Watching your significant other examined

Hi there,

Long time no speak 😃

Apart from being a devoted playdoc, I'm also heavily into watching my girl get examined by a real doctor. This has always held true: my first such opportunity arose more than 15 years ago, when my then girlfriend (horrified by doctors) asked that I follow her in the examination room. Since then I've always got a huge kick out of such situations. Nowadays my wife (who knows about my kinks) always asks the doctor if it's ok for her husband to be present, and the doctor never says no.

I'm unsure what the psychological foundation of this whole thing is -- I suspect I'm a kind of "medical peeping tom" (even though any other kind of erotic "spying" leaves me cold). Maybe it's related to the fact that I used to share a room with my little sister, who was examined in front on me during house calls by the neighbourhood doctor several times between the ages of 4 and 12-13. Anyway, I've always preferred to indulge and enjoy rather than analyze when it comes to such matters.

But to see my woman sitting up on that examination table, topless, the doctor listening to her heart all over her chest, the stethoscope making that sound, almost like a kiss, as it moves from spot to spot, her face unsmilingly betraying her nervousness and mild embarrassment -- well. Those, my friends, are moments to savour and cherish.

Just a note: after I've been with her to the doctor's, a time of fantastic sex emerges. It lasts at least a month.

I wrote this post because I was wondering whether there are others who are "medical peeping toms", like me. I'd love to hear of experiences -- or simply your thoughts on the matter.

Regards,

MwS

Next time ask the Dr. to teach you how to do a breast exam on her (even if you already know) 😃)

@Honeypot, that is a *brilliant* idea.

Well, dear MWS,

what you write is completely familiar to me. Me too, I love to be something like a "medical peeping tom", especially as far as auscultation with the stethoscope is concerned. But also other medical examinations.

My "kick" arose, when I had the opportunity to watch a class mate being stethed by the school doctor - topless! These seconds influenced my whole life, up to this very day. From this moment on, I was addicted to the stethoscope on naked breasts. Later, I had the chance to accompany my then girl friend to her gynecologist for her pill exam. It was a great moment to observe the speculum sliding into her cunt! We had wonderful sex afterwards.

For me - as it is for you - real doctor situations a the real thing. Real doctor (preferably female) and real patient (preferably female, too). That is it for me. But these are rather rare situations. The only opportunity is with your wife/girl friend. Other girls or women would not allow you to follow her into the exam room. My other kink is to watch a "new" unknown women being stethed. That is like having sex with her for the first time. When she undresses for the Stethoscope, that is for me a great moment. Sometimes, I've the great chance to watch a "new patient" to be stethed and then, to steth her myself. My girl friend (who knows about my kinks) sometimes invites friends of hers to our playdoc sessions. And that is the great opportunity...

One thing I loved very much in your post is the "sound of the stethoscope, almost like a kiss, when it moves from spot to spot." I wouldn't have been able to describe this lovely, erotic, sensual sound better than you do. It's really among the most arousing sounds I can imagine. For me, it's also very important, how the stethoscope is moved from spot to spot: very slowly, tenderly and soft, so that diaphragm can produce this sound. And when her skin is a bit moist by excitement or arousal, the sound is even better. And when she has just put off her bra where the skin is hot and moist underneath...

I thank you very much for your sensual and erotic contribution! Carry on, and good luck.

RedStethoscopeGuy

Especially for the ob/gyn exams when my wife was pregnant, she would always want me there with her, as her English wasn't good, as she had only recently come this this country. I liked the 4 ob/gyn docs, all women, that rotated seeing her for what was at least monthly until she had the baby. I loved asking the docs each time if it was still safe to have sex, making sure i wouldn't be hurting anything. There was a mild thrill about the implications that we were doing it.

Then there was my gf, when she had a procedure to enhance her breasts a bit, to get them back to the way she remembered them when she was younger. I liked that she wanted me to be there for the follow up visits to the surgeon, for him to check the progress that things were okay. She would have to unravel all this bandaging that was wrapped around her chest to help keep them still, in place. Having her do that in front of the young Asian male surgeon & maybe a lady nurse/assistant in the room too.

