As a young child I remember my mother and her friends making comments to the affect that, "A woman always falls in love with her gynecologist". My young mind did not grasp the implications of this remark until a few years later when I came into possession of two very detailed medical texts.
The books had vivid descriptions, with pictures and drawings, of what took place during a female exam and how the procedure was done. I studied them from cover-to-cover and realized why a woman would make such a statement.
When I got married, I tried to get my ex-wife to talk about her visits to the doctor and how she felt being intimately examined by a male doctor. This was many years ago and husbands were not supposed to question what went on between doctor and patient. Husbands were not welcome during exams nor in the delivery room. I cannot say if my ex had any feelings for the doctors she saw, but she always wore a certain necklace whenever she was going for a full exam.
Gradually, things started to change. Husbands could join their spouse in the delivery room and most doctors permitted the partner to be present during exams.
My present wife likes me to go with her for her exams. We are both into med-fet so we often talk about her exams while she relives every detail about what took place. Although she says she is indifferent to a woman or man examining her, she then says she prefers the touch of a male. I have seen her get aroused by a male doctor and she admits that she has gotten aroused on more than one occasion by other doctors. Additionally, her libido is highly increased for several days or weeks after an exam by a male doctor.
So far as falling in love, she says she has never had any romantic inclinations toward any doctor. If a woman were to go to the same gyn for a long period of time, a love relationship might develop, But in the military community where you seldom see the same doctor more than once or twice, the doctors are always pressed for time, and a chaperone is present, falling in love is highly improbable. We cannot speak for others but wife and I have concluded that it is the excitement of a strange man exploring all of her private and erogenous parts that results in a high state lust - not love.