybe the wrong size speculum, a more thorough bimanual, a prolonged DRE- perhaps a more thorough look is needed and a rectal speculum is needed..... And of course, other times it would be completely inappropriate bordering on assault or rape....what starts out as a perfectly normal exam quickly transforms to needing restraints, a forceful speculum exam, breast play, forced penetration by the "doctor". Shall I continue? 😉

Unfortunately, these versions don't often make an appearance in my life. But when they do, it's perfection. Absolute perfection.

Can anyone suggest a good type of speculum for beginners at home ? Any certain types ?

Can anyone suggest a good type of speculum for beginners at home ? Any certain types ?

Yeah I got a Collins. A member who is a nurse recommended it as a good first one because it is easy to use and it does not need to be turned. I really like it and I am thinking about getting a Graves as well now.

How often do you ladies receive a speculum exam at home by husband or SO?

The answer to that would be "occasionally," maybe once a month or so. I also like the collins and I have the large and small. The graves is more clinical to me because you hear the clicking and ratcheting sound of the bills, but the collins is more smooth operation.

For us, the use of the speculum is more of an S&M device than a med-fet one. For example, one thing my husband likes to do is place leather cuffs on my ankles and use ropes to hoist my legs/ankles about two feet above the bed by attaching them to the ceiling hooks above the bed. One VERY hot time in a scene, he forcefully raped me, raised my legs up, put in the speculum and then told me he was going to look at his semen inside my vagina--and he proceeded to leave the wide open speculum in place for about 15 minutes. That was really exciting and a little painful.

Sadly, none by husband/SO - mainly use my speculums during play exams over webcam. Will occasionally use them on myself and a propped up mirror to take a look.

My Collins is a medium and I think it is right for me.

Dr fireman as Amethyst said the Collins speculum is probably the easiest speculum to use for a beginner at home as it does not need to be rotated before opening. The most important point to remember when using a speculum is never to fully close it as it can cause pinching , something you never want to happen.

I get the impression that for some of you ladies, speculum exams don't happen often enough.

i would hope gentle encouragement would help increase the frequency of exams.

let us know how that may or has worked out.

@inquisitive I think once or twice a month for a speculum is about right really. If my husband did it more it might not be as exciting when it happens.

My boyfriend loves to rp. So, about twice a month he insists on giving me a pelvic exam. He used to do it more often but it was beginning to lose its excitement. He's very good at it and always has a hand mirror so I can take a look at myself too. It's honestly the best experience ever!

My boyfriend loves to rp. So, about twice a month he insists on giving me a pelvic exam. He used to do it more often but it was beginning to lose its excitement. He's very good at it and always has a hand mirror so I can take a look at myself too. It's honestly the best experience ever!

Kitty, if you ever wanted a more thorough exam, I would happily book you in for an appointment!

In all seriousness, it is great to hear your bf has the interest and is good at it!

James 😃

My bf likes watching exams more than actually doing them to me, so I see a play doctor. We do that a couple of times a month on average.

A couple of times a month at least by Hubby.

We have an old gyno chair and a playroom so it is part of our regular play.

Somehow I have never looked at this thread . I also have never had a real life play exam - oh my I am sooo looking forward to it ! Switchablesusie, OMG that is sooo flippin hot !

I have a Graves speculum which I "borrowed" some years ago. I must admit I was titillated at the time at the thought of examining my female friends. Time has eroded that now. I would use it now but only for a real exam. It does nothing for me now.

One day I hope that my SO and I will be able to encorporate this into our playtime. We just need to live closer to eachother.

For me it's typically one a week.

I have never had an exam at home. I think it might be fun but only if the person who is doing it knows what he/she is doing.

Is doing at home?