There was what i thought about all that then, and how i felt at the time. I think after all of this interaction on Zity and where i am now, i think these same experiences now would be even more hot & exciting than they were then. especially with some of the stories you folks have shared in mind.

I had to take my wife to the emergency dept when she had pains in her upper abdomen and lower chest. We were taken into a cubicle and a nurse assisted my wife to remove her top and bra then place on a rear fastening gown. A female doctor examined her first lifting the gown up exposing her stomach which she palpated and percussed over then auscultated. After a short time an older male doctor entered and asked her a few questions. He the asked to pull her gown down as he needed to listen to her heart. I felt suddenly aroused as the doctor pulled the gown down do her waist. I watched as he listened to her heart lifting her left breast up to place the stethoscope underneath. It was a nice sight although she said after that it was humiliating and she felt very exposed.

I think watching my gf get examined by her gyno would be quite a turn-on to me. Unfortunately, I have never had the opportunity so far.

[...] He the asked to pull her gown down as he needed to listen to her heart. I felt suddenly aroused as the doctor pulled the gown down do her waist. I watched as he listened to her heart lifting her left breast up to place the stethoscope underneath. It was a nice sight although she said after that it was humiliating and she felt very exposed.

Humiliation and exposure are definitely keywords here. I dislike med fet videos in which the doctor goes out of his way to humiliate the patient, but if the humiliation comes naturally and is expressed only implicitly, then that's the horniest situation in the world.

I hope your wife is ok, and thanks for sharing.

Regards

I never got to see my old girlfriend( the one with the Heart murmur) get Stethed, but I did go with her when she had an echocardiogram done as the follow up to the appointment she had where the Doctor first told her she had a Heart murmur.....I actually got to see her Heart muscle in all it's glory! I got to see the entire Heart muscle contract and expand, the different chambers squeeze and relax, and all of her valves open and close...and got to see the leaky valve as the blood back flowed! Needless to say She knew I was super turned on....we went back to her house and has the best sex EVER!

I regularly have the opportunity to see my gf get examined. She and I both have the same internist (a thorough academic). I regularly accompany her and witness her annual physical exam. I also accompany and witness her annual visits to her gynecologist.

I have never seen any of my partners getting examined

My current partner does know of my interests and might let me attend a medical with him one day.

I love that you are a peeking Tom as well. I am too. Love seeing people exposed behind a curtain or something like that.

Has anyone been examined with or have watched a friend of theirs get a physical exam before?

I absolutely love this. My spouse hardly goes to the Dr but when he does you bet I'll be there! I honestly get jealous too.. Like hey-thats mine- let me do it :-P

I absolutely love this! I will do anything in my power to get in that exam room with her! So far I haven't had to best visuals or line of sights but I do my best. Waiting for the perfect one and I will share!

I have accompanied several friends into the exam room. The most memorable was probably 25 years ago. A very good friend of mine was suffering from symptoms of a hemorrhoid. He knew he would eventually have to visit doctor about the problem. He had asked for my advice as to what kind of doctor he should see. I told him that a proctologist was obviously the best choice.

After scheduling the exam, he started to get cold feet, and was considering canceling the appointment. I told him that he would eventually need to see someone. I tend to be somewhat of a voyeur, and one of my fetishes is watching someone be embarrassed during an exam, so I told him that I would be willing to be his "moral support" during his doctor visit. I don't think he was completely aware of what I meant.

Anyway, when the day of the appointment arrived, I stopped by his house t pick him up. He was extremely nervous and apprehensive. He kept asking me questions about what the doctor might do to him. I tried to reassure him that it wouldn't be that big a deal. I told him the doctor would probably just have him lower his pants and underwear, and have a look at his butthole. He seemed to calm down somewhat.

As we were sitting in the waiting room, a nurse came out and called my friend's name. I assumed I would be remaining in the waiting room. Instead, my friend said to me "You have to come in with me". Wow, what luck! Anyway, when we walked into the exam room the doctor was seated at a desk in the corner of the exam room. When he saw the both of us entering, I could see the curious look on his face, so I immediately spoke up. I said "Dennis wants me to be his moral support". The doctor didn't seem too pleased, but I imagine he didn't want to make an issue of it. He simply told me to have a seat. There was a chair situated about 3 feet from the exam table, so I sat down.

The doctor asked Dennis a few questions about his chief complaint. Then he told Dennis to take a seat on the exam table, and to remove his shirt. I wasn't expecting him to do a complete body check, and obviously neither was Dennis.

After checking vitals, stething, etc., the doctor told Dennis to hop down off the table, and remove his jeans and "underpants". I could immediately see the look of panic on Dennis's face. He did what the doctor asked, and now there he was standing with nothing but his socks on. Then the doctor told him to bend over and touch his toes. Dennis couldn't quite bend over that far, but it was far enough for the doctor to spread his cheeks and stick his finger in. Dennis let out a small gasp, but it was over quickly. Then the doctor told Dennis to get back on the table, and lie on his left side. Then he did another inspection of the rectal area. Then he proceeded to enter Dennis again, only this time he was much more thorough. Since Dennis was facing me, I could see the look of fear, dread and humiliation on his face. I was wondering if Dennis was now regretting his decision to have me in the exam room with him.

After this second rectal exam, the doctor had Dennis sit up again, on the end of the exam table. At this point the doctor pulled out the stirrups. I had never seen stirrups like these before. Actually they were leg rests. They were much higher than regular stirrups. The patient lifted his legs up and rested them on the leg rests. Now Dennis had his legs suspended extremely high, and he glanced over at me, a completely look of fear and embarrassment on his face.

I was beginning to get the feeling that the doctor was, in essence, trying to punish and embarrass Dennis for feeling a need to have me in the room.

At this point the doctor said: "I am going to have to do a sigmoidocopy on you. I'll need you to try to relax. You will most likely feel a strong urge to move your bowels, but you'll be okay".

As soon as the sigmoidoscope was introduced into Dennis's rectum, Dennis started to squirm and protest that was hurting him. The doctor reassured him that it would be "over soon". Then Dennis started to panic, begging the doctor to stop, because he had to use the bathroom. The doctor kept insisting that it was just a sensation. I was somewhat difficult to watch your good friend pleading that " I have to go. I have to go".

When the exam was finally over, Dennis was weak as a kitten. As he was dressing, I could tell he had a hard time looking at me. I tried to reassure him, but it was quite a few months before Dennis was even able to talk to me.

Personally, I can't imagine using a sigmoidoscope on a male patient who hasn't been given the opportunity to use at least one Fleet enema, not that the use would be going that far up and in. I am not doubting the content, but it is quite similar to a post from 2014 by the same poster.

Only time I watched a significant other getting an exam was my brother one time we got physicals, but I was too worried about mine to really pay attention.

Edit: Writting this has lead to my memory getting better on this matter. I remember sitting on front of doctors desk fully clothed and my brother on the exam table on his underwear, after some basic checks done by the nurse (old female) she checked his genitals and found out his foreskin was sticked to his glans. After that the doctor (female in her 30s) did pretty much the same thing.

Then it was my turn.

I'll be honest, I never had the opportunity for this. I do hope that my girlfriend takes me with her for her next exam. The last time I asked, she refused but I can understand this, because it might be embarrassing for her and I do respect that.

I had multiple thoughts about this topic, some day dreams of us being at the real doctor together. I was watching her during the auscultation, which is the most arousing part of medical fetish for me. Almost makes me jealous of the doctor.

I went with my boyfriend to the doctor once and watched his exam. He got a little turned on, and then later when we got home he suggested we play doctor. ?? It was worth it to go with him, because he recommended it not even knowing I’m super into exams.

I've seen a decent amount of exams for my significant other. Most of them though were not really things where I'd get aroused. She had a neurological scare that took a few months to resolve (everything was fine) and went with her for those. Her pregnancy was also difficult so went to a lot of those with her, but that was a trying time for us both, so again, there wasn't really anything exciting from it.

The only time one had an appeal (and it's probably more in retrospect than at the time) was when she got mono early in our relationship. She felt awful, so I drove her to an urgent care. Once they diagnosed her the doctor recommended a steroid injection to help with swelling. To her surprise, he wanted to give it to her in her butt, so she dropped her pants and bent over the exam table. He prepped the shot and then rolled up one of the sides of her underwear, prepped the area, and then did the injection. I felt bad for her and knew she was embarrassed, so it's really only after some time that I've reflected on that time with kinkier interest.

Mine is not my significant other but rather my mother. I have a nursing background and my mother is elderly at 88 yo. She has a few mobility issues in things like getting on the exam table, standing for some parts of her exam etc. She has some problems understanding what the doctor says in the exam and then his recommendations etc at the end of the exam.

When she is called to the exam room I will go with her and assist her at the vitals ( height, weight, temp, help her stand when getting bp taken, help her to the restroom for her urine specimen, etc). When the nurse is done she will normally reach into a cabinet and bring out an exam gown and ask she changes over to it. I will then help her undress to include her bra and panties. Get the gown on her and then her up onto the exam table. The doctor comes and he has questions and it helps I am there for she is not always clear on what the doctor is asking. He will do his exam of head, hair, eyes, ears, mouth, throat, glands etc. Few times he had had the nurse come and give her an ear cleaning.

After he does those things he will have her sitting on the exam table and will untie her gown in the back and bring it forward to her lap thus exposing her breasts. Then hand behind her head which I normally get her in position for and he gives the exam of the breast. He will do and I have not asked the reason but checks her nipples in a detailed manner. She never complains or says it hurts. Does both nipples. After use of the stethoscope and back exam he has me lay her down on her back. There he feels her abdomen, just under her arms and side and lower abdomen. Will push her gown down to just a bit under the start of her pubic patch. He pushes in and sometimes she jumps and says it tickles. After that is done he has her raise up and checks her spine and lower back just above the butt.

She then stands and he removes her exam gown and I will stand by her and steady her. He has her do agility items like arms extended, do some squats, up on toes etc.

After that is done we both help her to get up on the table sitting. He swings the stirrups out and up and then we will both lean her back down on her back. Then guide her feet into the stirrups and he and I will move her torso to the tables edge. He puts on exam gloves and comes over and spreads her knees a bit wider, sits on a stool and slides between her legs. He will check around her pelvic area, pulls her lips apart and will insert his finger into her. She always jumps a bit and I stand by her upper body and have my hands on her shoulders and steady her. He will always ask her by name if she is having unprotected sex and has multiple partners. She will laugh and say don't I wish, those days are done for me.

He then moves her out of the stirrups and body up on the table and he will say turn her on her right side, I know the rectal is coming so I will have her move one knee to her chest and other straight out, he puts on clean exam gloves and puts some lube on it and returns and pulls up her top cheek and inserts his finger. I stand by her and with one hand hold her shoulder and other on her head and hair. She will jump a bit when he moves his finger around inside of her. He then goes over to the counter and gets a anal scope and brings that back and as she lays on her side inserts it into her. She always tells him "thats cold" and he says we will warm it next time and she says that what you said last time. That gets a bit of laughter in the room. He moves the scope around as its inside her and he looks thru the lense, I can feel her jump several times given I am holding her shoulder/head. He seems from my angle of observation and the length of the scope he uses to have it a good ways up into her rectum. She jumps several times and he will tell her sometimes to hand in there as he wants to look a bit deeper up in this area.

After he is done she remains on her side and I will clean her butt up with towels and he then tells her she can get dressed.